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Hi! I don't know if you'll have an answer to this but I have two questions I just can't figure out on my own and I wanted to see if you could help.

First question, what is the difference between your aura and your energy? I've seen some bloggers say "x's person energy is this color" and I also know auras have color, but I can't see those so I was wondering if they're two terms used for the same thing, or if there's a difference (and if so, what that difference would be).

And my second question, more like an issue is this: I feel like my guides don't want me to know something? Either that or they're avoiding me or I just suck at talking to them. I know they're here with mez they confirm their existence constantly, but for some reason, when I ask them this specific question I have, they just ignore me? I'll ask for confirmation about this thing like "if yes, send me this, if it's a no, send this instead" because I thought that way they'd give me an answer, right? But no, whenever I ask about this specific issue pertaining my personal life, it just seems like I'm speaking to the air because I don't get confirmation on either way. Is this normal? Do you know if there's a reason this is happening?

I understand if you don't have any advice (especially about that last one) but you seem fairly knowledgeable in the topic and like you're in good terms with your guides so I thought it was worth a try. Thanks for reading!

Hello! I’ll see what I can do!

If I had it describe how I personally see it, it’s like the energy is the body and the aura the clothes. So I don’t know whether people confuse the 2 being the same thing, but a person mostly is seen as what their aura is like. It’s like.. you know how you behave one way with strangers and another with friends? People who are close to you know how you really are, they know your energy and what you are like, even if your aura/the way you behave is different. Your energy is the true you, something not all people are able to see. But I guess people mean ‘’general energy’’. Auras change. Which is why the energy of my blog, the energy I put in it, changed as well (for the people who complimented me for it, thank you! but i think you did notice it’s different than from a month ago :D). So shortly, we all have different layers of auras but the one we see most is the one you feel from another person. You feel what they might be like. But the Aura depends on the person’s thoughts, actions and beliefs, so they might have a completely different energy underneath. It’s like painting with color A and overpainting it with color B, color A is still there, but you don’t really see it because of color B. (Hope that wasn’t too confusing).

I had the same problem recently! It just means that they gave you everything you needed as guidance and wait for you to act on it. Not long ago I actually was pretty frustrated because like, I have this irl problem and kept asking my guides for like, 7-8 months on what I should do. But nothing, no matter how much I prayed or talked or meditated nothing helped. I then asked a friend of mine to give me some cards and they said that I have everything I need. I just need to find the courage to do things myself and not be so dependant on them. Slowly I eventually got out of that and get guidance after taking that action, leap of faith, but it’s not because you’re bad at talking to them. Your guides ALWAYS hear you. Their YOUR guides, after all. They are meant to support and guide you, their purpose is that! So they find ways to give you  guidance in a way you can notice. You just have to be open for that. Or, if it’s something specific you ask about, maybe you aren’t meant to know yet. Like, thoughts can influence our life very much, in a whole new direction. Knowing the answer might take you to a path you aren’t meant to go (yet). Maybe you don’t have to know or ask for confirmation - maybe you have the answers inside you. Your soul knows what it wants, and it’s tricky to know about it since our mind and heart get in the way, but trust your soul. Trust yourself. Trust that you are powerful and that you have everything you need right now. Everything right now is exactly as it’s supposed to be because it was set up like this by universe. Trust in that. And don’t be discouraged. Listening to yourself doesn’t mean you can’t ask your guides. You can, just sometimes, especially when we can’t stand up for ourselves, we get lessons like these to prove that we are powerful and that we can stand up for ourselves!

Since there is a lot of talk about twin flames, and most of it is highly opinionated and mostly false, I am making a comprehensive list of links to articles and videos explaining what soul connections actually are and how to determine which one you have.

There is no excuse for ignorance. Please educate yourself.

Youtube videos: https://youtu.be/NzmUkvuNqqU https://youtu.be/45s_qLsWpJE https://youtu.be/YMpwVRtwm5Q https://youtu.be/AtRvseK6qXw https://youtu.be/SuytPrtS4HE https://youtu.be/5Kz8ESOYCME

You do not need to, nor should you ever manifest someone even if they are your twin flame. If they are meant to be yours they will be, if not, then not. It creates a toxic relationship. It takes away their free will. By the laws of the universe it is unethical, and will create negative karma.

Articles about twin flames: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/twin-flames-signs-meaning-and-stages

https://lonerwolf.com/twin-flame/

https://www.thelawofattraction.com/twin-flames/

https://www.allure.com/story/what-is-a-twin-flame

https://www.brides.com/twin-flame-love-5097590

https://blog.sivanaspirit.com/twin-flame-know/

https://loveconnection.org/is-he-my-twin-flame-32-signs-youre-in-a-twin-flame-relationship/

https://goop.com/wellness/spirituality/find-your-twin-flame/

Articles about soul connections and different types of them:

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-22169/you-have-4-kinds-of-soul-mates-heres-how-to-recognize-each-one.html

https://www.aristoslifestyle.com/articles/the-different-kinds-of-spiritual-relationships

https://purifyingwave.com/2021/03/08/the-3-types-of-soul-connection/

https://www.yourtango.com/2018320183/what-is-a-soul-connection-two-types-of-relationships-they-create

https://veilofreality.com/2011/04/18/organic-portals-soulless-humans/

i love how u work with the greek gods as well!! it’s disheartening because so many people shit on people who work with deities or etc :( i work with hecate and aphrodite and if anything they help me so much with the law. they’ve helped me with my self concept, mindset and hecate has helped me get into the void. i love how people think it’s contradicting because the gods are supposed to be above u but they’re actually more like mentors who help me lol and are actually happy that i practice the law

i know!! the loa community can be so weird when it comes to people with other beliefs... which is like... the literal antithesis to how the law works but whatever. and same! my work with the gods has helped my mindset so much. i know i wouldn't be where i am today without them. and that's not a bad thing! shifting specifically has helped my mental health a lot and apollo loves it when i get excited about my DRs. the people who shit on working with deities are people who are entirely uneducated about it. it's not a cute look 🤷🏻‍♀️

This is related to a question you just answered, but how does one open their third eye? I've read so much about how you do readings with your third eye and stuff, but I legit don't know how to do it and I really want to.

first of all i’d recommend reading about the third chakra, so you know something about it; 

i had it ‘’opened’’ since i was very small so i don’t know how to ‘’open’’ it, but you develop it with your intuition!

something that has helped me is keep a dream journal, give yourself 5 min in the morning to write down anything you remember from your dream, doesn’t matter how much - don’t focus on what you don’t remember;

do you know the memory card games? try playing this but without remembering, maybe ask someone else to mix it for you or play it online; instead of relying on your memory, you use your intuition - it’s the very first feeling/hunch you have, but it’s very short, in my cases always under a second; once you get the hang of it and get used to your intuition, it will be a lot easier to listen to, and your 3rd eye will improve as well! 

many people suggest meditation, and you can try 3rd eye meditation! personally meditation isn’t being easy on me so i don’t do it much >< trust in the universe and not being afraid of their information is important as well

I have a beautiful, protective, invisible force field around me like a giant pearl

A list of Wordcraft abilities

Not many people will be able to understand what Wordcraft is. To remedy this, I have compiled the list below along with a few alternative ways to define Wordcraft. Please note that this list is not definitive. There are always going to be more powers and abilities that have yet to be discovered.

Alternative ways of defining Wordcraft:

- The writer’s witchcraft

- Word witchery

- The magic of words

- Eloquent Enchantment

List of Wordcraft abilities:

- mimicry of powers and abilities of characters (limitations of physics do apply)

- creation of paper charms (aka petitions, wish cards)

- character communication (bibliomancy)

- potion creation (energetic infusion of described potions into water or liquid)

- spell casting (using books as inspiration for incantations to create change. Can also be off the cuff casting)

- verbal empathy (the ability to tap into knowledge of a person by reading or hearing their words)

- magical storytelling (can write stories and works that create magical effects)

- persuasion (some Wordcrafters are extremely persuasive and can lace their voice with magic to charm people)

- spell writing (can take any spell and rewrite it into pure incantation form. Can also create new spells for others)

- Reading magic (by reading a book, a wordcrafter can intuitively pick up the type of magic held within.)

In short Wordcraft is all about fluidity and words.

some of you are a little too pretty to be on tumblr i think you should be luring people to their watery demise instead

Fort canning tree tunnel, Singapore ( via )

Soulmate/twinflame connections in dreams

This isn't kpop related but I feel a pull to post this by my guides.

This is a list I put together of signs you met one of your soulmate/twinflame in your dreams. I've collected this information by hearing and experiencing these connections myself.

Not everything on this list will be the same for everyone.

Everyone's experiences are different so take this information with a pinch of salt please

Deja Vu

A sense of familiarity

A deep knowing (you feel assured on a soul level)

Or you just know its your soulmate straight up

You dream about them constantly

With my experience, I dreampt of them every night for about a week or so.

BE ABSOLUTELY CAREFUL WITH THIS ONE

For example some may have dreams about their favorite artist/idol and think it means that their soulmates.

Projecting your feelings is very different than a real dream connection. BE CAREFUL

When I first drempt of my soulmate I did not have any connection towards them.

No feelings or ideas about them until later on. (Does this make any sense?)

You Astral project to each other.

For me I could feel, smell, and hear things I couldn't do in my regular dreams

When you Astral project you can sometimes feel very tired when you wake up

Most people can not see the face of their soulmate while dreaming

Very very very few do (if you do your so luckyy)

The dream feels realistic

Not a crazy dream with many things going on

Other things that happen but not when dreaming

You go into a transformational phase

Most of the time it is dealing with your shadow self

The connection can be painful

You both are going through an awakening which is a major deal that's why it can be painful.

THESE CONNECTIONS ARE NOT ALL ROSES

I've gone through the most painful feelings when it comes to my connection

I've spent many nights crying

All I'm trying to say is everything isn't going to be wonderful and how you expect it to go

Some can contact telepathically

It's hard to tell with this becuase its a soft voice in your head you can mistake as thoughts.

But the voice(soulmate/twinflame) shows up out of nowhere

Telepathic connection is hard to fully understand

Like with many spiritual things you just know and can't explain it fully.

This one is also very important to make sure your not projecting your feelings

You can feel their presents around you sometimes

If they are thinking of you, you can feel their presence and/or if they Astral project to you too

Your connection will only happen when both of you are ready

The universe will not give you things you are not ready for

Self love

You need to know your self to a certain degree to be able to maybe have this connection

The universe will only aline you with things of your same vibration.

As I stated previously, it will not provide you information or gifts you are not ready for

I had to work on myself and self love for a long time before my connection

Maturity is a major sign too

You have to be mature enough to know the difference between real and fake.

Creating a story and using it for the benefit for yourself is not mature

This is a serious gift to be able to experience this connection

By projecting what you want, can mess up the real connection for others

So please do not take these things lightly like it is a fun mind game to play.

I don't want seem or sound scary but these connections are divinely gifted for us, so please respect others connections :)

This was a blast writing! If you have any questions let me know!

Also If there is anything that I brought up that was interesting and you want a separate post of, let me know!