Getting Past The Fantasy Part 2

Getting Past the Fantasy Part 2

Today we will continue talking about getting past the fantasy. It is important to note that this post is a continuation of the previous post “Getting Past The Fantasy Part 1) and should be read after that one. The suggestions here should be used if the wife is excited about the idea of the lifestyle and is enjoying the elements proposed in the previous post, (ex. sexting with him while you fuck her), but is still insecure or needs further encouragement to go through with it.

Also important to note, that these suggestions take place after the wife has confessed to him that she has an attraction and/or she has fantasized about him, since that will bring an entirely different dynamic to her relationship with another man.

1. Choose The Path - It is important to determine what approach the two of you would take regarding her pursuit of a possible relationship with another man, meaning the how she will justify being married but pursuing an interest with another man. In other words, will she be upfront and tell him this is a fantasy for you, or will she play the role of a cheating wife for him. (I will cover more on the Pros and Cons of each road taken in a later post). For today’s purpose, I do not recommend that she pretends to be single at all, since that could cause problems later. For today’s purpose, I recommend she is upfront with the man she has an interest in and tells him this is a fantasy for her husband as well and that the husband is aware, this will line up things well for the future.

2. The First Date - The wife should be encouraged to accept a date with her other man (we will refer to him as “The Bull” from this point forward). This date is post-confessing her crush and sexual interest date, and is considered the first date regardless if she has gone on dates before confessing. As stated earlier, the dynamics will change when she confesses a sexual interest, so it will be like a new beginning. Because she is building up her confidence in herself and your attitude towards this, you should agree if she tells you that she will not be having sex with him or pursue anything on that date. Do not demand that she does anything, getting her to agree to date him alone is enough for today. She may also choose to simply go out to eat someplace in public and make it clear to the Bull she will not be having sex with him, if she needs to. A good Bull will understand that your wife still needs more time to “break in” and should not be trying to rush her. You should encourage her to show off her body as much as she is comfortable with, but do not push her too much. Even if she is not planning on having sex, ensure that you show her you are going to put condoms in her purse, just in case she needs them that day or any other day. This shows her you are ready for her to move forward, even if she is not yet. Post-date, you may be very curious on how things went but don’t rush her. Get a feel of how much she wants to talk about it and show her how excited you are for her. Finish by giving her some great sex. (Note: It is likely she did not have sex with him yet, you should still be very excited she made it this far, so thank her. If she did have sex with him on the first date, you have your a slutwife and do not need the rest of this post).

3. Date Escalation - After the first date, assuming the Bull did a good job keeping her interested, encourage her to go out with her Bull to different places. For example, a good second date could be her asking her Bull to take her to the movies, where they can spend time in the dark and close proximity and likely he will hug or touch her. Dancing is also a good option, where he will get her to have fun, moving her body, and touching her body liberally. The beach is another good option, where she can wear a small bikini and show off her body, maybe even let him rub sun lotion on her. Ideally, she should start dating her Bull regularly in environments where she shows off her body, is close to him, and he can touch her. (We will cover more on Slutwife Dating Places in a later post). The more time she gets to spend with him alone knowing they are both into each other, the more comfortable she will become with everyone’s role in this relationship, the more she will relax around him.

4. Have him decide what she should wear to the next date - The next step will be about your wife surrendering more control to him. You will take your wife shopping and for sexy clothes while she texts with her Bull. Ask her to get his opinion on her sexy clothes by sending him pictures as she tries stuff on. This includes dresses, skirts, shorts, tops, bikinis, and lingerie. Give her time to shop and let her have fun trying different stuff on. Her her take pictures for him if needed. Buy her the the stuff that her Bull finds the sexiest on her, including outerwear and underwear. She may also want shoes, belts, earrings, etc., to match, this is her moment as a queen, do not try to be cheap.

5. Tell her to let him touch her - For the next date, she should wear something that her Bull chose, dress, mini-skirt, etc., along with the lingerie that he chose for her. For this date, she should make it a point to let him touch her as much as he wants as well as make out with him. Of course, this step may take some time, so don’t rush her. She may be happy just giving him a few kisses at first, but the point is to build up enough chemistry to let him touch and kiss her freely. She should also be encouraged to show off what she is wearing under her clothes or even show nudity, but touching and kissing is what you are aiming for. If she can go for it, she should ask him to suck her tits and eat her out (This might take a few more dates depending on the wife). Dancing and beach dates work really well for getting the wife used to being touch by him. As always, ensure she sees you make sure she has condoms, just in case.

6. Ask her to touch him - If your wife has made it this far with him without actually having sex with him, she is a huge tease that loves the attention. However, it is time to push another level. You will now ask her to touch him too. If she has been making out with him, odds are this is already happening. However, she should make it a point to reach into his pants and feel his cock hard for her. She should pull it out, and look at it, as she jerks him off. Giving him a blowjob is pretty natural at this point and it may even progress into full out sex.

7. Get them a hotel date - If at this point, she has withheld sex from the Bull for some reason, you will help him out and set things up. You will get a room in a nice hotel and have her dress in some sexy clothes he likes. You will take her to the hotel bar and get her in a good mood as she sexts with him. You will tell her to invite him over for some drinks when she is in the right mood. You will take her to the room and have her strip down to her lingerie. You will put her in bed and tie her to the bed, blindfold her, and gag her. Take a picture of her in this position and send it to him from her phone, and tell him she is ready. When he arrives, you can decide if you want to stay and watch, leave him alone to do everything he wants, or make it a threesome.

This wraps up the “Getting Past the Fantasy” post. Remember that just because there is a natural progression, it does not mean it is fast. Some women are faster and easier than others, it takes time and patience. If you are fortunate, your wife may not go past the first date without sex, but if you are patient enough, she will eventually get there. Be patient and have fun, the journey is part of the fun.

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