My First Cross To Bear Is My Family. I Can't Even Explain How It Feels To Grow Up In An Abusive Enviroment

I'm highly suspicious of women who say they're lesbians but spend more time hating men instead of lusting after/loving women.

Like yeah I get it, feminism is important but getting triggered at guys ALL DAY long is not it.

Willem van Aelst

Dutch, 1627-1683

Still Life With Flowers, ca. 1656 (details)

Signs of unhealthy masculinity in women:

- hating your natural female traits (breasts, hips)

- hating your voice or height

- irrational fear of being percieved as feminine by other people

- obsessing with gender roles (especially in relationships, metaattraction - being attracted to someone only because this person will affirm your masculinity)

- fear of being vulnerable, being uncomfortable with receiving sexual pleasure from your partner (in fear it will "feminise you", it comes from unhealthy views about womanhood and sexuality)

Signs of healthy masculinity in women:

- wanting to be fit and taking care of your body

- embracing all natural traits of your female body and respecting them

- having strenght that doesn't fear vulnerability with a trusted person (it takes strenght to be vulnerable)

- wisdom to recognise negative/sexist thought patterns

- having sexual boundries but not being afraid of having someone pleasure you because you know you deserve it and it's not degrading

- dressing however you want, make-up/no make-up doesn't matter, just wearing what you think makes you look good

- not caring about gender roles much (doesn't matter if sth you do will be seen as "feminine" or "masculine" by society, do what you want)

- having discipline and determination, facing your fears, focusing on self improvement

- being kind to yourself

I don't even look at the profile anymore I block every lesbian "sapphic" account that talks about liking women because I know they're a part of the cult too

If you use terms like "malebrained", "male typical behaviour", "male socialisation" to refer to women you're not gender critical.

Radfems love to assume I'm a man when I disagree with them. That assumption is based on stereotypes and the idea that women wouldn't be able to think for themselves.

You're not gender critical. You believe in gender woo and DEFINE people by gender stereotypical behaviours.

I feel like bc I was bullied it taught me sth.

It may seem like a cope but hear me out.

Nobody stood up for me back then so I realised there's not alot of people willing to do it for whatever reason. I want to work hard to be the person willing to stand up for others. No matter if others do that or not. Even if I'm the only one.

Someone needs to be that example.

are there any other women who hate TIMs but are not anti-sexual, homophobic garbage?

because I love big female tits and ass and I won't shut up about it 🏳️‍🌈

I don't hate all people who are religious but I struggle to understand them, some do it out of habit, some were raised into it and some just can't handle the idea of death being an end to life.

Those however who cling to the cross like it's everything they have, those who look to it not only as something that makes them fear death less but also a means of validation of their clay-footed superiority, those who cling to faith because they can't handle the truth that exists naturally and doesn't require any faith - those are simply weak men.

They can hate me for being a free woman and a homosexual, think whatever they wish but the second they turn their face towards the cross or the black stone to justify it, it shows how hard it is for them to cope with natural diversity of sexual and social behaviours. Truth hurts weak man's ego, only faith can uplift it.

It's crazy how people don't see me as a human being everytime they find out I'm gay. Not everyone but for example almost every therapist I had, looked down at me for it or laughed at me or criticised my looks (because apparently it's weird that a lesbian woman presents feminine).

I don't like Foucault but medical gaze is real. Male gaze is bullshit but medical gaze is an actual thing.

It's ok to kill facists when they invide your country.

It's ok to kill AGPs when they invide women's spaces.