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Gracias dir the advice, the bar part is so true

Hello, do you currently live in Italy? I was wondering if you could give us some advice. We're Americans travelling to Rome in a few months and the wife wants to find a guy for a night of NSA fun. Basically we're looking for a third for MFM threesome. Are Italian men open to this sort of arrangement? Any suggestions on where to find someone other than a bar?

HiDifficult to answer. I think most of the guys you can find in a bar will be open to have a ride with the wife, but perhaps not that open to a threesome with another man they never met.Even more important, if you rely on this kind of casual encounters you won’t be able to filter the guys, and you won’t know who you end up with.

I’d say it’s better if you get registered on a local swingers/cuckold/hotwife site, creating a couple’s profile; that will give you the opportunity to look for an experienced man (and you’ll be able to choose the one you like the most, too) and to set up a date for when you’ll be in Rome.

Have a look for example on www.thecuckold.com (it should have an English version too, and it’s basically free), or www.annunci69.it .The second one is far bigger, probably the biggest website of this kind in Italy, but the first one sometime is better.In case you might need it, Rome is in a region called Lazio (Italy is divided into regions, similar to US states even though on a smaller scale of course). It might be useful to look for singles and bull coming from this region, if not only Rome.Good luck ;)

Other good definition

Bravo

Memes are NOT real life…

Can we make an effort to create and promote better lifestyle content?

I’m tired of seeing all these repetitive posts with the same unrealistic Hotwife captions that are clearly written by porn-addicted men. No woman is telling strangers to “fill their slutty married pussy with hot cum”. I get that most people come to these blogs for fantasy, but it’s really damaging to actual couples who dabble in the lifestyle. It sets unrealistic expectations and creates a pool of unqualified suitors when real couples are looking for another man to join them.

No, a Hotwife is not a cum dump.

No, a Hotwife does not fuck anyone with a big dick.

No, a Hotwife is not just a fuck toy for your pleasure.

No, a Hotwife does not fuck some one else every chance she gets.

I’d love to see more blogs create realistic images and captions that reflect real relationships.

*rant over*

Great post.

If you may ever ask if there is an undelying reason for hotwifing.

Why do I find slutty women so attractive?

This was from an email that was submitted here.

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I was wondering if you met anyone like me. I am in my 20′s and single and only attracted to hotwives or promiscusous “bad girls.” I have no intention of settling down but I definitely don’t want a monogamous girl when I do. 

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Dear anon,

Have I met other guys who only like promiscuous women? 

Yes.

It’s actually pretty common. I’ll post my sources below.

Males will often produce more testosterone when competing for a non-monogamous female than they would with traditionally monogamous females.

In fact, non-monogamous women are often more desired due to the pheromones they emit. The “slut pheromone” phenomena is not a myth.

Semen produces chemicals that will hunt out and kill other semen. 

And since semen can stay alive for up to 10 days, there is a good chance that semen from multiple males are all battling inside one female.

Just knowing your seed is in a death battle with other males is enough to trigger this chemical release in your body.

Conclusion. Wanting to compete for promiscuous women is normal. It actually boosts your testosterone levels significantly and evolved to produce the best offspring possible. 

You’ll never see animals “slut shaming” 

They are either fighting for that ass, or actually getting it.

Sources

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sperm_competition

http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0022519310000317

https://www.zmescience.com/medicine/genetic/promiscuous-female-mice-sexy-offspring-432432/

http://journals.plos.org/plosgenetics/article?id=10.1371/journal.pgen.0010035

Great text, an interesting evolution of terms allowing to disambiguate "cuckold" and "stag".

WHAT IS A STAG The term Stag differs from the term cuckold. According to Sage Vivant, author of the book ‘Your Erotic Personality’, Stag are typically heterosexual men who get off on the idea of their wives or girlfriends being with other men but do not really fit the historical term cuckold. Many such men dislike the term cuckold because society has denigrated its meaning, making it a shameful thing. This has not only been misunderstood but also rather disrespected throughout history. They were seen as weak men that in a bizarre tradition from Europe were seen to wear antlers as symbols of this supposed weakness. Thankfully in modern times we are a little more enlightened and in recent years the meaning of the word has morphed into something more empowering for both genders. The growth of the term ‘HOTWIFE’ in reference to the partners of such men is now well established in sexual subcultures. Some men are cuckolds proper in that they seek humiliation and debasement and possible homosexual encounters, and there is nothing wrong with that, to each his own fetish, however, by far more men identify with the term ‘Stag’ . They share with cuckolds the desire to see their partners take on extra lovers while they remain monogamous but that is where the similarities end. For the stag this is always by consent and any humiliation aspect is just a playful erotic teasing game with his wife rather than any real desire to be humiliated. He will never be humiliated or intimidated by his partner’s lovers. He is a strong type that simply derives huge erotic pleasure from seeing his wife or girlfriend being so alluring that nobody could resist her and considers it only natural and very arousing that she’ll need and deserve sexual satisfaction from others as well as him. He holds a genuine love and respect for his wife or girlfriend with whom he shares this erotic and fun lifestyle. For this reason the proper term for the partner of most hotwives is a STAG rather than cuckold. This behavior ranges from merely sharing the fantasy and acting out role play scenarios to full on Hotwifing. It is just one part of a relationship and many couples only dabble occasionally. Some couples discover ‘Hotwifing’ early in their relationships while others find it much later but either way it is a hugely growing phenomenon. The reasons for 'Hotwifing’ have always been around and lie deep in our evolutionary history as a species but factors such as female empowerment, better contraceptive/safer sex technologies, ease of online communication and information combined with other factors have brought it out of the shadows to the edge of the mainstream. Welcome to Stag and Hotwife Games, here we attempt to use images and captions to catch the eroticism and fun of couples that have delved into this world to reclaim the cuckold horns for the proud 'STAG’

Muy buen relato de como se puede descubrir este tipo de placeres. Gracias por compartirlo.

Como empezó mi fantasía parte 1

Hola a todos los que nos siguen, como muchos saben somos una pareja de México de 28 y 27 años y hoy quiero empezar a contarles como empeze con está fantasía de que otro hombre se cogiera a mi esposa.

Pues déjenme decirles que fue algo raro ya que yo era una persona muy celosa pero todo cambió el día que descubrí que mi esposa tenía contacto con sus amigos y pues como dicen la curiosidad mato al gato, así que revise su celular y pues encontré que charlaba con un compañero en un plan algo cariñoso más no sexoso debo decirles. Hablaban del hermano de el y mi esposa decía que era su cuñado y el amigo le seguía la corriente diciéndole que si.

Sentí coraje pero fue entonces donde noté que también estaba muy excitado y eso que no hablaban nada de sexo. Poco después descubrí una conversación entre el hermano del amigo de mi esposa y ella donde el le proponía un acostón pero mi esposa lo rechazaba pero no por mi si no porque ella le decía que si algún día ella le diera las nalgas sería a su hermano, esto me enfureció pero se me paro la Verga de inmediato y mi mente empezó a imaginar a mi esposa cojiendo con otro y casi me vengo. Unos días después le reclame pudimos arreglar las cosas y aunque me pidió perdón la idea ya se me había quedado en la cabeza.

Si les gustó el relato haganmelo saber para subir la siguiente parte prometo que irá mejorando y les aseguro que es 100% real

Your blog gets me sooooo wet. I’ve always loved the thought of banging multiple dudes. Then my hubby admitted to wanting to share me and when I asked how long he said he’d never even been interested in wife sharing until he met me and that turns me on in itself. Trying to work up the courage to post a pic of my big pierced tits on here and see how many guys would be willing to fuck me ;)

Some women are naturally sluttier than others. These women have a high libido and can basically have anything they want once they realize the power of their pussy. Your husband realized this and put you on a pedestal fast. He wants a HotWife not a cheating wife.

And yes, show us your tits, but also show us that freshly fucked pussy once in awhile so we know you’re not all talk.

#slut confession 

Defining things... naming is inherent to human nature; here a set of definitions worth to be shared in order to get a better understanding.

Terms & Definitions:

Swingers: Typically a couple in which both partners are allowed to engage in sexual activities with other men and women outside of their relationship, often referred to as “full swap.”

Hotwife:  A wife who has her husband’s permission to engage in sexual activities with other men. Also the term used to describe the fantasy with the same scenario. In this relationship all extra marital activities are approved of by the husband. Trust, respect, and the couple’s love for each other are central to the relationship.

Cuckold: A man in a relationship with a woman who engages in sexual activities with other men and women outside of their relationship, usually with a level of cheating and or humiliation. -Cuckolding

Cuckoldress: The female half of a cuckold relationship. A woman who engages in sex with men other than her husband, usually imposing a level humiliation on her husband about her extra marital activities.

Vixen: One term used to describe a woman in a Hotwife relationship.

Stag: One term used to describe a strong male figure in a Hotwife relationship.

Cucky: A humiliating term used to describe a man in a cuckold relationship.

Bull: The name often given to a wife’s repeat lover in a hotwife or cuckold arrangement

Reclaim: A term used to describe the passionate sex couples often experience the first time they have sex after one of them has has sex with someone outside of their relationship.

Hall Pass: Often used to describe a onetime “free pass” given to one of the members in a relationship to enjoy one sexual encounter with a person outside of the relationship.

Half Open Marriage: Used to describe a relationship in which one member of the relationship has the other‘s permission to enjoy complete sexual freedom, while the one remains completely faithful.

Shared Wife: A wife whose husband “shares” her sexually with other men.

MFM: A three some involving two men and one woman. In this arrangement the men are straight and focus on the woman.

MMF: A three some involving two men and one woman in which the men are bi-sexual and engage in sexual activities with each other as well as the woman.

FMF: A three some involving two women and one man. In this arrangement the women are straight and focus on the man.

FFM: A three some involving two women and one man in which the women are bi-sexual and engage in sexual activities with each other as well as the man.

Humiliation: A sexual kink which usually involves the woman verbally abusing the man about his inadequacies and inability to satisfy her, most often because of his penis size or his lack of stamina.  

Tease and Denial: One partner sexually teases and leads the other on, only to get them excited and then deny them sexual gratification.

Edging: Binging a person right to the edge of orgasm and then slowing or stopping sexual activities thus denying them the pleasure of orgasm.

Ruined Orgasm: Bringing a person right to the point of orgasm, and then stopping resulting in a weak orgasm. This is usually achieved through the use of oral sex or masturbation.

SPH: Small Penis Humiliation, verbal abuse used to humiliate a man about his lack of length and or girth.

Male Chastity: A kink in which the man is most often secured in a chastity device, referred to as a cock cage, and is denied the pleasures of sexual intercourse as well as masturbation.  Couples who engage in this kink often try to push the boundaries of how long the man can go without sexual release. This fetish often includes a level of humiliation as well.

Cock Cage: A metal or plastic device which locks to secure the penis. It is used impede the man’s ability to masturbate as well as achieve a full erection without being release by his key holder.

Key Holder: Most often the wife of a man confined to a cock cage. The key holder has full authority over the man’s ability to and the frequency of orgasms allowed. Often the key holder will use time in the cock cage as a punishment for her dissatisfaction with something the man has said or done.

Pegging: Used to describe a fetish in which the female uses a sex toy or strap on to perform anal sex on her male partner.

Wife Breeding: A fetish in which the wife is involved in unprotected sex with men other than her husband. The men ejaculate in the wife, thus presenting the possibility of pregnancy by men other than the husband.

Clean Up: An activity in which the man cleans up a woman after she has had sex with another man. Most often this is done after a lover has ejaculated into the woman’s vagina and the woman’s partner performs oral sex on her licking up as much of the other man’s sperm as possible.

Sloppy Seconds: A term used to describe the act of having sex with a woman after she has already had sex with another man. Most often after the first man has ejaculated inside of the woman’s vagina creating a “sloppy” situation for the second man.

Size Queen: A woman who prefers man with very large penises. Often with minimum size requirements which must be met before she will engage in sexual intercourse with a man.

BBC: Big Black Cock, used to describe the oversized penis of a black man.

BWC: Big White Cock, used to describe the oversized penis of a white man.

Queen Of Spades: The name sometimes given to a white woman who prefers sex with black men, often with above average penises.

A brilliant thought.

I was about to send a message about how this is a hot fantasy when I remembered that last year my boyfriend was depressed for a month and I took it personally and ended up sucking off a guy I had just met at the bar with my best friend. I ended up dating them at the same time, but was really confused at 1. Why a guy would seriously date me after swallowing the first night and 2. How I felt such little guilt. I will never tell my boyfriend because this really did happen and it would kill him.

Let me answer those two questions for you, cutie pie.  

1) Why would a guy date a girl who sucked him off on the first night who also has a boyfriend? That’s easy. Because you’re a slut. Promiscuous women will always be more sought after. Guys won’t admit it, but everyone wants a vixen.

2) How I felt such little guilt? Sweetheart, why on earth would you need to feel guilty? You did what your body asked you to do. Something that happens in nature shouldn’t make you feel guilty. Do you feel guilty for eating and drinking? Don’t be silly.

#slut confession

Genial aportación; mil gracias.

El antro

Soy una mujer casada y con dos hijos Mi marido Es un hombre muy trabajador y tiene su propria empresa donde en el trabajo el Es muy profesional y creo que eso le stressa. En la Casa Es muy buen padre y le encanta sexo. Nuestra vida sexual Es buena pero tenemos limitaciones pues con niños no Es fácil. Tengo un buen cuerpo y me gusta sentirme bien con la ropa que pongo, mi esposo siempre que vamos a salir, me pide que me vista con ropas apretadas o bien cortas. Siempre me pidio que vistiera sexy para salir y habla que mi culo y piernas hace parar a la pinga cualquiera. Hace meses dejamos los ninos con una ninera y fuimos a tomar unas copas y me puse bien caliente por el clima y el tambien donde me dijo que tenias muchas fantasias comigo que una de ellas era que alguien nos mirara haciendo el amor. no soy muy fantasiosa pero eso me excito, tampoco siento la confianza de hablar de eso pues era algo nuevo entre nosotros otro día cuando que hacíamos el amor el me dijo cosas en el oido que al inicio me molestaba, el me decía que quisiera metérmela en cuatro mientras mamo la verga a otro. me pareció raro en ese momento pero con el tiempo hable con varias otras mujeres y percibí que eso era bien normal claro nunca he comentado a ellas sobre mi marido y sus fantasias pero he escuchado que a ellas sus maridos son asi y que les encanta, desafortunada aquellas que tienen maridos celosos a punto de no dejarte vestir sexy. Un dia fuimos en una disco y me vesti como mi marido me pide solamente por complacerlo, me puse un vestido bien corto, tacones y un maquillage bien lindo que cuando me vio no lo creia. Al llegar en la disco percebi la mirada de varios hombres y me digo que eso le excito, Mi marido y yo tomabamos drinks yo le calientaba la verga al ritmo de la musica, bailando bien sexy. Habia mas parejas bailando como nosotros, yo le dije que me gustaba la disco y allí habia personas bonitas, al pasar del tiempo nos emborrachamos y mi marido me dice en el oído y te reto a quedarte sola bailando por un tiempo mientras yo voy al baño y a comprar unas bebidas, y me confesó que le encantaria verme provocar la erecion de un desconocido en la disco con mis nalgas y yo le dije que no jugaras con fuego pues estoy bien caliente. El volvio a insistir que eso lo excitaría mucho. Me dejo solo y yo me quede bailando sola como soltera en la disco y 15 minutos se pasaron y nada de mi marido , cuando miro estaba el tomando su drink mirandome sola y me hace una senal con una sonrisa picosa como que preguntándome donde esta el show? Entonces decidi seguir el juego y 5 minutes despues percibo un hombre bien parecido bailando como que acercando a mi y me empezaron a sudar las manos y pensé que hago? Mi adrenalina subio al cielo pero bailando lo deje acercar y pase la nalga sobre su verga gruesa y bien parada y mire a mi esposo que me miraba atónico donde me dejo bailando con el desconocido y debo decir que realmente eso fue super rico y yo estaba asustada por no saber la reaccion de mi marido pero a la vez super mojada por la situacion. Luego deje el hombre ahí, le agradecí al amigo al final de la canción, el me detuvo y me dijo soy Roberto eres una chica muy sexy me gustaría conocerte más, eres muy linda fui a donde mi esposo estaba y beso y volvimos a bailar toda calenturienta yo nunca había sentido tal aventura y al oído me dijo mi esposo que estaba muy excitado con lo que vio, yo le sentía la verga más rígida que nunca, al pasar tiempo mi esposo todo excitado ya estaba muy borracho pues tomo de más estaba muy borracho para manejar camino a la casa así que me lleve el carro, y en el camino sobre la carretera estaba el amigo con quien había bailado estaba parado a la orilla de la carretera su carro se había averiado, y como mi esposo estaba tan borracho ya se había dormido, decidí acercarme al amigo Roberto y ofrecí llevarlo, gustosamente subió, íbamos los tres en el carro y mi esposo dormidito yo toda nerviosa sin saber si había hecho bien o mal solo esperaba que no se despertara mi esposo, voltie por el retrovisor y Roberto se sobaba la verga , a lo que dije que dejara de hacer eso o que no se me iba antojar, después de un rato seguimos en camino hasta llegar a su destino el cual le pedí que se bajara él se bajó y al despedirse me dio un tremendo beso que no me di cuenta y tomo la llaves del carro y me comento que no me las iba a iba a dar a menos que le diera otro beso, me baje un poco temerosa a pedírselas ya que mi esposo podía despertarse en cualquier momento, accedí a darle el beso, solo que ahora fue un tremendo beso de esos que te dan ganas de coger y yo con mi vestidito zapatillas toda cachonda, deje que me manoseara todita ya estaba toda excitada y fuera de control y a lo que yo pensaba era que mi esposo así lo hubiera querido, Roberto me volteo me bajo mi tanga y comenzó a penetrarme con una enorme herramienta que pegue un grito a lo que voltie a ver a mi esposo entre el carro y ya estaba despierto con su verga de fuera y masturbándose, me puse más caliente porque ya no había limitaciones pero si pena a lo que fuimos detrás del carro donde me hizo suya completita, Roberto parecía que no había cogido en meses me cogía bien rico incluso me cargo a dos manos detrás del carro y seguir penetrándome bien rico se la mame completa y también me la mamo incluso hasta mi anito me chupaba así bien rico, me quiso dar por mi ano pero estaba muy cerrada y me dolió mucho a lo que insistió mucho y sin querer ya estaba dentro era un joven todo loco con todo el poder y con un fuerte empujón me dio toda su leche por mi ano con dolor y placer grite, al terminar me dijo que le encanto conocerme más y que ojala se repitiera y me dio una nalgada de despedida y se metió a su casa yo toda adolorida y con toda la leche aun dentro busque mis zapatillas me acomode el vestido y por cierto no encontré mi tanga, me subi al carro, y no traia interiores y el todo emocionado y con la verga de fuera hasta que llegamos a la casa hicimos sexo y el me perguntaba se a mi me gusto lo que hice y yo le hablaba que me encanto sentir la pinga del desconocido en mi interior. Luego en el otro dia pense que mi marido me iba cobrar lo que hize pero al contrario toda vez cuando tenemos sexo dice que quiere repetir lo de la vez pasada y eso me vuelve loca. Ya le hablo de fantasias y Siempre planeamos algo morboso donde el me pueda exibir para otros hombres. Descobri que a el le encanta y excita y a mi igual pues yo soy la estrella en todas las fantasias, ya me he desinhibido y varias hemos hecho cosas como ir a un hotel y pedir una pizza y yo atender la puerta solo de toalla donde el entregador me mire y ya llegue a dejar caer la toalla, mi marido Mira de un rincon donde no lo ven. Eso paso a ser algo mio y de el , un secreto solo de nosotros dos lejos de la sociedad. Amo mi marido pues percebi que amar no es de celos pero si confianza, decidi que vamos a un resort swinger a mirar y entender pues tengo un marido amigo y hago toda las picardillas por el y el por mi. Bueno espero que yo alla ayudado parejas en la misma situacion y les digo a las mujeres no pierdan tiempo en su morbo, si tienen un marido como el mio, lo disfrutes pues somos muy afortunadas pues estos no estan buscando mujeres por ahi pues nosotras somos sus fantasías