Never Apologizing For My High Standards. I Deserve To Have More.

advice:

- don’t care about strangers judging you

- wear what you want

- make daily goals

- listen to new music

- be excited about little things

- give compliments

- try new things that scare you

- be interested in what people say

- it’s ok to be “embarrassing” and goofy

- wake up earlier

- pain isn’t permanent

- remember the wonder you had as a child

- never listen to impulsivity when you’re sad or angry

- drink water and stretch very often

- keep your belongings tidy and make your bed

- smile when you’re looking in the mirror

- have an inner monologue that deflects negative thoughts

- journal often

- always try to say yes to spending time with people u love

“I loved tenderly,”

— Albert Camus, from a notebook entry featured in Notebooks (1951-1959)

I think the recent events in my life showed me that you owe it to yourself to move on, it will take time and energy, but you must eventually move on. Maybe nothing will truly be the same after that person/situation/ etc yet life is not meant to truly stay the same for eternity. People and situations will leave an imprint, a mark on you yet everything must regenerate and that's exactly the purpose of life. You owe it to yourself to give life a second, even a third, and fourth (etc) chance. I think I am ready again to open myself up to new connections after certain disappointments I had this year. But I owe it to myself to give life and love a new chance.

can’t wait to get into running 🤍

I loveeee Women, like we are so fkn glamorous and fabulous and fun to look at. We are beautiful and sweet, angelic beings. (most of us are). I love it here and I wouldn't have it any other way fr. the world revolves around us.

most important tip?

You have to do research and you have to do it on your own. An inability do to basic research and find what one needs to find or wants to know is sloppy, if you’re unable to use Google and all of the millions of other very cheap or free resources out there, you should be focusing on finding out how to get your ducks in a row before you begin anything else. Doing research and being able to find what you need is one of the most important skills you could possibly have and it’s always useful to be able to know how to find good information.