I Like Girls That Are Pudgy And Have Big Shoulders And Are Lanky,,, Hi I Love You

Bougar

its just embarrassing when you make a fandom related post and it doesnt get any notes like okay. so no one want to play tuoys with me. no one wants to play with our little guys together. okay thats fine. yeah its cool... puts my hands in my jacket pockets. kicks a beer can that was on the side of the road a little

understanding that there a lot of tme people out there who are totally fine with "trans women are women" as long as its some nebulous meaningless statement that simply implies you respect trans womens internal sense of self

but as soon as you say that trans women fundamentally ARE women, live as women, exist in community as women, and simply arent cisgender... ohh then we've got a problem! thats suspicious and possible terfy

thank your local trans girl for being alive right now

Nobody understands her like I do

Evanescence: These wounds won’t seem to heal, this pain is just too real, There’s just too much that time cannot erase

12 year old me:

idk how thats not obvious to everyone but you really can’t both hate men and love trans people at the same time. there will always be a section of trans people you’ll hurt. whether it be trans men as a whole, closeted trans women, trans women who you refuse to acknowledge as women because they don’t fit your idea of womanhood, multigender and/or genderfluid people who are sometimes and/or partly men. even if you have a clause that says ‘*except trans ones’, you are still forcing us to out ourselves. that is dangerous. that kills people.

and frankly youve already made me feel unsafe enough around you that i definitely do not want to out myself, cuz in my experience, 9 times out of 10, people who hate men are way more violent in their hatred to trans people than cis men, even if they claim to be an ally, because they know they can get away with it.

side note but they’ll also be more violent towards black men, latino men, mentally ill men, any men that are societally considered more violent. for the same reasons. and also because if you’re afraid of masculinity, you will be more afraid of those who have been hypermasculanized. you are not immune to the biases who’ve steeped in since birth.

hey um, I hope you know that invalidating someone's trans/queer identity cuz they might've fucked up is inherently bigoted and transphobic as FUCK! especially if you degender/misgender them.