Journaling Together(sending letters to another, conversation, love notes, feelings)
Listening to Music together
Watching movies or shows together and talking to another about it
Gaming together, maybe spectate another or make decisions together
Going on walks or exploring nature together
Cooking and baking together
Working out together, maybe one will possess the body while the other helps encourage
Drawing or writing together
Getting a physical representation of your relationship, like a ring
Meditating together
Divination together(tarot)
Letting your partner make decisions for or with you
Planning and doing a Morning or Night ritual together, like helping another get dressed or brush their teeth
Self care time together
Eating together
Clean and organize together
Shopping together
driving together
reading together
show/save images and memes your partner might enjoy
"Texting" another throughout the day (using simplyplural chat or pluralkit discord)
Mental check-ins, if you have fronted and haven't spoken to your partner, just call them up and ask them how they're doing
Encourage another throughout the day
Help another with homework or work(If one is tired, maybe take over for them, or help guide them through studying or not getting distracted)
reclusive child with elaborate imagination and maladaptive daydreaming to plural teenager who doesn’t identify with thier own body anymore pipeline is unfortunatelg real
My system when we're co-fronting
The absolute irony of the alter in charge of sleeping being nocturnal…
💿 You can only join and make posts as your main blog. This is a side blog. I can't post as this side blog. I'd be outing myself as plural if I posted at all via my main blog, and even then, I'm still slowly rebuilding that part of me.
– The Host
What song makes you feel better?
What is your go to comfort show?
Reading or writing? Why?
Whats your favorite feeling?
How do you like to take care of yourself?
What’s your favorite candle scent?
Who do you feel most like yourself around?
Whats a fabric/texture that’s nostalgic for you?
Best childhood moment?
When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried? (or just felt really good afterwards)
Do you have a comfort item? Tell us about it!
What calms you down?
Bath or shower to relax?
Whats something upcoming that you’re excited for?
Comfort food?
What’s something you want to create soon?
How do you feel best loved?
What age in life do you think you’ll feel most yourself at?
Have you ever written or received a love letter?
Tell us about a memory you hold close to your heart.
Tea, Coffee, or hot cocoa?
Name of your favorite playlist?
Have you ever received flowers?
Who is your bestfriend?
If your soul was a color, what would it be?
If you could live anywhere with anyone you want, where would it be and who would you bring?
Do you like to garden? Have you ever grown something?
What are you proudest of?
Are you a kind person?
What do your hobbies look like?
Embrace evil alters. Yes, the antagonistic, destructive, angry ones. The ones with horrible fantasies about revenge, the ones who want to powertrip. The ones with manipulative tendencies. There’s a reason they split and exist in the system.
being a closeted plural is like
catching myself typing with plural pronouns with people im not out to yet
i accidentally used a headmate's pk proxy in a server, mistaking it for a different server — and i had to thank the gods that the server did not have pk
oh no there's a DID system in a mutual server i hope they're chill with non-disordered systems (not like we can do much if they're not chill)
"is it possible to be casually plural?"
cant tell anyone cant tell anyone aaaa
get the Itch to tell this person. hesitates for 5 business days. ends up not telling them
the imposter syndrome
when old friends contact us and goes "how've you been?" and i only say that it's been "kind of wild" and i do not elaborate
will never ever tell anyone irl
the imposter syndrome 2: electric boogaloo
the fear of my friends somehow stumbling across our sysblog (why would they even tread plural spaces?? in tumblr, no less??) (idk but im scared)
Not super active because plural communities intimidate me (the host, Jay) but trying to be more open so I don’t suppress things Again. No clue how my system formed, but I’m definitely endo supportive.
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