I’ve Seen A Lot Of Posts Like This Recently, And I Just Wanted To Say In Our Community—your Partners

I’ve seen a lot of posts like this recently, and I just wanted to say in our community—your partners deserve to be seen. Large partners deserve respect! If you love your partner, you don’t hide them. Full stop. 🗣️

I work a very big corporate job, have for years—and guess what? Biggie comes to every event, every game, every dinner. Arm in arm, we walk in together, and I’m never shy about saying, “Yep. That’s my man.” And you know what? No one questions it anymore. Because I don’t leave any room for that.

I have a super strict, honestly pretty harsh father—and before Biggie, I’d only ever introduced one person to him. But Biggie? He met him right away. He comes to every holiday, every event, and even though I’m often uncomfortable around my own family, I bring him proudly every time—because he deserves to be there. My discomfort will never be more important than making sure he feels seen, loved, and included. That’s what it means to show up for your partner.

When I was younger, people used to question me or make comments about my partner’s size. But now? I command the room. I love him fiercely, treat him like my equal, and show him off with pride—and I dare anyone to challenge that. I’m just as loving (and yes, just as demanding) as I would be with any partner. His size doesn’t change his worth, or how seriously I take him.

And honestly? If you’re leaving room for your friends or family to question why you’re dating a larger person, then you’re not advocating for them enough. Period. Your partner isn’t just their body—people should know all the incredible things about them, and if you’re not making that loud and clear, it’s time to reflect. They deserve to be loved out loud.

So if you’re out here loving someone big? Don’t shrink them. Don’t hide. Be loud. Be proud. Be a good partner. They deserve nothing less.