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Did you perhaps see any where he is wearing, still black pants and dark hair, but with a white shirt with buttons and maybe black shirt underneath.
Or the shirt being half white half black/grey.
And them standing on a line at the end of the video, talking a bit?? ๐ฑ
I think it might not be the best quality video, Maybe :-)
Rina, i dont know if you can help me with this or maybe your followers. But i have this thing stuck in my head. It is an EXO performance, but the only thing i remember from it is, that suho was wearing Black Pants, a Blue shirt, Maybe a white t-shirt under neath and he has dark hair in the video. It is a Live performance.. Do you or any of your followers, might, remember or know what this permance is? :-D
โฆโฆ I donโt know, honestly??? Iโll try and see whether Iโll find it, but for now
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Erotic fic and porn can be a lot of fun! But if you arenโt being provided with adequate sex ed through other channels (comprehensive sexual education, frank and open discussions with trusted adults, etc.), turning to fanfic and porn for your understanding of sex is gonna leave some major blindspots and may leave you with some unrealistic expectations. While thereโs nothing wrong with these kinds of erotica, they are fictional and tend to leave out a lot of the more realistic, human parts of sex - they serve a great purpose, but that purpose isnโt primarily educational. The following is an incomplete list of some things you should probably know about sex that a lot of fic and porn tends to leave out:
It isnโt always super hot or super sweet. Sometimes itโs super silly. Or sometimes itโs sort of mundane and youโre both simply scratching an itch. Thatโs fine too. (Hell, sometimes youโre talking about comic books while boning and your partner is laughing that youโre getting REALLY ANGRY about spider-man while theyโre going to town on you.)
You will probably not climax at the same moment. Itโs a sweet idea, but extremely hard to coordinate, and if all your concentration is going into coming at the exact same moment, youโre probably not enjoying yourselves as much as you might.ย
Sometimes bodies make weird, goofy noises. Squelching, slapping, air-escaping, un-sexy noises. Itโs okay to laugh at this.ย
Hell, itโs okay to laugh during sex in general.
Sometimes you fart. Sometimes you fart while someone is going down on you and it is embarrassing as hell. This isnโt the end of the world. Embarrassing body things happen. Heck, sometimes, with anal, thereโs a little poo. You get over it.
Sometimes sex isโฆ kinda bad? This doesnโt mean itโs assault, or something traumatic โ sometimes itโs consensual but just kinda bleh and not what you hoped for. The best thing to do (if youโre talking about sex with a partner and not just a hook up who you can not call back) is talk to them about it. Figure out what went wrong, what you enjoy and what you donโt, and communicate what techniques you do and donโt like. Also donโt be afraid to stop someone in the middle of the sex act youโre not enjoying and offer guidance on how to help make it good for you too. (Side tip: masturbation makes great research into what you personally do and donโt enjoy sexually)
You wonโt enjoy every sex act. Not every body is wired to find every thing pleasurable. You might find anal does nothing for you. You may find g-spot stimulation just makes you really anxious that youโre about to pee. You may not enjoy giving or receiving oral. Youโre not broken if you donโt like something that every pornstar or smutty fanfic protagonist seems to have earth-shattering orgasms from. Everyoneโs got nerve endings in a range of places โ itโs quite literally, different strokes for different folks.
On that note, not all orgasms are earth-shattering. Sometimes it just feels warm and nice. Thatโs fine too.ย
Sometimes, if youโre neutral on a sex act and your partner loves it, you can suck it up for them, and theyโll suck up something theyโre not crazy about for your pleasure in return. But communicate preferences with each other! Know that when a partner does that thing you love that they donโt get much from, that itโs an act of care, and vice versa.ย
Falling asleep in each otherโs arms right after wild passionate sex seems really romantic, but dried and crusty fluids are gonna be a bitch in the morning. Also, after sex, you should both (regardless of your equipment) go pee to clear out the urethra of any gunk or bacteria to reduce risk of a UTI.ย
Putting a towel down on the bed before sex means you donโt have to sleep on wet funky sheets. (itโs also verrrrrry useful for period sex if you or your partner menstruate.)
A lot of people donโt like dirty talk, or rough sex. Always ask first. (Fanfic on the whole does a better job than porn at showing communication, but a lot of it is still highly fictive on this point)
PROTECTION PROTECTION PROTECTION. Use condoms, dental dams, etc. not just to prevent pregnancy, but to reduce risk of STIs. (Yes, even couples with the same genitals who donโt need to worry about pregnancy).
Lube is great and very important, but random goopy things around you are not good lube. Random oils especially, since oil doesnโt flush out well and can trap bacteria inside the body โ oil-based lubricant also degrades condoms. Use lube specifically designed for intimate purposes. Water-based and silicone-based lubes help sex feel really good!
Bigger isnโt necessarily better. A lot of people with vaginas donโt enjoy the feeling of being repeatedly punched in the cervix by a monster cock. Some people enjoy a larger size when being penetrated by an appendage or toy and some donโt.
Bodies are hairy. Genitals are hairy. You may get a pube stuck in your teeth at some point. If your partner is WAY fuzzier than porn ever led you to believe theyโd be, well, thatโs normal.ย
Not everyone loves the taste of ejaculate. Sometimes itโs nasty (flavor tends to vary from person to person depending on their diet, but sometimes you just really donโt like it no matter what. Some of us hate the taste of peanut butter. People donโt always like things). Itโs okay not to swallow, or to request a penis-having partner warn you so they donโt ejaculate in your mouth (in fact, itโs polite for them to do the latter).ย
If youโre gonna have shower sex, get one of those rubbery mats for the shower floor that gives you traction, because otherwise itโs super embarrassing to call for an ambulance while dripping wet and naked because you slipped and accidentally broke something and your partner got a concussion while you were trying to bang in the shower.ย
Moaning and screaming wildly during sex is fun but it will make the neighbors in the apartments adjacent to you hate you. Make choices accordingly.ย
No wonder your popular on tumblr....your an adult virgin
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i had to get on my laptop to post this. You better appreciate itโฆ..bitch
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