Monika X Reader With Autism Headcanons

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Scenting headcanons

Basically, it's a term that people use to rub scent gland on others or nuzzle up against other person's gland.

Because there is a scent gland on the wrist, if people hold hands to greet, there is a possibility of accidental touching it, so greetings usually only nod.

In close relationships, they grab each other's wrists and shake them lightly.

Don't flirt with anyone who is certain that someone has intentionally been scenting.

It's very instinctive to scenting someone people think they're close to, so usually people like physical affection more than b.h..

Alphas have a stronger dominant tendency, the stronger the desire to scenting.

Unconsent scenting is usually classified as sexual harassment.

The act of scenting a close person creates a comfortable feeling for both themselves and the other person.

etc etc

Alpha headcanons

Alphas usually the tallest one among other dynamics, and they enjoy being big spoons using their height.

Alphas are very aggressive, but they are also less sensitive to personal space. However, they don't allow approach to what they claim to be their own.

Alphas value exterior design more than interior one and are obsessed with the idea of having their own house. It originates from their desire to have a den.

Alphas are very creative. That's why there's a saying 'Betas discover, Alphas invent'.

Young Alphas' desire for exploration is not great, but they often follow their friends to protect them, Betas and Omegas.

Alphas' ideal body type is tall and muscular body.

Alpha women don't experience chest pain when exercising because they have small breasts and their cooper ligaments are more developed than other dynamics, so their breasts are not easily shaken.

Alphas' canine is very smooth. It is more for making marks than for offensive use.

Most of Gym users are Alphas. They like to show off their bodies while exercising and often enjoy taking off their top.

Alphas' sense of smell is good at smelling threat, fear, and pain, so they are good at finding injured people at the disaster site.

etc etc

Headcannons about ABO dynamics's Evolution during history? Something that really fascinantes me about the omegaverse is the biological aspect of It and the Evolution that the 'secondary sexes and dynamics may have experienced over the years. Did alphas, omegas and betas exist since the beginning of the human race? Or at first there were only beta men and women and the rest of the dynamics appeared later?

I like to imagine that originally only existed beta men and women, but at some point the human race was at such big risk of becoming extinct that the secondary alpha/omega dynamics appeared as a mechanism to guarantee a higher chance of reproduction. The capacity of impregnating and getting pregnant being independent from the first sex (man or woman) would allow communities to keep growing despite having a lack of men or women, because there would still be a certain percentage of Alpha women/ omega men that can impregnate/be pregnant and compensate the lack of biological men and women (If we asume that the possibilities of becoming Alpha, beta and omega are all the same)

happy monday!

I've seen it both ways, I prefer writing the "always been this way" style because honestly it makes it easier for me and i have less questions I have to muddle through in the worldbuilding journey.

Here's some of my considerations -

the beta loving community is strong! making betas = normal humans doesn't normally play well with that crowd. Of course, I never write things or refrain from writing things for the pleasure of other people, but still.

if there was an event that impacted fertility rates like that - what's the point of having betas at all? and beyond that does that mean all alphas men and/or amab? are all omegas women and/or afab?

If not - this turns into sort of two phenomenons, 1. being the hypersexuality and hyper-fertility and 2. this suggests biologically at some point teens might develop the genitalia and secondary sex characteristics normally biologically reserved for the opposite gender. With my very small knowledge of what life is like as an intersex individual, I doubt that society would suddenly jump on this train like it's the bee's knees. What then???

Human evolution moves slowly - there are several vestigial elements that are fading out of the genome everyday - like having wisdom teeth, appendix, and a specific type of ear muscle. What sort of event/situation could spark such a large scale change so quickly (even over hundreds of years)?

If it's an evolution thing, that suggests an in and out group. Who are the out-group and what if they're not too into the whole omegaverse thing? (again looping back to the question of betas). Is the in group then a different specie of human alltogether?

If the purpose of this is to get fertility rates up, logically it wouldn't be the first thing that occured. Polyamory would likely become more popular - especially men with multiple wives unfortunately. The human litter size might get bigger. It would become socially acceptable to have children younger - or maybe menopause would start getting later and later. Maybe both. Having children would also need to become a lot cheaper - and if your society is quasi-modern, people would likely need massive incentives if the situation really was that dire. Nobody wants to have a baby just for that baby to have to experience the end of the world.

Regardless of all these considerations above, for anyone interested in developing their own omegaverse rules - do consider a punnet square. If you don't just want to have alphas and omegas, there needs to be some combination of their genes that leads to a beta - or they'll simply cease to exist.

Fertility/population is a tricky thing to use as a fantasy mechanism because in the real world, declining birth rates can't usually be attributed to one single thing - normally it's a multitude of factors converging on one another. Of course, this is inherently a fantastical genre which gives us all the freedom to play and have a little fun making stuff up along the way.

Omega headcanons

Omegas are usually smaller than other dynamics, so they are generally little spoons.

In general, Omegas take the role of caregiver and caretaker.

Omegas are picky about interior design, and prefer a soft and round design.

Even if Omegas don't have pups, they use edge guards sometimes.

People think that Omega is the smartest one, but it isn't true. It only seems because of the vagabond tendency of Beta and the inability to concentrate of Alpha, and Omegas have a high concentration.

Beta focuse on the whole, and Omegas focuse on one.

If Omegas is on the ropes, they can become more aggressive than Alphas.

Omegas have the most closed and introverted personality compared to other dynamics.

Omegas' ideal body type is chubby and ruddy.

Omegas' sense of smell is good at smelling nature, so when they are young, they like to go out and collect grasses and flowers.

Omegas tend to do yoga at home, when they have to excercise.

Omegas are possesive and territorial like Alphas, but unlike them, Omegas express indirectly and subtly.

Omegas' canine is the smallest one among all dynamics, still, theirs are sharp.

Omega women have the largest bust and Omega men have the largest bust among men with different secondary genders.

When Omega men are pregnant, their breasts grow as their mammary glands develop.

Omegas have a submissive instinct, but that doesn't mean they're born slaves. They can always be selfish for their own benefit.

etc etc

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Imagine youtube in the a/b/o universe

Titles like ‘asking my alpha questions omegas want to know 🙈’ or ‘ask a beta- Q&A’

Cringy Youtube couples doing clickbaiting titles like ‘what we did what while I was in heat?? 😳’ or ‘telling my mate I don’t like his scent?? (Bad reaction)

Videos the older generation find too personal and unbecoming of the youth like ‘a tour of my nest!’ Or ‘top ten things to have in heat/rut!’

Helpful videos like ‘how to nest on a budget’, ‘things you should know before you mate’ and ‘things I wish I knew when I had pups’

Videos by the arrogant fuck boy alphas like ‘things omegas do that alphas hate’ or ‘why are omega so clingy?’ Which get clap backed with omega and beta videos like ‘reasons why we don’t want to date you’

ASMR videos for different genders like ‘sounds for soothing omegas 24 hours’ or ‘alpha calming videos’ or ‘satisfying sounds beta addition’

fandoms having complications like ‘zendaya using her alpha energy for five minutes straight’ or ‘icarly best nostalgic pack moments’

even weirder buzzfeed and buzzfeed quiz videos like ‘describe your scent in five pictures and we’ll tell you when you’ll meet your soulmate 😍’

challenge videos like ‘trying not to use my alpha voice for one whole (1) week’ or ‘swapping roles for the day’

I get the appeal of having that one character who's the token "normie" and doesn't have as much weird quirks and interests compared to their friends, but I disagree with any ddlc "Everyone lives and is happy and hanging out together" au that makes Monika that friend. Let her be silly!

She has a bunch of weird skills and when asked about any of them she just goes "Oh yeah, my parents signed me up for classes when I was like, eleven." She likes cult classic movies and books and could rant about them for hours. She's very involved with social and politic issues and likes philosophy but never talks about any of this because she's scared to be seen as pretentious. She has a bunch of weirdly specific playlists and one of them is just songs from musicals, some of them being extremely obscure.

She likes games where you can build and take care of things, both for the relaxition and for the fun of playing god. She dissociates and overthinks a lot and one of the few things that calm her down is coffee, while milk and tea strangely make her more hyper and speed up her mind. She watches kid shows with silly "Be yourself, you're perfect just the way you are" messages when she's upset. She has a pinterest addiction.

She texts like a mom (cute emojis, not always understanding abreviations) and jokes like a dad (all her favorite jokes are puns from one of those joke books). She snorts when she laughs too hard. She doesn't know how to ride a bike. She owns a record player and prefers to listen to her music that way. She's a plant mom. She collects seashells, pressed flowers and wooden toys. She plays with legos. She needs glasses but refuses to wear them.

Superstition in A/B/O headcanons

There is a belief that if Betas have a high interest in sex, they take Alpha/Omega’s mates.

There was a superstition that eating slick which Omegas make while in the heat increases fertility.

People are superstitious about broken canine. If your canine is broken, you will be dead soon.

The lucky animal in most countries is the wolf.

In addition to the superstition that taking a picture takes away your soul, if you put your scent on your picture, your body changes with the person in the picture.

People with the scent of flower blooming in winter are expected to live very healthy.

There is a saying that the flower language of a flower with the same scent as the person's scent shows the person's character.

etc etc

Packs In Practice--Formal Packs

There’s a lot going on with formal packs, but hey… A finite amount of time.  My last day of pack week will be just getting all the stuff I missed.

As I established in yesterday’s post, (here) Formal Packs are packs with hierarchy, legal recognition, and a bunch of advantages similar to the institution of marriage.  Formal packs can be made up in many ways, from your ‘Traditional’ pack to a polyandry that will go down in history—But today we’ll be talking about traditional packs, Duel leader packs, all Beta packs, and Omega lead packs.  

1. Traditional Packs

The traditional pack got it’s name by being, well…  Traditional.  It’s the pack set up most people would assume if you said ’I’m in a Formal Pack.’  It is the most common, though not by much.

A traditional pack consists of an Alpha leader, four Betas, and a single Omega (always mated to the Alpha)

The traditional roles in a traditional pack are of the absolute ruler in the Alpha, an Omega to make babies, and four worker drone Betas (who are probably making babies.)  The omega is not actually at the bottom of the dominance hierarchy in this dynamic, though they do play a more passive role.  

But packs have this common tendency not to be traditional.  Here’s an example of a real (fictional) pack in action.

As you can see here, the Omega is not passive and the Betas all fill different purposes.  Erica is one of the few exceptions to complete cohabitation, but this is an urban pack—You can’t get space big enough for five adults and that many kids.  Even pooling your resources.  

2. Duel Leader Packs

There are two sorts Duel Leader packs: symmetrical and asymmetrical.  (Note that although packs do not need Alphas as leaders, I have chosen them for simplicity)  

2.1— The Symmetrical Pack

The Symmetrical Duel Leader pack has two Alphas who rule equally, both mated to different Omegas who are also equal, with the same amount of Betas under them.  Two Alpha packs can get quite large, but I have chosen to only include six of them.  Symmetrical packs, due to the stability lended by two equal leaders, have higher chances to become legacy packs (absorbing children) than other kind of packs…  If you can find two more people that naturally fall into the ‘Leading together’ dynamic: Not a common thing.

Here is a diagram for a symmetrical pack in action, ft. our friends from the Traditional Pack

2.2 Asymmetrical 

An Asymmetrical pack has two leaders at unequal standing.  The ‘lesser’ Alpha usually has less Betas under him and less authority than Head Alpha.  They are still both mated—That’s a common trend.  

Here is the asymmetrical version of Isabelle and Ryan’s pack.  

As you can see here, Ryan has only two Alphas under him while Isabelle has four (though to be honest, does Gabriel even count?)  Married couples are at equal standing.

I don’t know if I’m going to get the other two done tonight, because I am overextending myself, but I’ll reblog this with All Beta and Omega Lead packs as soon as I can, so check in~