Totally Not Rewatching My Favorite Anime Again. I Really Need To Work On The Light Novel Some More.

“Fall for someone who makes you love yourself a bit more.”

— Unknown

For the ones who become important to me, but never stick around.

A lot of the girls on here really need a huge, huge comforting hug from a man with big arms & it's evident more and more each day

im sorry, hope youre doing well <3

I'm doing ok. Not exactly what you are sorry about, since you're anon. But I hope you're doing well too.

Another topic that I have been thinking of lately.

I always see the reasoning for why a girl wants an older man, and it always points to daddy issues. But what about someone like me, who wants to take care of a younger girl?

Well, I think I figured it out, at least for what applies to me. And it's really not all that different, just a little harder. The answer? Years of neglect, and not wanting someone else to feel the same pain that I have felt. Having absent parents, one physically was never there because the other left him. And the other was so focused on herself that she neglected her kids. Then onto adulthood. Neglected by partners, tossed to the side, emotionally ignored for no reason at all. So to be able to help save someone from that same trauma, I think that is what has developed me into who I am today.

Sure, it's not the overly aggressive Dom that everyone imagines, but that's not all there is to this lifestyle. It should be more about genuine care for your little, not just about abusing them. All that will do is break them, and they will eventually leave you for someone that actually cares.

I bet you'd love my hand running through your hair as I'm in your mouth. Telling you how good you're doing for me as you look up with those big pretty eyes. Taking your lips off of me so I can bend closer to you and consume your lips with my own, deeply, thoroughly. Fuckk

I've legitimately had this happen to me. If only I truly knew what was on her mind

You want to call yourself her daddy?

What’s her favorite color? What’s something that always makes her laugh? What are her goals? Her dreams? What is she afraid of? Do you know what she likes do to when she wants to relax? Do you know what helps her when she’s had a bad day? Can you recognize when she needs extra love because she’s feeling needy but doesn’t want to say anything? Can you tell when she’s bothered by something? Do you know her favorite way to be held, to be cuddled, to be wrapped up in your arms? Are you her safe place to go to when the world gets scary? Does she feel safe opening up to you? Does she feel like she can tell you anything? Do you punish from a place of love/caring, for correction of her destructive behaviors, for her own good? Do you see her as a person, a whole complete, complicated person? Do you make her feel respected and cherished? Do you protect her? Do you take care of her?

Being daddy is way more than fucking her, and if you’re not ready to take her heart, mind, body and soul, and protect & treat them with all the love, care, tenderness, respect that you are capable of giving, then you’re not her daddy. You’re just some asshole who wants to be called that. And you can get fucked.