The Rise In Sex Negativity Amongst Young Queer People In Recent Years Coinciding With The Overall Rise

Something that always has bothered me in fanfics (or just any work of fiction period) is when the female main character is so insistent on trying to be anti-feminine.  And I’m not saying if you’re a masculine woman or a gender non-conforming woman you should feel ashamed about not expressing femininity, you do what makes you feel comfortable and happy, but what I am saying is it always fucks with me how alienated it is in media.

comments like “(x) tried to get me to wear a dress, like that would ever happen” or “I don’t understand how they (another woman) can wear so much makeup” and other comments similar have never sat right with me because of the implications they have.  The implication being because they (the character) doesn’t participate in feminine things such as wearing makeup or dresses is in some way better or more desirable than the women who do.  But at the same time this also alienates women who participate in masculinity.

Typically these characters are just feminine enough to remind the audience they’re women and make them desirable, but just masculine enough to be different and worthy of being idolized.  Because masculine women don’t retain the femininity these women in media display (not saying they can’t be feminine just saying their femininity isn’t represented in the media we consume) we often make fun of them for being hyper masculine.

But this also affects gender non conforming women, as they have been so romanticized and idealized when they aren’t able to meet the expectations our media has set up for them they’re scrutinized and attacked.  Creating an endless cycle nobody can truly win.

TLDR; media romanticizes and depicts the wrong parts of women the wrong way and screw everyone over and it’s very disappointing.

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unfriendly reminder that lusting over fictional murderers is one thing — but lusting over real life murderers is abhorrent and shameful and simply wrong.

they have real victims. they inflicted real pain. there is nothing, absolutely nothing, romantic or sexy or alluring or quirky about them, no matter what netflix or any other production company puts out.

it’s one thing to joke around and say you love characters like the corinthian, or hannibal lecter, etc — they’re not real, and we know that.

but the second you bring in someone like jeffrey dahmer or ted bundy or some other real-life killer, i lose all respect for you.

there’s a line between fiction and reality. sometimes it blurs, but sometimes, you really need to make sure it does not.

My favorite ship dynamic 💖💞

Both adults, not related, both FULLY WITHOUT ANY ROOM FOR DOUBT consent.

Fund for Mavie ❤

Hey everyone, this is not for me but for a friend of mine. See this cute little girl? Her name is Mavie and she’s the daughter of a friend of mine.

Her mom and her have been doing their bests to help Mavie and to make her life a bit better and the closest possible to what a girl like her deserves ❤

The following paragraphs are words from her own mother:

“She is an angel with ASD (Autistic Spectrum Disorder) and Epilepsy episodes.

She has absence crisis, and partial crises where one of her legs or arms latches.

If she gets too stressed or without her medicine, she gets too angry and ends up hurting herself.”

She takes medicines to not faint and to not  such as Levitiracetam 250 mg, Sodium Valporate 250 mg and Clobazam 10 mg.

According to her mom, this fund could help them for a year or more. She’s currently unemployed, and because of that, every cent of this fund would count.

Please share and donate if you can, I am sure they would love this surprise ❤

If you would like to know more about it, feel free to talk with me to make questions.

The link for donations is this (I tried Gofundme, but they don’t include my country to create funds).

Donation

No like she seems nice in the Batfam comics and it’s giving me conflicting feelings

I know babs is the enemy but it’s getting harder to hate her

I told you she's kinda hot

everyone mentions the tumblr calendar of Out of Touch Thursday and Tuesday again? No problem, but we can go bigger. A larger scale. Is it not now Over the Garden Wall Fall?