This semester has been an absolute nightmare for me, so welcome to the resulting post where I try to help other people who are in the same boat!
How about we run through a quick list together, okay?
Unclench your jaw, relax your shoulders, relax your face, unclench your fists
Are you sitting in the shape of a C right now? *hitting you with a broom* straighten your back out!!
Maybe get up and stretch while you're at it!
Have you taken your meds today? If not, go get 'em.
Have you eaten enough today? Coffee/energy drinks are not a meal!!
What have you eaten today? Do you need to get something to snack on?
Have you had any water today?
Do you need to rest? There is NO shame in taking a nap or relaxing. If someone does shame you, send them my way
How long has it been since you moved from where you are right now? Maybe move to another room if you can.
How long has it been since you looked away from your screen? Take a little 5-10 minute break to rest your eyes :)
How long has it been since you've showered? (No shame in this one either, it's okay if you can't do it. You're not judged here.)
Do you need to get into some fresh, comfy clothes?
If the weather in your area will allow it, can you open a window or go sit outside?
Affirmations:
My grades do not define me
I am more than a grade/a gpa
I am allowed to make mistakes
I am allowed to rest
Taking breaks is necessary for my well being
This semester/school year will not last forever
It's okay to take time for myself
I do not need to be productive all the time
I am capable
I am smart
I do not need to perform to perfection all the time
My mental/physical/spiritual/emotional health is more important than school
It is okay to ask for help
Asking for help does not make me weak or less capable
Assignments should not be valued over sleep/food/self care
If you have the energy, maybe try some of these:
Reach out to a friend/family member/mutual
Change your sheets
Take your trash out
Pick stuff up off the floor if there is anything
Do your dishes/run the dishwasher
Do a load of laundry/put any clothes away
Journal
Schedule any needed doctor's/dentist's/therapy appointments
Leave your home for a little bit
Go do something you enjoy
Create something
Go for a walk
Cook your favorite meal
You are doing amazing, and I'm so proud of you. You can and will get through this. You're not alone <3
As always, please feel free to reach out or send me an ask if you need someone to talk to!
Late night session. Library closed at 2am so off to finish my lectures at home.
Really want to try the 30 days of productivity challenge with December deadlines coming up and plenty still to do.
❄️DAY 1 OF PRODUCTIVITY❄️
Tea made in the eras tour mug of course!
As of today, I’m completely caught up on my lectures and am finally finishing my lab report due this week. It’s a long one but I’ll be so glad to have done it by the end of today.
Will be going out to town tonight to relax before the real work starts tomorrow.
❄️DAY 12 OF PRODUCTIVITY ❄️
🤍 Finally got all my Christmas shopping done
🤍 Cleaned the kitchen ready to move home for Christmas
🤍 Used up the rest of my groceries
Just taking time after deadlines to do something else for a change
May have slept an entire day after all my deadlines. Really needed the rest I suppose 😂.
Reminder that working through burnout is not possible and you do need that rest.
Food ordered, time to lock in for the night and get these notes done
🤍DAY 4 OF PRODUCTIVITY🤍
Finally finished and handed in my report! Praying that it’s all good because I really put my heart and soul into it. Went to 4 house viewings today for next year and about to get some lecture notes done while watching the new season of greys anatomy.
Hope everyone’s staying warm!
Goals girly
y'all we did it, i studied almost 11 hrs today 😞✊🏻 i've been trying to find this momentum for so so long, let's hope it stays, tomorrow though, i have an event to attend during the evening hours so i dont think i'd be able to do as much, but i'll try to maximise as much as i can.
here's the to-do for tomorrow:
probability lect 3 + problem sheet + begin previous year problems sheet
chemical bonding lect 3 + problem sheet
electromagnetic induction revision + solve 48 marked questions
read textbook for periodic properties + alter notes accordingly
alternating current notes rev
❄️DAY 13 OF PRODUCTIVITY❄️
🤍 2 loads of washing down
🤍 Planned my boyfriends birthday celebration
🤍 Submitted the physical chem data sheet I’d finished Friday
🤍 Emptied my kitchen cupboards of empty sauces/boxes etc
My flatmate and I are both still really sick so mostly sleeping and looking after one another ❤️. Tonsillitis haunts me.
❄️DAY 9 OF PRODUCTIVITY❄️
Lovely visit to the library with my friend to finish up my Wednesday reports after a long train journey. Not sure if I was annoying the lady next to me on the train while working on my laptop but she kept making awful faces at me 🥲.
🤍Finished my physical chemistry lab report
🤍Completed my data sheet from Friday’s practical. My results are a little strange but hopefully that’ll be more to talk about in my report.
🤍Finished my next tutorial, bar one super annoying question that I’ll need to work on.
🤍Spent some quality time catching up with my friend.
I’ve gotten another cold again so went straight to bed after the library and feel like I’ve been sleeping forever.
No post today. Spent the day out for my boyfriends birthday and am leaving for a couple days tomorrow evening to watch a show together. I really do have so much work to get on with, don’t worry 😭. But times like these take priority 🫶.
I hope everyone’s having a wonderful Christmas break