Idk, Is It Really Body Positive If The Reason Why I Doodle Hairy Women So Much Is Because I Find Them

radfems who don't want me to draw and drool at anime tits are as bad as troons

let women enjoy themselves

and shame men

I'm quite often misunderstood by people which casuses conflicts, is this an adhd thing?

recently I found a really cool male coach

and I think I'm also dissapointed in men as well

he's an older guy but he isn't like those therapists in my city

All they care about is:

- parties

- fucking

- they go to gym only to look buff and flex

Are sexist assholes and/or wimps with fragile masculinity.

I feel like a big part of it is this show off gender bs eating at people's brains, no matter if they're a man or a woman all they care about is putting on a show for people to prove their femininity/masculinity and affirm it.

Secure femininity/masculinity doesn't need to prove itself so badly. It goes beyond gender ideology. This whole obsession with gender concept and conformity is fucked.

It's literally eating at people's brains like a parasite.

Feminism as we know it today aims to make women ugly. Here, I said it.

I mean radical feminism with it's hatered for beauty and seeing men as the only one's who are able to percieve physical beauty.

And libfems with their perverse sense of beauty, tons of makeup, dieting, looking like a drag freak.

Women are human beings. What that means is that we can percieve and recognise beauty as much as men do. As a lesbian I know that because I wouldn't date a woman who isn't physically appealing to me, doesn't look healthy.

In all honesty it's very fucking important to me and it's not because I want to appeal to men or other bullshit like that. Because I have a fondness for beauty which is a normal, human experience.

I'm not the most attractive person with great face symmetry and that's ok but I do a whole lot to look presentable to myself and keep my body healthy.

Sometimes I forget I don't really have anyone I can truly rely on. My anti-depressants make it very easy to forget about it, they help me experience natural sorrow as less important, brush it off. The moment I realise it, what my relationships with other people are truly like, I can't help but to feel sad.

Everytime someone bitter points out that "you're not a happy person", I never deny it. Actually, idk what's the word for it in english. In polish I'd say that I'm not "szczęśliwa" which means being content with one's life as it is as a whole as opposed to "wesoła" which describes those moments of happiness or just experiencing positive affect. I am happy sometimes, there are things that make me happy but I'm not "szczęśliwa".

I don't understand why people use it as an insult. It's not something we can always control, the thing is, I want to be happy and I seek happiness but I will never deny who I am in order to get it. I won't sell myself for happiness, I'd rather take it and possess it but sometimes it's just out of reach.

Just rewatched the anime and fuck... I NEED a woman like her ughhhh

'cause you can run but you can’t hide i’m gonna make you mine

I have alot of kinks that have to do with WOMEN.

Feminists: "kinks are evil"

I'm too gay for feminism in all honesty. I can't spend a day not thinking about tits.

I'm tired of homophobia coming from radfems

I have kinks and sexual feelings towards women

I have masculine personality traits

It doesn't make me a man

My body is the only thing that makes me a woman

You claim to be gender critical and then you call me a "man" for being horny for women

Just to clear things out.

I'm not a radfem myself because I'm an aggressively homosexual superhyperlesbian which contradicts radfem ideals about "sexualising women = bad".

I still see alot of radfems as my allies however, they are the only ones who truly care about same sex spaces which ofc includes same sex spaces for lesbians like myself. Despite of everything I'm still a feminist ally and even though I don't call myself a feminist (not anymore), many characterise me as such.

Signs of unhealthy masculinity in women:

- hating your natural female traits (breasts, hips)

- hating your voice or height

- irrational fear of being percieved as feminine by other people

- obsessing with gender roles (especially in relationships, metaattraction - being attracted to someone only because this person will affirm your masculinity)

- fear of being vulnerable, being uncomfortable with receiving sexual pleasure from your partner (in fear it will "feminise you", it comes from unhealthy views about womanhood and sexuality)

Signs of healthy masculinity in women:

- wanting to be fit and taking care of your body

- embracing all natural traits of your female body and respecting them

- having strenght that doesn't fear vulnerability with a trusted person (it takes strenght to be vulnerable)

- wisdom to recognise negative/sexist thought patterns

- having sexual boundries but not being afraid of having someone pleasure you because you know you deserve it and it's not degrading

- dressing however you want, make-up/no make-up doesn't matter, just wearing what you think makes you look good

- not caring about gender roles much (doesn't matter if sth you do will be seen as "feminine" or "masculine" by society, do what you want)

- having discipline and determination, facing your fears, focusing on self improvement

- being kind to yourself