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Thanks to Dr. Laurie Santos for changing my life.

Stress and pressure!

Control!

When you know you are well prepared for the war you will attend, Don't let choking ruin your focus. It happens lots of time when skilled persons can't do well for stresses in the main war. So, Practice taking stress too!

When a flower blooms, when it falls in the road - we never see.

When the first ray of sun falls on a leaf and it reflects its greenish beauty - we never see.

Rather our life starts with a click in the snoozing button of mobile phone-- in a hope of more sleeping!

We are running for our own reasons...

Nature is doing its own work...

No one is here for thinking for others,

Who is I then to think?

A follower of stoicism 🤘

I would rather successfully fail than unsuccessfully succeed.

Criticisms are unfair and so are praises.

The one reason I hate the “online communication” is-

The notion of ‘trust’ & ‘honesty’ mostly doesn’t fit here.

I am not telling all are dishonest; I am telling there’s more scope available.

“Earlier, I asked you to consider two factors in assessing online honesty: (1) the communication venue, and (2) the topics people lie about. When it comes to the venue, research suggests that we’re most honest on social networking sites and least honest on dating sites. When it comes to what we lie about, we’re most honest about our personality, and least honest about our physical appearance.Despite the fact that the Internet makes it easy to fabricate major lies, most of our online lies are minor, suggesting that, overall, we’re pretty honest on the Internet. But this doesn’t mean you should throw caution to the wind in pursuing online relationships or that there are not some people who do greatly misrepresent themselves online. Basic safety precautions should be taken when meeting an online friend offline for the first time, just as you would with anyone you don’t know well. But this research suggests that we shouldn’t be so quick to distrust those we meet online.“ 

That sounds so positive >-<

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/close-encounters/201407/can-you-really-trust-the-people-you-meet-online

I opted to search “HSC” in the search bar and an option popped up;

Seeing the 4th option, I, suddenly, remembered the terrible SSC time.

2018: 

“Question Leakage Batch of Bangladesh!”

 That year, the most amount of columns published in the front page of every newspaper showed the truth: the question was leaked.

Even, government was considering the option of retaking the exam; we were panicked every day to think that we are honest. Do not look at us. My parents were afraid to open social media thinking what if there’s a question paper. I wanted to send my teacher to know the solution of a question through whatsapp after exam, and my mother said, “Hey, if they check your social account!” 

Okay, I know this is illogical. But you can not imagine the stress of that time.

2020:

And now we, the batch of 2018, got another new name.

“Autopass batch of Bangladesh”

Yeah, we were the “question leakage batch of Bangladesh” & now we are the “Auto pass batch of Bangladesh” 

But my question is -

What have I done to carry these two names throughout my life?

চেষ্টাই করলে না, পরাজয় এর মর্ম বুঝবে কি করে? আগে থেকেই হেরে বসে আছো

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