Don't Dream It, Be It 🌷

I am the perfect dream girl with the perfect dream life.

Elin Warnqvist

how to become the smartest woman in the room 💭

topics to study:

philosophy

languages

art history

literature

fine foods

classical music

history

architecture

psychology

political science

“STOP BEING A WHINY B*TCH METHOD.”

oh honey, you want the 100% easy method for manifesting? well, I’m about to rip you a new one and tell you exactly why you’re failing. get ready for a reality check you’re not gonna forget, sweetie. sit tight, because this is gonna be a ride.

1) stop thinking you’re special, you’re not. – do you really think you’re the only person in the universe who’s struggling? newsflash, honey: everyone’s got problems. everyone’s out here trying to manifest. but here you are, acting like the universe is gonna stop and give you a special pass. no, darling. assume it’s already yours or stay bitter and irrelevant forever. the universe doesn’t care about your insecurities or your sob story. get over yourself.

2) stop doubting, you’re not that interesting. – look, I get it, you think the universe owes you something because you’ve been “trying” so hard. guess what? no one cares. if you can’t believe it’s already yours, then you’re wasting your time. if you don’t assume it, then guess what? you’re just another whiny, ungrateful diva who can’t get out of her own way. this isn’t a question of “how” or “if”—it’s a question of whether you’re too pathetic to believe in yourself. make a decision. or stay stuck.

3) just assume it, you delusional fool. – so, let me get this straight: you can sit there, imagining your crush is in love with you, even though they haven’t texted you in weeks, but when it comes to assuming your dream body, you’re all “but that’s impossible!” oh, okay. you’re perfectly fine living in a delusion about a relationship that doesn’t even exist, but you can’t have the body you want because you don’t “believe” it? get the f*ck outta here. It’s all about your assumption. stop being a damn hypocrite. either you’re ready to assume your dream body or you can keep your sad, bitter little excuse of a life. the choice is yours.

4) stop waiting for a sign, you dumb little drama queen. – stop sitting around waiting for the universe to “show you” something, like you’re waiting for an invitation to the VIP section. there’s no invite, honey—you’re already in the damn club. if you can’t assume your success, then don’t expect anything to change. you’re just too busy crying and waiting for a damn miracle. newsflash: the universe doesn’t hand you sh*t. you have to demand it. you want your dream life? assume it’s already here.

5) stop over complicating it, you dumbass. – you’ve made manifesting so complicated that it’s honestly embarrassing. you’re not trying to build a spaceship; you’re trying to manifest something basic like a new job or some money. and you’re sitting here overthinking it like you’re some kind of genius? no. It’s simple, honey: assume it’s already yours. you’re either too stupid to get it or too scared to believe you deserve it. either way, figure it out.

wanted to post this on it's own because i spent so much time on it...

I'm so happy about my life right now.

Everything it's perfect.

I am the most happier and healthier version of myself.

I love every single moment.

Everything happens exactly how I want to.

I don't chase, I attract.

What it's meant to me will simply find me.

be addicted to real dopamine

be in the present and notice those little things you never saw before, but that have always been there

experience new exciting things that bring you joy

love people, listen to them and create meaningful connections

make art and don’t label it as “good” or “bad,” just let your soul be free

stop scrolling on social media and start turning pages of an interesting book

do mindfulness meditation and feel your body and mind calming down

move your body, no matter how as long as you’re enjoying

listen to music that matches the moment you’re in

eat nourishing food, feel your stomach full without discomfort

get a good night of sleep and feel yourself ready for another day

Evening Routine: Winding Down and Reflecting

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Unplug from Screens (30-60 minutes before bed)

Activity: Disconnect from electronic devices at least 30 minutes before bed to allow your mind to relax. Engage in a non-screen activity like reading, journaling, or drawing.

Mental Health Benefit: Reducing screen time improves sleep quality and reduces overstimulation.

Reflective Journaling (5-10 minutes)

Activity: Write about your day—what went well, what challenges you faced, and how you handled them. End by writing down something you’re grateful for.

Mental Health Benefit: Journaling helps process emotions and promotes self-awareness, which reduces mental clutter and anxiety.

Evening Relaxation Routine (10-15 minutes)

Activity: Engage in a calming activity like taking a warm bath, listening to relaxing music, or practicing a few gentle yoga poses.

Mental Health Benefit: Relaxation techniques help your body and mind prepare for sleep, reduce tension, and promote emotional well-being.

Sleep Routine (7-8 hours)

Activity: Maintain a consistent sleep schedule by going to bed and waking up at the same time each day.

Mental Health Benefit: Quality sleep is essential for emotional regulation, memory processing, and overall mental health

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