Your wife had no problem embracing the freedom to enjoy other men. She found it an easy seduction and quite hot enjoying them. And while your arousal was in her allowing men to pick her up, hers was sending you selfies from their apartments when she they did. Now that is a compatible fetish if ever there was one.
Multiple guys have told my wife how lucky her husband is. She likes telling them that I don’t get to feel her mouth like they do