I Think People Would Make Much Better Decisions When It Comes To Dating If They Stopped Focusing On Things

I think people would make much better decisions when it comes to dating if they stopped focusing on things like weddings and babies and instead focused on things like funerals and disappointment. What I mean is when I think about who I want to marry, I can’t just stop at who I want to meet at the altar. Because when you’re thinking about the person you want to spend your natural life with, that means the person who will be by your side when life is hard. When your parents die. When you lose your job. When your child is hurt. When bill can’t get paid. And when all of those painful moments come, you have to think “is this the person i want by my side? Is this the person who will be generous and giving when I’m in need? Is this the person who will find the words to soothe my aching heart? Is this the person that when I look across the room through tearful eyes, I want to, need to see their face?”

What I’m saying is when you’re thinking till death do us part, you really have to listen to the whole vow. The commitment is more than just walking down the isle. Its who you want to walk through life with.

This is My Wife | Akaashi Keiji

Pairing: Akaashi X Reader (female)

Genre: college professor, domesitccc, fluffyyy

Author’s Note: I hope @k-eijiakaashi you die reading this out of pure love

Warnings: Pregnant reader!

Prequel (but it’s not connected to this imagine’s story, it’s just same world and au but a few months earlier): I Love You | Akaashi Keiji

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