There is nothing worse than hearing people attempt to sound intelligent by using lengthy words and MISUSING THEM
Misophonia culture is having that one L O U D teacher that you really like but are too afraid to tell them that you absolutely HATE the time when they YELL out a specific word/phrase/year
(More often than not, it leads me to stimming so much in class, that it usually almost always distracts me in class :( )
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To the aro lesbians: youre not feeding the stereotype or sexualizing lesbians. Its not your job to desexualize lesbians. You deserve the world and more ๐
To the aro gay men: youre not feeding the predatory gay stereotype. Its not your job to end the belief that gay men are predatorial ๐
To the aro bi and pansexuals: youre not emotionally manipulative or abusive for being aromantic. Its not your job to end the belief that bisexuals and pansexuals are sex hungry and emotionally null. Youre deeply emotional and complicated and no one can take that from you ๐
To the aro heterosexual men: youre not inherently mysoginistic or a โfuckboyโ for not being interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with a woman youre sexually attracted to. Its not your job to single handedly tackle the belief that men who like to have sex with women but not engage in a romantic relationship with them are predatory misogynists. You identity is not problematic because it overlaps with these negative stereotypes ๐
To the aromantic heterosexual women: Your aromanticism is not an obstacle for men to hurdle and โdefeatโ. You are not a prize to be won ๐
To the aromantic asexual people: youโre aromanticism/asexuality does not make you a waste. Your companionship is no less valuable than that of alloromantic allosexuals ๐
To the aromantic people who feel broken: youโre not, aromanticism isnt the character flaw that media makes it out to be. It is a valid identity, not a quirk or mistake. Its an identity ๐
To the aromantic minors: youre not immature, you wont โrealize when youre olderโ. Aromanticism isnt a childish thing that you grow out of as you mature. Your identity is just as valid NOW as it will be in twenty years. Just because people get up in arms about a-spec identities in minors doesnt make you any less aromantic. ๐
To the aromantic abuse survivors: whether your aromanticism is related to your trauma or not does not invalidate it. Whether youre aromantic because or despite your trauma youre still aromantic and no less than those who arent survivors ๐
To the romance repulsed aromantics: its okay. YOURE okay. Romance being shoved down your throat every way you turn is hard, and people ignoring your feelings about it hurts but youre just as valid as those who dont experience it. You deserve to be as comfortable as everyone else ๐
To the autistic aromantics: your autism doesnt discount your aromanticism whether theyre closely entwined or not. You deserve better than allistics policing your identity and how it interacts with your autism ๐
To the popular aromantics: its not a competition as to who can be .~*the one*~. to โfixโ you no matter how much it may feel that way. You are so much more than a challenge for people to overcome ๐
To all aromantic people regardless of all else: i love you. I promise youโll get through this ๐
Oh
OH
THIS
T H I S
I FREAKING LOVE THIS, HOLY SHIT-
Mammon sees Luke as his kid brother wait just give me a second to process this
So fucking true ๐ฅฒ๐ฅ๐๐ญ
๐๐ต'๐ด ๐ธ๐ฆ๐ช๐ณ๐ฅ ๐บ๐ข ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ? ๐ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐๐ข๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฃ๐ถ๐ต ๐'๐ฎ ๐ข๐ญ๐ธ๐ข๐บ๐ด ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ง๐ข๐ฏ๐ง๐ช๐ค๐ด ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฉ๐ช๐ฎ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ข ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ข๐ญ ๐ฃ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ข๐ฃ๐ด๐ฐ๐ญ๐ถ๐ต๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ญ (๐ฏ๐ฐ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฏ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ต๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฅ.)
the scariest part about being a writer? pouring your heart and soul into this one fic that has taken literal months to piece together only to have this sick feeling in your stomach like it isnโt going to be a hit. not because it isnโt good, no, itโs worthy of a pulitzer, but just because readers wonโt interact.
this is my message to my readers and all the readers out there: interact with your writerโs fics. someone can leave a seven word compliment along with a reblog on one of my stories and iโll think about it for days. writers, good writers, have stopped writing because of the lack of feedback they get. nobody should get the amount of support to the point where they feel itโs worthless to do the thing theyโre doing.ย
readers. like. reblog. leave a comment.
To all the white people, imagine being on the run from death eaters like Harry, Ron, and Hermione. The fear from having to fight for your lives, and to try to survive. The fear that comes from not knowing whether youโll make it to see another day or another familiar face.
But replace death eaters with: Insults, slurs, gun shots, police chasing and slamming you to the ground, death threats.
And Harry, Ron, Hermione: you.
Is that enough of a wake up call?
โจBEAUTIFUL PERSON AWARD! Once you are given this award you're supposed to paste it in the asks of 8 people who deserve it. If you break the chain nothing happens, but it's sweet to know someone thinks you're beautiful inside and out โจ:)
AW, THANKS SO MUCH ANON!!
IT MEANS A LOT!!
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โThe way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.โ-> Walt Disney
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