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I really need help, im starting to have panick attacks and its killing me

I cant wait for the day i do something so fucked up that my dad sent me to a psichologist so i can get diagnosed and finally feel validated

hey i know i said i was gonna be posting a lot, but i just want to put it out there because it really bothers me when writers specify on who “y/n” is

your name, that’s what y/n first started as and i think that people often forget their version of “you” is going to be different from someone who is another race, color, or body type

y/n should be written so vaguely that tall, short, plus sized, black, asian, indian— so vaguely that anyone can put themselves in the place of y/n

maybe your fic says you can run your hands through y/n’s hair, but if a person with a hijab or 4c hair or someone who has shaved their head is reading, what does that say for them?

maybe your fic says y/n is blushing, it’ll barely show on anyone with rich bronze skin or darker than that?

one of the biggest reasons i became a writer was because the question that came to me a lot was how am i supposed to read this, when it’s meant for someone fair skinned and has hair that she can easily put into a “messy” bun?

now everyone who fits that category of fair skin and can do this with their hair, don’t feel called out.

but you better fucking remember that Y/N is an outlet where all people of size, color, and shape should be able to read

i’m not saying i imagine myself with x reader fics, but when i’m reading, i shouldn’t have to fall away from a fic because my boy is leaving red marks on porcelain skin.

fanfic is for everyone and sure there are poc! or person of color tags

but how the hell else am i supposed to know that the reader is someone who i can relate to?

oh and i don’t want anyone in my askbox asking for white reader because wtf? do you need something personalized???

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A cat sat on my lap today, i've never been happier

I finally found out one of my toxic traits.

I dont like asking for help because i feel like im annoyng and i dont wanna bother anyone with my problems

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Shifting try 1

I didnt make it but the next day i had a kinda lucid dream and it felt pretty realistic.

Im getting closer

How to see without my eyes ❌👄❌

Things that scream gifted kid burnout

Being on Tumblr, Wattpad. or AO3. especially AO3

Having several unused notebooks, that are empty simply out of fear of "ruining" them.

A caffeine addiction that started with you pulling all nighters that has progressed into you living off of monsters and never sleeping.

Having a praise or degradation kink, I'm sorry dear, I don't make the rules,

Saint Bernard by Lincoln If you wanna listen

Buying books and never reading them and or reading classics just to say you've read them.

Listening to Mitski , specifically Brand New city

All of Bo Burnhams Inside

Being the mom friend (you wanna give people the affection and attention you never received outside of your academic accomplishments.)

Your love language being acts of service

Having an academia playlist but also having a "lets burn the government playlist"

Hozier

Wanting to run away to the woods but also wanting to run away to a big city and cut off everyone from your past.

Having an obsession with office supplies/stationary

Notes app rants