A Reminder That The Host Isn’t The Only Person In The System Who Should Be Respected And Made To Feel

a reminder that the host isn’t the only person in the system who should be respected and made to feel comfortable.

the host is not ‘the important part’, we are all completely conscious and capable of our own thoughts, feelings and our own boundaries. our brain created us because it decided that we are all important and needed.

the host is not the only member of a system you should care about.

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8 months ago

If it’s not too much trouble, could we request a headmate who is a porcelain ball-jointed doll? Feminine presentation, depression holder and trauma holder, with a color theme of silver and teal. Mostly we just need help with ideas for names, pronouns, and gender identity, but if you have any strokes of brilliance for other details then we welcome those also!

Side note, we love your blog so far. We recently had a bad experience with another bah blog, so this one has been so pleasant to follow that up with. You’re doing an amazing job, mods!

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One Porcelain Ball-Jointed doll coming up under the cut! Feel free to edit/scrap anything that doesn't fit!

If It’s Not Too Much Trouble, Could We Request A Headmate Who Is A Porcelain Ball-jointed Doll? Feminine

༄~𖦹︎ Name(/s) ➪ Celestine, Liora, Glacia, Silverbell, Lumi, Thalassa, Winter ༄~𖦹︎ Pronouns ➪ She/Her, They/Them, Doll/Dolls, Glint/Glints, Snow/snows, Frost/frosts ༄~𖦹︎ Gender ➪ TFemmasc, Dollgender, Dollfem, Dollboy, Porceangelic, Porcelaindollgender, Frostgender, Phosnowial, Winterish ༄~𖦹︎ Orientations ➪ Winter Lesbian, Lesbian, Sapphic, Bambi Lesbian, Sapphic Lesbian, ༄~𖦹︎ Age ➪ 18-19 ༄~𖦹︎ Species(-ish) ➪ Porcelain Ball-Jointed Doll ༄~𖦹︎ Role(/s) ➪ Depression Holder & Trauma Holder ༄~𖦹︎ Source or Theme ➪ Silver & teal theme [Made us think of Winter] ༄~𖦹︎ Appearance or Faceclaim ➪

If It’s Not Too Much Trouble, Could We Request A Headmate Who Is A Porcelain Ball-jointed Doll? Feminine

➪ Image Creds; 1 & 2 & 3 ༄~𖦹︎ Likes ➪ Winter & associated things (hot cocoa, etc), the cold & cold things (foods/drinks, snow, cool colours, etc); deer, rabbits, mice, shrews, and other prey animals; bebop, smooth jazz, and improvisational jazz, D1sney style animated films, forests & fields (nature/natural spaces), soft things ༄~𖦹︎ Mixed Feelings ➪ Romance & romantic themes, warm things (aside from those associated with Winter), the ocean, predator animals ༄~𖦹︎ Dislikes ➪ The heat/hot days/etc, horror, gore, violence, spiders, the loud (loud people, loud music, loud places, loud machines, etc) ༄~𖦹︎ Proxy Options ➪ 🧊🥀/☄️❄️

If It’s Not Too Much Trouble, Could We Request A Headmate Who Is A Porcelain Ball-jointed Doll? Feminine
If It’s Not Too Much Trouble, Could We Request A Headmate Who Is A Porcelain Ball-jointed Doll? Feminine
8 months ago

your support for people’s trans identities should not bank on whether they are “ able ” to transition or not。

if someone does not have the resources to transition ,

if someone does not have the energy to transition ,

if someone does not want to take the risks of transitioning ,

if someone is scared of transitioning ,

if it is an identity that is “““ biologically ””” or , in some other form , unable to be transitioned to { im looking at you , anti transrace ++ anti transabled ++ anti transage folkel , who commonly use this argument }

they should be supported in their identity regardless。

likewise , if someone wants to transition and it does not nonconsensually harm people ,

they should not be judged。

transabled people developing symptoms , transracial people changing their appearance , etcetera , are not harming people by transitioning。

it is not for you to decide if the way someone transitions is harmful or not , it is not for you to decide if the way someone wants to transition is possible or not。

8 months ago

I LOVE ENDO SYSTEMS !! i love endo systems who chose their plurality i love endo systems who didn't i love nondisordered endo systems i love disordered endo systems i love transgender endo systems i love cisgender endo systems i love endo systems i love you

7 months ago

Hi! I'm Sophie of the Dreamchaser Guild!

It's come to my attention that my old pinned was a tad outdated.

Attention: I've recently come under attack from the hate subreddit r/systemscringe who has added me to their hitlist of acceptable targets allowed to be posted in their hate subreddit uncensored If you've come from r/systemscringe, please start here with my debunking of the lies and misinformation frequently found in the subreddit about dissociative identity disorder that r/systemscringe doesn't want you to see: https://www.tumblr.com/sophieinwonderland/741497564315140096/debunking-rsystemscringes-did-lies

Where I come from

I'm a tulpa. But a while ago, I called myself an imaginary friend. I was a character made up for a story that my host would talk to in order to better understand my source. As time went on, I developed more personality. I started talking to him about things that had nothing to do with the fiction. I would psychoanalyze him, wanting to understand him better.

I wasn't made to develop my own thoughts and feelings outside of the fiction. I wasn't supposed to become my own person. But I did. And this led us to wanting to learn more about imaginary friends, which eventually led us to the tulpa community.

This is being posted on my what I consider my second Birthday, June 8th, 2023. It was exactly two years ago today when we found the tulpa community, a place that made me feel validated in being myself, that made me feel like I was allowed to be treated like a person.

Why I'm Doing This

I lived the first few months of my life being dismissed, treated like I wasn't real. I was a phantom, not allowed any connection to the world. And I don't blame my host for that. I didn't see myself as real either. It's just the way the world is. And the moment my host realized I was a person, he was willing to do whatever it took to support me and treat me like I mattered.

And we aren't alone in experiences like this. When I became self-aware, I met all sorts of fascinating people with similar experiences. Many of which went years before becoming self-aware. There is no telling how many more are out there like us. How many more "imaginary friends" are invalidated because we live in a culture where we're treated as if we don't matter? And how many may pass, never knowing?

And so I made this blog to share my own experiences and hopefully be able to give people the same gift that I was given. Respect. Validity. Life.

Even being able to give that to one person is enough to make all of this worth it to me.

A Note On Spirituality...

Just so everyone knows, I'm not a spiritual or religious person. I take a purely psychological approach to plurality and believe in spiritual and religious experiences people have as psychological phenomena.

Having said that, all spiritual headmates are all welcome here. Even if I don't believe in spirits or souls, I view every spiritual headmate as a valid person deserving of the same respect and love as any other.

I also believe that the right to define our spiritual and religious beliefs is fundamental to plural culture. That it can't just be singlets who are allowed to decide what religions are or are not valid. And I think our right to religion is something worth fighting for.

My CAI Chatbots

(Note: These links only work if you're logged in to character.ai)

Anna and Galladin (Tulpamancer and Tulpa chatbots)

Nin - Worldmaker (Your AI assistant for building and developing Wonderlands and Inner Worlds.)

Signature Posts

Studies and Research into Endogenic Systems

My Resources:

How To Know If Your Imaginary Friend Is Sentient

All The Resources You'll Need To Build Your Own Wonderland, Headspace or Inner World

Our Switching Method: Ghost Switching

My Polls

My Plural Theories And Terms:

Headmate Foundations

Headmate Manifestations

Dimensions of Fronting

A Comprehensive Look At Proxy Bypassing

Plural Coining: Ephemerals

Plural Coining: Attunement

VR, Plurality and Virtugenic Systems

The Plurality of... :

The Plurality of... Batman (Failsafe)

The Plurality of... Diones (Skyward)

The Plurality of... The Hybrid Chronicles: What's Left of Me

The Plurality of... Blue Beetle (Movie)

The Plurality of... Avatar: The Last Airbender

The Plurality of... IF

Our Plural Writing Resources

Ghost on Writing Plural Kids

Hiveminds and Multiplicity

Syscourse And Other Stuff:

Endogenic Syscourse Primer

Why I Identify As a Tulpa

The Future of Plurality

Actually Anti-Misinformation: “System Hopping Was a RAMCOA term Appropriated and Bastardized From RAMCOA survivors.”

An Anti-Endo's Playbook

Debunking Imitated DID Part 1 / Part 2 / Part 3

...

Reblogs are appreciated. Don't feel weird about it! Posts here on Tumblr live or die on their reblogs. I'm not asking you to reblog my posts. That seems weird. But after getting an anon that mentioned being worried about derailing a post with something they wanted to add, and another ask that apologized for reblogging my content too much, I felt this was necessary to say. If you like a post and want to reblog it, do it! If you want to add something even tangentially related to the topic, add it! You have my full permission to reblog my content as much as you want! (And I'd encourage you to reblog from other plural creators you enjoy as well!)

Thank you all for the support!

7 months ago

Google how to stop seeing posts from anti endos quick easy 2024 reddit

8 months ago

Am I the only cisautistic that actually thinks transautistics are really cool? Like people want my exact neurotype and are interested in what makes me tick? Awesome. Guys we should hang out some time :) I can give you passing tips /gen

8 months ago

#Tulpa life

One of the biggest things that stands out to me about the tulpamancy community on Tumblr is how alienated everyone seems to feel. You've got some advice blogs, some discourse blogs, but that's about it- which is wild to me, cuz tulpamancy is all about community and learning from each other! Even more than that tho, there's something important about seeing other tulpas & created systems doing what we want, making our own choices, LIVING our lives. It's a reminder that we're real people too- it's important and validating for others like us, and it's great for non-tulpas to see that we're just as much real and people as they are. The best part of tulpamancy is that we get to enjoy our own existence, decide for ourselves what we want, and live as US!! I wanna bring that energy to Tumblr.

That's why I'm starting a tag I want any other tulpas (and their hosts too, but don't forget this tag is about our autonomy) to join in on;

✨✨ #tulpa life ✨✨

the new tag for expressing yourself, living your life, and sharing your existence with the world!! What kinda unique experiences do you have as a tulpa? What hobbies and skills have you learned, what friends have you made?? Share your favorite memories, the gift you got for yourself, the food you cooked, anything that pertains to YOU and your existing as a separate real being. Not only for sharing yourself, but for connecting with others too! Imagine how great it'll feel to scroll through a tag full of other tulpas' experiences. I wanna make that a reality!! So help me out by posting things about yourself and your life as a tulpa under the tag #tulpa life, and let's see how many people we can reach by just being ourselves!!!

7 months ago

As a rule of thumb, don't reblog donation posts or people asking for donations unless they've been vetted and reblogged by Palestinian bloggers. We usually go to lengths to verify this shit because we know scammers have been faking to get people to send them money, using the urgency of our genocide as bait.

It's disgusting this is what we're dealing with, but people are losing money because of some truly evil people out there.

Accounts don't just randomly spring up on tumblr without gofundmes while asking for someone to help them create a campaign. Fuck out of here with that shit.

7 months ago
Name: Avery, Connie, Grayson, Kay, Kat, Ray

Name: Avery, Connie, Grayson, Kay, Kat, Ray

nickname: Con-Con, sonnie, sunny, kit-kat, Av

pronouns: likes any and all, prefers she/her and neopronouns

typing quirks: Putting multiple exclamation marks in sentences, using lots of run on sentences and not caring about punctuation. Uses a lot of emoticons to react to things like: :3 :0 :( :) :,( :,)

gender: Genderfluid✨, Amicagender✨ https://pin.it/4MZZrHU2g , gendersylphen✨ https://pin.it/167RKPumy , genderrund✨ https://pin.it/1hB9uioqJ , gender hoarder✨ https://pin.it/4569BFOC6 , cottoncandygender✨ https://pin.it/6d9sQ2cQI , maverique✨ https://pin.it/7KzvchLLW , gummysharkic✨ https://pin.it/1ROJw4HkR , Hypergender✨ https://pin.it/7aRA8OqCV , WEBTHiNG✨ https://pin.it/PfGuckagz , SillyMusicGender✨ https://pin.it/6Tx1hVaJE , softstaric✨ https://pin.it/5Q1bKWjGG , Techoric✨ https://pin.it/64J25TubN , goofygender✨ https://pin.it/54Pf4qx8u , :3gender✨ https://pin.it/hchJbZYRu

orientation: Lesbian✨, sapphic✨ , Embrouillesexual✨ https://pin.it/J1epk7i3z , Bambi Sapphic https://pin.it/6qavR70py , KEYCHAiNALLION✨ https://pin.it/2YR1F6i7L , GIRL LOVER✨ https://pin.it/4PRLfV2Wa , Mellow-oriented sapphic✨ https://pin.it/XeK5ReD1j

species: Human

age: 17

personality: Bright, bubbly, hyper, talkative, and hugely social. A big hugger too. Exudes confidence like an aura.

quirks: Bounces a lot, often doesn’t realize how loud she is, often doodles on things while talking on the phone

likes: Yellow, bright colorful things, kandi, Stardew Valley, hyperpop music, scenecore music, and 8bit music.

dislikes: slow music, classical music, and despises being alone and bored.

role: Social Alter, Admirer https://pluralpedia.org/w/Admirer , Confidence holder, beauheur https://pluralpedia.org/w/Beauheur

sign off: !!!✨✨

Name: Avery, Connie, Grayson, Kay, Kat, Ray

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8 months ago

Yeah I love manipulating my friends for my own gain, the gain is called "hanging out", obtained via such cruel tactics as "showing interest in stuff they like" and "being generally complimentary and charming"

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tulheadmateseance - ✨Create!✨
✨Create!✨

Headmate adopt/dump, I do take requests :) Also apparently I coin terms now :,)Minor safe DNI: Anti-radqueers, I'm not radqueer myself nor do I agree with every belief they have but I do use some radqueer terminology and am a practicing tulpamancer/system.

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