destroy the binary in your mind that implies that trans man = afab and trans woman = amab for every trans person u come across. intersex, transsexual, multitransitional, retrans, gender non conforming and all kinds of unique experiences exist
"Oh so i'm weird for not liking incest and pedophilia?!" No dude you're weird for sending rape threats to an abuse survivor over pixels kissing are you avoiding that fact on purpose or what
It's not your tastes dude, it's your actions.
Ao3 authors, please learn to not insult people and be “morally superior” in the tags
Instead of tagging “noncon is gross” or “not noncon because that’s problematic”, for example, just put “enthusiastic consent” or “consensual sex” in the tags. It makes things a whole lot easier for people to filter and know what’s going on.
I really don’t care that you think noncon fics are bad or whatever, I (and many others) will be more likely to read your fic about two boys who are deeply in love if you aren’t an ass about your morals in fiction :/
like what happened to "women are capable of doing everything men can do". If this statement is true the reverse is also true. It doesn't mean they necessarily do but they could. Thats like THE feminist statement in my mind its the most important one and radfems are actively rejecting it. There is nothing but superficial differences between us!!! "Men" and "women" are fictions used to organize society and power in a specific way they're not essential truths. We can go from one to the other freely and easily because we are essentially the same. The massive gulf between us in modern society is political, its not in anyway concrete, essential or biological.
reciprocal murder attempts are cool. and hot. yeah, i get it. but give me two characters who are OBSESSED WITH EACH OTHER. joined at the hip. cannot be apart for more than five minutes. they come in a package that says DO NOT SEPARATE. you try to do that and they start hissing like rabid cats. they would never ever hurt each other. ever. their relationship is filled with grand romantic gestures. every time someone flirts with them they quickly shut them down saying they're taken. monogamous. ride or die. if one of them dies then the other either dies from a broken heart or continues living but feels empty forever. they welcome death with open arms because that means they will get to see their love again.
I think the funniest thing I learnt today was that antis DID try to make their own ao3, but the restrictions made it impossible to do anything.
Nobody on the site could agree on one solid concept of "moral" and "immoral", so it spawned a plethora of huge arguments and the site had to be shut down.
And the tagline was "good fiction for good people."
Make of all that as you will.
rarepairs r so funny because you'll be part of the rarepair group n you'll be like. okay but look at all this stuff that makes them make sense and from the outside you look like youre holding a conspiracy board with dots and string n everyone is like ohh wow.. okay.... umm.. if u say so.... but when youre IN the rarepair group youre like no listen look. its obvious. look at this. look. there are famous ships with less substance than this
if your friend asks you to misgender them in front of their family, do it. if your friend asks you to refer to their partner as their roommate or friend, do it. if they ask you to deadname them, do it. allyship is about prioritizing the safety of marginalized people, especially when it comes before your desire to fight their oppressors.
on a serious note regarding the wga strike and (as of 1:50 AM PST 7/13) upcoming sag-aftra strike, dsa-la has a fundraiser called The Snacklist which provides snacks and water on the picket lines here in LA. right now the funds they have will not last through the end of the summer, especially given the current and upcoming heatwaves necessitating more supplies. if you have a couple of dollars to spare it's a great way to directly support the writers (and potentially the actors) during this difficult time!
he/they/neos, enby, lesbian, danganronpa/bsd/genshin fan (i also like a couple of cartoons), i really like rarepairs
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