Self Concept In Daily Life

The 3D Feedback Loop

when we were young we experienced the work around us and those experiences created beliefs which allowed our mind to start manifesting the world around us (in my understanding of the law)

due to this we have created a loop wherein the 3D “feeds” our beliefs, and our beliefs are reflected by the 3D. Only one part of this feedback loop however is law.

Now since we experience the 3d with our senses we take everything that happens as a self reaffirming belief. if you were manifesting 50k you no longer need to affirm for 50k because seeing it in your 3D reaffirms that it is already yours as a fact.

This does not mean that you have to accept anything in the 3D, because your 3D is a reflection of your inner world. You no longer have to take the 3D as evidence or proof of previous belief systems that no longer serve you, because it can change in an instant when you decide and persist in what you want to experience instead.

This is a bit of a wacky post but i was just thinking about this recently.

Love,

Saph

Effective (Topic-)Umbrella Affirmations

hi lovelies!

Here is how i create effective umbrella affirmations for specific aspects of my life :)

remember that just because i do it this way doesn’t mean it is the only way or that you have to use umbrella affirmations at all

i do this as opposed to listing every affirmation about how i want that part of my life to be because it is just easier. The process is less about the final umbrella affirmation and more about feeling comfortable and certain that you know what the umbrella affirmation will bring you!

Of course you don’t have to do this, i personally struggle with using umbrella affirmations without this process because i enjoy being very specific about my desires hehe.

this is gonna be a very short post, because it is a simple process.

1. Decide on the topic

e.g. Uni life

2. Ask myself what that aspect of my life would ideally be like

I make little lists of all the aspects:

e.g.

Grades: effortlessly get the highest grades in my cohort, only get 9’s and 10’s, easy assignments, retain lecture information long term, All the material is easy for me to understand

Social: lectures with my best friends, good group work partners, fun and effective study seshes, well liked by my mentors, always invited to house parties and nights out,

etc

3. Umbrella Affirmations time!

now you can pick a simple short affirmation, like for this example “i love my perfect uni life”, because you have made clear for yourself what that perfect life looks like for you! You can use I am or I have statements, i personally like to use ‘i love’ because of the way it makes me feel. Find something that feels comfortable or fun for you to say, you can also have an askfirmation as your umbrella affirmation if you like!

This process for me helps me prevent extra resistance towards my affirmations and avoids tiring me out from needing to name endless affirmations about how my life looks. To me umbrella affirmations start me questioning on what my perfect life is, etc, so once i am sure on exactly what it is then i feel more comfortable and trusting when affirming for it,

I do, however, use a multitude of affirmations when i am rampaging! but for the rest i find it easy to both mindlessly and consciously affirm with a short umbrella affirmation.

Love,

Saph

The 3D is NEUTRAL

Hi lovelies,

I have talked a lot about reacting to the 3D but not this pivotal point! SO if you read this before my other 3D/ Circumstances related posts - good.

What does the 3D being Neutral mean?

The 3D means quite literally nothing. No, not just in the “ignore unwanted circumstances way”, the 3D itself and everything that happens in it is entirely ‘neutral’ it has no actual consequence on or causes from itself (the 3D). Because of this, anything that happens in the 3D only matters if you give value to it - not by interacting with it, but with what meanings you attach to events, people, ‘circumstances’ or whatever else in your inner world. Everything that happens in the 3D is inherently neutral, and what comes out of it is entirely dependent on how you perceive the event and if/how you continue to think about it.

After all it is the law of assumption, your assumptions - dominant thoughts are reflected into the 3D.

This is why it is easier than you might think to change the 3D - by for example ignoring a circumstance - and where the idea of “where your focus lies will manifest” comes from.

How is the 3D neutral if it stems from our Dominant Thoughts?

Yes, the 3D is a reflection of your dominant thoughts - assumptions - however it is only a reflection and an experience. The 3D’s position as a reflection is where its neutrality comes from: if you look in the mirror and don’t like your hair, you don’t blame the reflection, you change self.

Your reflection can not do anything to you to change it - thus it is neutral. The only way you create changes in your reflection is by changing self , perhaps because the reflection makes you feel a certain way, however, as creator you can decide how you let the reflection impact you.

(this is like the simplest way i can describe it)

Anything that happens in the 3D has no impact until you give it meaning. The reason most actions and events in the 3D continue or unfold in certain ways , is because you unconsciously and automatically assign meaning to things you perceive and experience. This is normal, humans are habitual creatures that act and react based on stimuli and repetition. Additionally if you live by assumptions like “everything happens for a reason” you will take 3D events much more seriously, so the 3D will not feel neutral - but it is.

When you take the time to consciously decide if an event, person or circumstance aligns with you as the version of yourself who has your desire, you are able to remove the meaning / impact or, conversely ,emphasize the meaning of it: This is when you’ll typically see the true neutrality of the 3D, because you really do get to pick and choose what stays and goes with no consequences.

Even if the 3D has, let’s say, an ongoing ‘plot’ where your SP doesn’t want a relationship with you, this literally can change in an instant as soon as you change your dominant thoughts.

The 3D is a reflection, it can not and will not argue facts and logic with you to keep a circumstance ongoing. If you look in the mirror and then put on a hat, your reflection is not going to refuse to put on a hat. like it does not have that power! The only way you give the 3d that power is by looking in the mirror and going “oh i don’t have a hat :(“ and then not putting on a hat.

Validating the 3D by letting it impact you is just validating pre-existing dominant thoughts, if they don’t serve you, don’t let them thrive!

The irrelevance of taking action

You can not change your reflection by breaking your mirror

I believe that is a quote from Neville and it explains this principle quite well. Since the 3D is a reflection of your dominant thoughts, you can only really change it with your dominant thoughts again (to change your reflection you do not do anything to the mirror you see it through, you change self). As such nothing you see in the reflection matters, only how you choose to perceive it and there from react to it (internally) does.

This is the choice between: “i don’t have a hat” versus going to put on a hat - just to clarify the hat is a metaphor for changes to your assumptions lol.

Don’t get me wrong, if you have a strong ass - i am talking netherite armour level - self concept, you likely can do whatever you want in the 3D and get what you want - but that also starts from within, with that self concept and denying all the times you took action in the 3D and didn’t get what you wanted. I also don’t like meddling with unfavourable 3D because i don’t want to give the circumstances my validation, time and attention.

This doesn’t mean that every action in the 3D is what i’m talking about, if i am hungry i eat, i am talking specifically about not needing to take action in regard to your desires.

How do we attach meaning to the 3D?

We do this unconsciously like over 95% of the time (i am using this value to give you an idea, this is not a scientifically confirmed statistic lol.) Most of the time this is done due to previous experiences.

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example:

Someone messages you saying they don’t want to talk.

Since your associations to good relationships means people want to communicate and enjoy each other’s presence, you create the assumption they don’t like you, or will continue not to want to talk to you.

This is someone who you value highly and are desperate to have a good relationship with so you also find it easier to believe that you messed up to make this happen // that they wouldn’t want to talk to you - because of you.

This then develops an assumption of your relationship with that person that they do not like you and as such the relationship diminishes.

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Since we are so used to deriving our understanding of the world from 3D experiences, we automatically apply meaning to new experiences based on old ones. Now just because most of the meaning we have attached to the 3D up until this point has been unconscious using logic and pattern recognition does NOT mean it has to stay that way. Since anything that happens in the 3D is inherently neutral, you don’t have to associate - in your inner world - with anything you don’t like.

Logically being told someone doesn’t want talk to you may follow the neural pathway of “if A (doesn’t want to talk to me) then b (doesn’t value or like me)” of course you can add in all the assumption that that lead up to that like “Event A (does not want to talk to me) was based off of D (assumption that i am not valued or worth being appreciated in relationships) and E (SP is amazing and deserves good relationships)” but like we could keep going like that all day…

However, who gives a fuck about ‘logical thinking’ (nerd ass emoji). On a more serious note, since your inner world (or as neville often put it your imagination) is what the 3D reflects, and you can imagine anything, you have no reason to follow or feed “logical” assumptions that make you feel bad. You do not have to internally validate any 3D circumstance or dominant thought that does not serve you. If you are able to avoid such in the 3D as well, great! if not, it doesn’t matter.

Actions like doing your job to pay your bills while changing your internal beliefs and knowing you have the better fun job internally, does not mean you are validating the belief that you are stuck at the job that sucks, cause 3D action doesn’t matter. Your internal will be reflected and you will be at the fun job in the 3D in no time, as long as you persist and don’t give in.

Only if you actively continue to think that you are stuck there and how much you hate it (and basically deeping your situation) then you are validating those beliefs.

An Important Note about the 3D and Law of Assumption

Just because the 3D is a reflection of your assumptions does not mean it isn’t real. I totally understand why some LoAss followers say it isn’t real, i personally don’t really know how i feel about that but my point is: Don’t just be a dick to people because of the lack of impact the 3D has. If you enjoy being a dick to people you likely have the assumption that they are affected by it - so yes, you are hurting people. REAL PEOPLE.

I get that the law is personal and you can do whatever you want, but if you decide to use any of the Law to hurt people etc honestly just get off of my page, my content isn’t for you. I believe people deserve to know about the law to live good lives, and no ethically good life requires the suffering of others. You have the choice on how to live your life, make the right one.

Understand that there is no if. If you say it has to happen then it HAS to happen.

"what is it doesn't-" it will. "If" is made up, "if" does not exist unless you say it exists.

i LOVE Sonja Frink so much, she really does no bullshit teaching <3

If you are struggling with manifestation and how it truly works, go watch this video. This is a GAME CHANGER!

She puts emphasis on this, what ever you truly believe to be true is completely true no matter what (that is with every single thoughts ever).

Here are many commus example:

Subliminals truly works if you believe that it works and vice versa

Tarot card reading truly work and can even take power over you if you believe it can take power over. But if you believe that it doesn’t do shit then it doesn’t do shit.

If you don’t have it you’ll have better! Babe please. This is not fucking true if you want this SP then believe that no matter fucking what, you have him. Please acknowledge that whenever you say things like that it becomes true.

She is also saying that your emotion (energy in motion) is a manifestation, NOT THE CAUSE OF A MANIFESTATION. This one really opened my eyes so when you feel a certain type of way, I say to myself this feeling/ emotion is a manifestation from a thought that I was thinking in the past, so you can dismiss because I chose to believe something that I want to believe. And POUFFF that negative feeling gets the fuck away.

Your inner dialogue same things as your thoughts are the ONE AND ONLY REASON WHY YOU ARE WHERE YOU ARE.

LET ME REPEAT YOUR THOUGHTS, YOU INNER DIALOGUES ARE THE ONE AND ONLY REASON WHY YOU ARE WHERE YOU ARE!!!!!

Stop listening to others that are not telling you this main belief please.

Anyways love each one of you take care beautiful princesses🎀

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Inner vs Outer in Manifestation

hi lovelies!

Today i want to explain the inner versus the outer, this is more a post for people new to LOAss but everyone’s journey is different so this may help you too!

Inner

Your inner in manifestation is your mind. 95% of manifestation takes place in your mind. this is because, as Neville says, creation comes from imagination.

Your brain, as you learn and grow, creates neural pathways - your dominant thoughts and what your subconscious works off of. Your subconscious/ dominant thoughts are in turn what manifests into your 3D!

Thus all methods you do - even techniques like scripting that you do in the 3D - all work to change your inner, to rewire your dominant thoughts, to create new neural pathways, however you want to think of it!

This is why no circumstance actually matters, because your entire 3D is a reflection of your dominant thoughts. As long as you can imagine a world/ reality where you have your desire, you can have your desire.

You must simply choose to be the version of yourself who has your desire - whatever it might be - and persist in that internally. The 3D will simply reflect that, as long as you are focused on your inner and not allowing the irrelevant, old story 3D to throw you off track.

If unfavourable 3D events occur, simply reject that outcome in your mind. SP says they don’t want you? simply be like Okay, and in your mind know that this is not relevant to you and that you know you and SP are together. Bank account states you have 12 cents? Nah, you are rich as fuck, you always have at least 4 figures in the bank. Continuing to be the new version of yourself, in the state of wish fulfilled, will help your dominant thoughts rewire to believe that is what your life is!

Outer

Your outer world is the 3D. The world around you that you perceive with your senses :). The 3D honestly has very little to do with manifestation!

You do not have to take any 3D action to receive any desire, because as long as you decide and persist in the version of yourself that has your desire the 3d will reflect this. The 3D is a mirror to your inner world and dominant thoughts. it cannot reject anything you decide you have internally.

To make it very clear, choosing to be the version of yourself that has their desires is internal - if you choose to be the version of yourself that has your SP, you do NOT need to go around saying SP is your boyfriend if the 3D hasn’t reflected that yet. In turn however do not take actions like complaining about SP not reaching out to you etc - because these actions are going to reaffirm dominant thoughts that you have that SP does not want you/ isn’t giving you their all and is not gonna help you manifest. Thus also, looking around constantly for your desire and not seeing it because you are so focused on looking for it is also going to reinforce your dominant thought that you do not have this desire! SO just leave the 3D out of it.

Hope this helps you stars <3

love,

Saph

YOU CAN MANIFEST ANYTHING: a quick psa

YOU CAN MANIFEST ANYTHING: it's not a matter of "if"

I know I've said this, but overnight I've received quite a few asks asking me "Can I manifest this?" or "Can I manifest that?" and I need to give you guys a reason for not answering those. And it's this:

You can manifest anything.

That's it. No matter how specific or unrealistic it may seem to you, you can manifest it. The only possible thing that could ever stop you from manifesting it would be your belief that you couldn't.

Please do not ask me, or any loa blogs for that matter, if you can manifest xyz. The answer is always yes.

So You Reacted, Now What?

You find yourself in a position where you reacted to the 3D or you spiralled etc, now what? Well it is a lot simpler than it seems. You pick yourself up and keep going. (In some cases you may find it important to take a step back and reduce any overexertion you were doing in regard to manifestation that may have been emotionally exhausting you.)

Imagine you are taking part in a marathon, you fall over - oh no! Does this mean you’ve failed? no. You aren’t eliminated. You don’t just give up. You pick yourself up, take a deep breath, acknowledge what happened and simply move on. The fact you fell over earlier no longer matters to you now, it is not going to cause the marathon to disappear or you to fall over again. You don’t have to overthink the fall or beat yourself up over the fact you fell, you simply forgive yourself, take a deep breath and keep going till you reach your goal.

You’re in control, all is well. Nothing can stop you getting your manifestation except you deciding you either 1. don’t want it or 2. can’t get it. So try not to allow anything to make you feel like anyone/anything can stop it. If you react or spiral or waiver, it’s okay carry on, but try not to make a habit out of it yk?

Love,

Saph

This is SUCH a good mindset <3

I really wanna help others more in manifestation but I got one:

Whenever you think of your desire, how about affirming "Atleast I have it in the 4D." ? I did the same thing when wanting a video game months ago, and I manifested it ( by finding money I had no idea I had all along, and I bought the game 3 days later. and during that month I was incredibly depressed, so you don't gotta be in a good mood )

I would always then feel relaxed or normal after affirming that. It also helped I already believe the 4D/my imagination is my true reality. Like how most people say they wish they could sleep forever cause their dream world is where they truly belong? Yeah that's me, except I'm now using that belief and using it to manifest that into the 3D/physical world 👀

So,, yeah I thought about this cause I saw a post of yours saying to just accept the 4D ( and that yeah ppl tend to overcomplicate it or make it seem like you gotta be some guru or something in order to manifest your desires ), and it's made me stop thinking on giving up.

omg thank you for sharing! and you're completely right, the key is acceptance and if that helps you then that is perfect! because acknowledging that its in the 4D ONLY is enough!!!