What Do You Think About Me? I Am More Drastic Than That.

It’s easy to realize “HSC is coming” after seeing people’s last seen.

দেখো আলোয় আলো আকাশ,

দেখো আকাশ তারায় ভরা

দেখো যাওয়ার পথের পাশে ছোটে হাওয়া পাগলপারা ।

এত আনন্দ আয়োজন, সবই বৃথা আমায় ছাড়া । ভরে থাকুক আমার মুঠো, দুই চোখে থাকুক ধারা ।

এলো সময় রাজার মতো, হলো কাজের হিসেব সারা ।

বলে আয় রে ছুটে, আয়রে ত্বরা হেথা নাইকো মৃত্যু, নাইকো জ্বরা ।

দেখো আলোয় আলো আকাশ, দেখো আকাশ তারায় ভরা দেখো যাওয়ার পথের পাশে ছোটে হওয়া পাগলপারা ।

Maybe you gave something to someone.

Maybe you told something to someone.

Maybe you spent sometime with someone.

Then you lost in your life. You went away and you forgot. But....

Maybe those words were like sparkling stars for those persons.

Maybe they could not forget you.

Maybe the spent time always twinkles in their mind and they remind you.

Maybe your given small gift is a big big thing for them.

Maybe you are the most important thing in their life.

So, never hurt any person with your words. Your small behaviour can cost nothing but it can give pleasure to someone. Your smiling face can be a reason for other’s mental calmness.

Sometime you will not imagine that how your simple works can give other person a wonderful and pleasing moment!!

I suddenly felt there is nothing to lose. If you fail, you can try again. You can be self - taught. You can support yourself. Books will not deceive you. You will not deceive books too.

Long days ago, my mind interpreted “Rasha, you know you are doing it wrong. It will not result in good.” I did not reply in that moment. 

Now, it’s already too late. 

কোনো math এর এমন solution বের করা উচিত যেটা question maker ই বুঝে না।xd তাইলেই না মজা!

And when you know people are underrating you, you may also laugh silently. But the latter is more interesting than the former.

Remember the rating of people is just a thinking of them without knowing the actual situation. So, don't take them seriously and don't use them to rate yourself by yourself.

YOU ARE UNIQUE, why to generalise you, right?

When people overrate you intentionally or unintentionally, you may laugh :)

Comparison and overthinking

Some persons always conflict with their mind- what to do,what to do and what will happen in future. Some always think- what is happening all is wrong.Some think about their past time what can not be undone anymore.Some over thinker will spend their time just by thinking what he/she did all day, what she told another persons and did he/she do any wrong? All time, we are regretting .(oh! Who are exception. Please skip!)You know thinking is the main key of our life.

The scientists made illusion one day,they thought impossible, now that is made possible. So, overthinking is mandatory. But! we are doing it everytime.where? Nothing is happening.

Let's crack it.

"Past",Present, Future-- three stages are there in our life.Past is past though its a perfect lesson for us.I am not saying Don't think over past.Of course, you will think.But Don't regret! Another complex word 'regret'. If you did any wrong to anyone,what will happen for this thinking? If he/ she can not forgive you,what will happen? Nothing! Forgive Yourself. Remind, when you are thinking that you were guilty..you achieved "Forgiveness" instantaneously. Never waste your time for that thinking.Rather,think that you won't do it again.And if you were not guilty though you were thought to be guilty, its full problem of other's thinking, not yours. Don't be tempered! Don't be frustrated! Dont be talkative! Just wait until the actual things to be published.Wait for right time!

If you have doubt in Your work that you don't know if it is wrong or it is right. Wait for result. Wait? Yeah,wait, Don't bother much about what is not happened. Or some persons spend their time only thinking what other people think about them! They only think "oh! What he/she thought about me!😞!"firstly, its your problem of personality. If you were confident what you did- what's the reason of bothering by otherself.Yes,you must have to take consents of other,you will not be correct every time. You should take other's consent, either you will accept them and modify your decision or you will discard them. Don't be in a negotiated state!It's very harmful for your mental health or Don't be overconfident and Don't be less confident. Remember, life is once.You will color it. Other persons don't possess any right to spoil your life.

Don't be jealous! You will say, jealously is a human nature.No, you can control your mind.You should control your mind not mind will control you. It's an easy matter that otherself is more than you in any prospect. But why you will compare yourself with him/her?" Learn from him/ her"Don't challenge.Don't do anything for being better than other best person

The only thing you can do that you can "learn".

If you see clearly that anyone less than you gain the power or advantage, simply give them to play with that right.Remember, who gain that power,he/she knows that he/she is not appropriate for that power or if he/she does not know it,within some days he/she can explore it.After that, he/she loses himself/herself.That success will be very temporary. You will say,you lose your opportunity. No,you don't lose it.Temporarily, it is not yours. But one day,you will achieve this.yes, time has gone,It's right.But Don't waste your time thinking over that otherwise you have to grab next one.

When are you depressed and frustrated? That time,when you wanted anything and could not achieve that. Don't bind yourself in a chain, free yourself to gain knowledge. It is hard but you have to do it.

A writing of mine. Though it's seeming somewhat childish now. These childish thoughts can give comfort to this complex mind :3 (1)

A writing of mine. Though it's seeming somewhat childish now. These childish thoughts can give comfort to this complex mind :3 (4)

From childhood, we are growing in society. Up to a level, we just follow the rules we are supposed to follow. Experienced people give us directions to make our life smooth. Yeah, they saw life better than us. they faced agony. They had expectations. Maybe they thought, If it would happen, life would be better. What does a father do for his child? He shows him the right path of his life. Most of the time, they want their children to walk the paths which they had followed. Why? Because they know the ups and downs of the path. They don’t want their children to face new challenges and struggles. They don’t want the child to face the same agonies they faced. But one thing, both generations forget- “The Change” The things change always. The path father has passed, now it has been changed enough. Parents obviously are more experienced but if the childs don't face the struggles, can they really learn something in life?  It's better to make a robot then. If one has all problems solved, how can he/she be creative? Rather by solving all problems of the children, are not parents stopping their possibilities? It was a tradition, the son of a doctor will be a doctor. Still people believe in these ways. Yeah, obviously there are some common ways where people can get established more quickly. But if parents help their children to get their talent, if they teach how to face a struggle, children can go a long way.   

At first, parents have to see their own mistakes, then they can mould their child's character well.