Everyone has fears, trust issues, and confidence issues. You get to choose your reactions and what you focus on. You get to choose what you have confidence in and what/who you trust. Saying “I’m not confident” shows that you have confidence in NOT being confident. Flip the script on yourself. Don’t let your emotions run the show. Feel fully, acknowledge, observe, act and make decisions accordingly, and keep it moving.
Every mornings you have 2 choices ;
Being productive or taking a "cheat" day.
But fortunately, this choice can be done at any time of the day even right now. GET UP
One day you'll stop wanting to change your physical appearance and will enjoy and love every you ever had
Take cameras and pictures as souvenir. Make authentic souvenirs.
Don't be camera shy nor act different when the camera is on you.
Imagine you in 2, 5, 10 years watching your younger self through that souvenir.
The opinion of people is just their opinion nothing else. There's no "special force" or whatever that force you to adhere to their thoughts.
You're a free being
This work with partners and close circle too.
upgrade your life by taking note of the objects you use most and slowly replace them with the most beautiful and high-quality versions of those things you can find.
To improve you don't need money, specific course, people or heritage.
You only need Yourself.
I have all the tools, so why do I keep searching for them ?
16 hours in the day, so what are you doing of those ?