almost every big post i see on here with a joke about transfeminine people, whether coming from someone transfeminine or not, rely on sexualization of transfems as the punchline. I could probably list on one hand the number of popular transfem-humor posts ive seen in the past year where the joke wasn't sexual in nature. which could mean nothing.
not having the courtesy to send rejection letters should count against your reputation as a company and i’m so serious about that
the way how you losers use second hand dysphoria as an excuse to genuinely be nasty over other trans people and their autonomy is disgusting and it's something you gotta suck up and learn to not do. you cannot act like everything and everyone should accommodate your comfortability because that's a slippery slope into reactionary thinking and also I'm sure other people don't like being told their bodies make you feel bad. grow up.
i've been on this site for 10 fucking years and the fact that black people and trans women are systematically chased out and have been chased out one by one from this website is really fucking gross. I hate this website. Racist fucking website.
so bearing in mind that t4t was invented by, to be about, transfems, how would you have transmascs who connect with that concept go forward from here? would you want us to come up with our own thing or just try to handle using t4t with more like, awareness and respect and stuff? if youd like to pitch in
genuine question and you definitely dont have to answer, if you answer harshly i wont take it personally haha
listen, there's no reason to give up using it. that cat is out of the bag and it's not really possible to make the space exclusive again, and personally i don't think it would be better that way. all i want and what the transfems i've also seen talk about this seem to want is for the transmascs and straight trans women who use t4t to remember its history and not feel the need to step up and correct or shut down conversations that are being had by transfem 4 transfem lesbians, we do still have our own little community even if it only used to be called t4t and we should remain an autonomous party in conversations about both t4t and our own community. basically don't butt in like that last anon did.
and thank you for asking that's absolutely the right question to ask when you find out your terms are taken from a marginalized group you don't belong to, the answer will vary depending on the situation but the question is always good
people have got to learn the difference between I didnt like it and It was bad
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every few months we rehash egg discourse on here despite the explanations for how the systems at play effect misgendering a trans vs a cis person, despite people saying it wouldve helped them pre-transition if anybody had just made it clear it was an option, despite the kneejerk reactions of disgust being clear displays of transmisogyny and transphobia. we rehash egg discourse because somebody thinks theyre going to add a new perspective that hasnt been stated before, when in reality its been argued against time and time again. we rehash egg discourse because this website is obsessed with finding some consistent way to tear down trans women and trans fems in order to prop up their ideal gender non-conforming cisgender man who will never criticize how you feel or talk about him. it feels like banging your head on a fucking wall
I feel like tariffing the "entire world" is literally just functionally sanctioning yourself