I Want To Share Something Someone Told Me When I First Started Out As A Dom Because It Was Kind Of A

I want to share something someone told me when I first started out as a dom because it was kind of a lightbulb moment for me as an emotional sadist. At the time I was doing aftercare but I didn't understand what psychologically recovering from a scene really meant. Then someone put it into dom terms and it just sort of clicked. So I thought I'd share in case anyone else needs to hear it.

As a degrader and a sadist it's so hot that some subs will be as pathetic as you want them to be... so don't fuck around with their emotions outside of that, that sub is already literally playing with and altering their emotions for your benefit and pleasure. You're overstressing the emotion muscle if you do and rest is essential to any healthy exercise.

You're not giving their feelings any time to rest and recover if you cause emotional distress outside of playtime and you're not giving them the safety and security to play with their emotions again. If you consistently play with humiliation, degradation, or other forms of psychological sadism, you need to be aware of this and plan accordingly.

Avoid big talks or heavy topics immediately after, and do things that will lift your partner's mood in the days following an intense scene even if their mood doesn't need a lift. While you can't see it, by doing that, you've essentially put an emotional ice pack on a sore muscle.

For physical injuries lift the area affected so it can circulate and heal better. For emotional ones it's the same process, lift their mood so positive feelings can circulate and help the recovery along.

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*grabs your face by your cheeks as you sit in my lap all bound up, forcing you to look up at me*

Sweet things like you are why they made rope and cuffs, so damn fuckable but with no way to keep the cute thing still.

I guess it’s a good think we have plenty of those… right pet?

*my other hand moves down your side as I feel for a rope to yank, closing the gap between our torsos*

Awee what is it, can’t speak with a gag stuffing that precious face? Your mumbles are so pathetic~

How about this hun… ima make that bell on your neck ring for a while and if you behave and don’t squirm too much I’ll think about taking it off.

Now, that’s a good lil fuck doll!~

Fucking republicans getting in the way of my breeding kink.

Aww does a certain someone have a praise kink? So you want to be told how good you are. How pretty your face is, how much you turn me on. How happy you make me when I see you taking my cock inside you even if it struggles to go in.

How much pleasure I get when I see you whimpering while I stretch you. No one turns me on like you do baby. No one makes me feel as good. No one drives me crazy the way you only do. You’re just too pretty, too perfect.

And just seeing your face, your body, the noises you make, it turns me on so fucking much. You are such a good girl, and I won’t stop saying how proud of you I’m when I cum inside you and you take it all for me sweetheart

missionary is underrated and anyone who tells me different doesn’t know what they’re saying.

is it boring that I want to sink my cock into you and watch your luscious tits bounce while I choke you and feel your pussy and throat clench???

Didn’t think so

fingering her while you grip her face and whisper all of the dirty things that you going to do to her after

I want to do vile, disgusting, horrible things to a pretty girl and then hold her close to me so she knows I love her more than anything on Earth

I can see it—the way your mind won’t stop, the way you’re unraveling, drowning in your own thoughts. You’re overthinking again, spiraling into a place I won’t let you stay. You don’t belong there, baby. You belong to me.

I grab your wrists, pinning them hard against the wall, my body pressing into yours, holding you still. My eyes lock onto yours, dark and unyielding. ‘Enough,’ I growl, my voice low, steady, undeniable. ‘You’re done thinking. That’s not your job right now.’

My hands trail down your arms, over your sides, deliberate and slow, forcing your focus onto every single touch. My lips find your neck, kissing, biting, marking you—not out of anger, but to remind you who’s in control. ‘Feel me, baby,’ I whisper, my breath hot against your ear. ‘Let me pull you out of that head of yours. Let me show you what you really need.’

I guide you, breaking you down piece by piece—every soft gasp, every shiver, every surrendering moment pulling you further from the chaos in your mind and deeper into me. You try to resist, but your body betrays you, arching into my hands, my voice commanding every inch of you.

‘There’s no room for overthinking here,’ I murmur, my grip tightening as I take you completely. ‘Just me, just this, just you falling apart exactly how I want.’ And as I push you past every barrier, breaking you down until there’s nothing left but raw, aching need, I smirk. ‘That’s it, baby. That’s what you needed. You’re mine now.’

Thank You @thisguyoverthere1257 And Everyone Who Got Me To 500 Reblogs!

Thank you @thisguyoverthere1257 and everyone who got me to 500 reblogs!

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Choking is great. But face grabbing?

Gripping them by their jaw and squeezing until their mouth is forced open...

The way their lips pout up...

The feeling of the inside of their cheeks sliding over their teeth....

Look at me...

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