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SHOULD YOU/HER TELL A FRIEND?

Beginner couples talking about the subject of her sleeping with other men tend to value secrecy. It is very often that both the husband and wife feel a level of embarrassment or a need to hide such an intimate idea from other people. Social taboos tend to keep us really shy about our sexual desires, specially when they don’t fit the “norm”. Slutwife and cuck relationships are a growing trend and more popular than ever, but they are still regarded as taboo in our current time. Needless to say, most people prefer to keep their grandmother from finding out such an idea floats in your mind.

Assuming you have had a talk with your wife about wanting her to become a slut, there are likely a lot of people neither of you want finding out about it, even if she agrees to it. From grandmothers to children, there are certain people in our lives we wish to keep this from, even if it is only temporarily. However, trying to keep everyone from finding out can be a complicated task and can keep couples from enjoying this lifestyle. As with most good things in life, this lifestyle is meant to be shared and be enjoyed with others.

Most beginner couples tend to keep things secret from people close to them and will rather share basic information with someone online who does not have any real world connection to their daily lives. That is fine, however, I want you to reconsider the position of those people close to you.

Today’s question is, should you tell a friend? Should she tell a friend of hers?

We tend to think our friends will judge us very negatively if we spoke about experimenting with a “taboo” lifestyle, but would they? This negative mentality can often have us thinking of our friends as some form of enemies that we need to hide this from, but do we? Very often, our friends are our best allies, why would this be any different?

I am not proposing couples go screaming out to all their friends about their fantasies and lifestyle, but the right friend in the right position can not only help make the fantasy come true, but can also help reduce any troubles that could arise from the lifestyle. True friendship, trust, loyalty, and secrecy should be expected qualities in a friend.

Friends provide:

- [ ] Emotional support - From a shoulder to cry on to someone who shares on great times, friends can help us stay emotionally centered during good and bad times.

- [ ] Help when needed - Someone needs to take care of the kids, need a ride, or in need of a cover story, friends are there to help.

- [ ] Fresh ideas - Unsure of what to do, how to move forward, what to think about something, friends provide a different perspective and can help overcome barriers.

It is easy to see how a good friend may actually enhance this lifestyle, but should you tell a friend, or should she?

Telling a Male Friend - Assuming you tell a male friend, there is a high likelyhood that he will assume you are telling him because you want him to fuck your wife. Wether you would like him to fuck her or not, you should make that clear from the start. Her telling a male friend will definitely have him thinking she wants to get fucked by him. Male friends may or may not agree with you choice of lifestyle, but it is your choice and he should respect it. Aside from that, a male friend can help you play out fantasies with your wife. You want her to send a sexy pic to another man, you want another man to take her on a date, you want her to dance with another man, or you want to see her having sex with another man, and you want her to do it safely?

A male friend may also know someone your wife may life, if not him. He may also have ideas as to how to make your wife feel sexier and sluttier. In summary, the right male friend can help you accomplish your fantasies.

Telling A Female Friend - The right female friend can help you fulfill your fantasies faster than all your male friends combined, but the wrong one can ruin everything. Let’s talk briefly about choosing the right female friend. First off, she should be either single or in a hotwife/swinger relationship. Second, she should be as slutty as is available within friends. Third, she should enjoy going out frequently, drinking, and partying with other men. Notice how secrecy is not rated as high with female friends. You want a female friend who will tell her available male friends your wife is looking for a good time. A good female friend will immediately tell your wife she should take full advantage of her opportunity to be a slutwife.

She will convince her to dress sluttier, to go out, to talk to other guys, to dance, will tell her which guys fuck the best, and might even facilitate getting her fucked by other guys through alcohol or providing a place to do it. (See the post about slut friends making slutwives for more.) The right female friend is the little devil on your wife’s shoulder, telling her to let loose and have fun. She will help her go beyond her limits and make her sluttier than she would be on her own. At the same time, she will keep your wife away from the wrong people and keep her from wasting time from guys not worth her time.

Aside from getting your wife to dress and act sluttier, the female friend will likely be taking pictures with your wife and uploading them on social media, which will magnify the possibilities for your wife.

To top it all off, the female friend will do things to draw sexual attention to your wife. Things like groping her boobs, lifting her skirt, spanking her, etc. she will make sure your wife is viewed like a sexy girl that is very available.

The right friend, male or female, will work with you and her to live out your fantasies. You do not have to go through this process alone, friends can be your best allies in helping your wife become the slut you want her to be. Take your time finding the right friends to help you.

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