18+ only, NSFW. My fandom crushes, post-anarchist socialist utopias, queer vibes, wierd interests, sex positive (and just sex) stuff and coffee nerd stuff. Queer socialist 20-something year old.
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Me when I remember that, I'll never have a relationship like Nick and Charlie's and that I don't live in the heartstopper world.
I've been active again on tumblr for a few weeks now after being gone for too long and thank god I found my way back it's so great here
snail foods (snoods)
"Is there anybody out there, who is lost and hurt and lonely, too? Are they bleeding all your colours into one? And if you come undone, as if you'd been run through some catapult, it fired you, you wonder if your chance'll ever come, well, if you're stuck in square one."
Credits to the artist: Kirokaze // DeviantArt https://www.deviantart.com/kirokaze
The LGBTQ community has seen controversy regarding acceptance of different groups (bisexual and transgender individuals have sometimes been marginalized by the larger community), but the term LGBT has been a positive symbol of inclusion and reflects the embrace of different identities and that we’re stronger together and need each other. While there are differences, we all face many of the same challenges from broader society.
In the 1960′s, in wider society the meaning of the word gay transitioned from ‘happy’ or ‘carefree’ to predominantly mean ‘homosexual’ as they adopted the word as was used by homosexual men, except that society also used it as an umbrella term that meant anyone who wasn’t cisgender or heterosexual. The wider queer community embraced the word ‘gay’ as a mark of pride.
The modern fight for queer rights is considered to have begun with The Stonewall Riots in 1969 and was called the Gay Liberation Movement and the Gay Rights Movement.
The acronym GLB surfaced around this time to also include Lesbian and Bisexual people who felt “gay” wasn’t inclusive of their identities.
Early in the gay rights movement, gay men were largely the ones running the show and there was a focus on men’s issues. Lesbians were unhappy that gay men dominated the leadership and ignored their needs and the feminist fight. As a result, lesbians tended to focus their attention on the Women’s Rights Movement which was happening at the same time. This dominance by gay men was seen as yet one more example of patriarchy and sexism.
In the 1970′s, sexism and homophobia existed in more virulent forms and those biases against lesbians also made it hard for them to find their voices within women’s liberation movements. Betty Friedan, the founder of the National Organization for Women (NOW), commented that lesbians were a “lavender menace” that threatened the political efficacy of the organization and of feminism and many women felt including lesbians was a detriment.
In the 80s and 90s, a huge portion of gay men were suffering from AIDS while the lesbian community was largely unaffected. Lesbians helped gay men with medical care and were a massive part of the activism surrounding the gay community and AIDS. This willingness to support gay men in their time of need sparked a closer, more supportive relationship between both groups, and the gay community became more receptive to feminist ideals and goals.
Approaching the 1990′s it was clear that GLB referred to sexual identity and wasn’t inclusive of gender identity and T should be added, especially since trans activist have long been at the forefront of the community’s fight for rights and acceptance, from Stonewall onward. Some argued that T should not be added, but many gay, lesbian and bisexual people pointed out that they also transgress established gender norms and therefore the GLB acronym should include gender identities and they pushed to include T in the acronym.
GLBT became LGBT as a way to honor the tremendous work the lesbian community did during the AIDS crisis.
Towards the end of the 1990s and into the 2000s, movements took place to add additional letters to the acronym to recognize Intersex, Asexual, Aromantic, Agender, and others. As the acronym grew to LGBTIQ, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIAA, many complained this was becoming unwieldy and started using a ‘+’ to show LGBT aren’t the only identities in the community and this became more common, whether as LGBT+ or LGBTQ+.
In the 2010′s, the process of reclaiming the word “queer” that began in the 1980′s was largely accomplished. In the 2020′s the LGBTQ+ acronym is used less often as Queer is becoming the more common term to represent the community.
Good mates is the new room mates.
Nick, man, we're not friends with Harry and them lot anymore. Yeah, we're sorry about what happened at the cinema. We should have spoken up. Thanks. I do know you're not like Harry. Guess it took me a while to realize what a dick he is as well. I seriously don't blame you for fighting him.
I raise you the giddy feeling of beginning to watch an episode of Board Game Club
In case you ever wanted to feel like you just finished watching an episode of house rules
Like I get what this is trying to do, but OMG DO YOU ACTUALLY KNOW WHAT ARSEHATS MOST OF THESE GODS AND GODESSES WERE?! Our dear HS characters don't deserve this.
3K CELEBRATION ♡ surprise gifset for @cobbbvanth ↳ HEARTSTOPPER CHARACTERS + THE GREEK PANTHEON (insp)
Chris Thornley - “Sounds”
Lesbian activist Sandi Toksvig:
//“I could weep. I don’t get it. It’s beyond me,” the former Great British Bake Off host said, “When the feminist movement started in the 60s and 70s, lesbians were often excluded, because we were told that we would make the movement less palatable.
“I have been excluded myself, so how could I do that to someone else? It fills me with rage.”//
Makes me cry. Every time.
Dad, Charlie's my boyfriend. Surprise. I'm bi, he's gay. And I was actually really stressed out about how I was gonna tell you, but you know what? I don't care what you think about it anymore. 'Cause you don't care to even see us more than two times a year. And, you know, every time I do see you, I always think "This is it. This is the time when you might actually take an interest in my life", but you never do. So if you don't care, then ... then I don't care either.
HEARTSTOPPER 2x07 "Sorry"
Okay, I saw this in a video and I just want to know if we‘re better than twitter, so:
Please reblog for bigger sample size, yada yada yada.
This is a Moving Forward PSA for everyone using AO3. I am witnessing the results of a culture clash and communication failure. Not a lack of communication, but a misunderstanding caused by changes in fandom culture.
Before fic tagging was common, fics weren’t tagged. You had a pairing, if applicable, an author’s note about genre or general content, and if they were feeling charitable, a vague content warning. There are even a few genres of fic where even vaguely tagging literally spoils the plot and impact (such as horror, psyche thriller, in which the likely content is implicit to the genre). As a result, there is a basic category tag that permits this, as a courtesy to “old-fashioned” writers.
“No Archive Warnings Apply” means the fic is PG13 at worst, probably fluff, totally safe.
“Choose Not to Use Archive Warnings” is the polar opposite. It’s a glaring Enter at Your Own Risk billboard. It means: a shitload of warnings apply but I ain’t telling because this story requires shock value. It’s very important to read the author’s notes for those fics because they might be using that older format from above.
But without the context of fandom culture that generated AO3, it’s understandably easy to conflate the two categories, given their similar wording.
like to charge reblog to cast
POE POE POE POE POE
These are *so amazing!*
I finished my custom portraits for the og 4! I wanted to do every character but unfortunately I just won’t have the time to until much later. If/when I update this with more characters I’ll either make another post or just edit this one.
If you really want the portraits now click here
Neon Space perks made by FluffZee, check them out!
Exactly my type.
QUICKLY. TELL ME HOW YOU CALL "THIS" TYPE OF CHARACTERS
BRB, I’m gonna scream
Feeling like a real plant daddy 😈🌿
Such a nice picture, and a collection I am on my way to building :)
An assemblage of coffee things, because I like coffee a normal amount. I wanted to focus on some of the ingenious methods of making good coffee at home. Lately I’m enjoying a cozy little pour over - I like the way it requires you to take a few meditative minutes to prepare, but that cleanup is the work of moments, and it produces such a lovely coffee - assuming the beans are good, of course. (I’m enjoying a nice washed Colombian gesha at home right now - it’s so lovely and bright!) What’s your favourite coffee making method?
“Do not allow yourselves to be deluded by the abstract word ‘freedom’. Whose freedom? It is not the freedom of one individual in relation to another, but the freedom of capital to crush the worker.”
— Marx, On the Question of Free Trade 1848
the first org sympathises with copservatives
the second org is planning a violent mass execution of everyone earning more than $500 a month
the third org is just right. sad that it don't exist.
trying to find a good leftist org is like
cult
cult
maoist cult
dsa
book club
people who think the ussr still exists
anarchist org with the most rancid polycule drama of all time