Could you reblog this if you enjoy seeing your writer friends ramble about their wips on your dash?
Hey, take it from someone creeping towards 40:
Ignore the fun police.
If you like it, order your steak well done. Get your bagel toasted with jam and butter. Put ice in your scotch and ketchup on your hotdog. Get red wine with fish and white with steak. Who cares?
If you want to, listen to pop music. Watch blockbuster popcorn flicks. Read dime store novels. Enjoy them.
Dye your hair or cut it off. Paint your fingernails blue. Wear whatever the fuck you want on your own time (ie, when not at a job or school or whatever where you can get penalized for breaking rules) as long as you aren’t like welding or shoveling snow.
Anyone who tries to tell you you’re wrong? Say “okay” and go back to what you were doing. You’re not hurting them by enjoying yourself or having things the way you like them.
There are no caveats or addendums to this. No “but what about x?” Nah. You’re allowed the things you like. You don’t have to justify your taste or apologize for it if it’s not hurting anyone.
And likewise, let other people live their lives. We’re all dead in the long run, so tend your own garden before you become fertilizer in it.
unpunishable - ethel cain / georgia o'keeffe
Sappho, If Not Winter: Fragments of Sappho (tr. by Anne Carson)
making this on my phone with very little sleep or consideration, but i think the point stands
I'd like to share with y'all a project I've poured my heart and soul into over the last couple of years: a database cataloguing every single older queer science fiction book I've managed to track down, consisting of just over 200 titles with LGBT characters/themes & by LGBT authors, spanning over a century (1880-2000) 🚀
The database can be filtered by representation, subgenre, whether the book is currently in print, and more; additionally, it includes my own ratings & brief thoughts on the ones i have read, if anyone needs a suggestion on places to start! (or feel free to shoot me an ask for a more personalized recommendation)
Jaheira’s stretch marks... you agree
✿Queer stuff I have read✿
(list under the cut)
I've had the wlw list sat in google docs for years so figured I may as well post it somewhere in case other people want reading recs!! They're in order from best to worst (or alternatively Iconic to Villian Origin story, obviously just based on my own opinion o7). I'll probably update it in the future 𖤣.𖥧.𖡼.⚘
For the titles themselves you have:
✿title-(18+ if there's mature content)-(author/artist name)-flag to show the language it was originally written in✿
♡ is for my favourite ones :)
-Opium ♡ (18+) (Aji & Junghyun) 🇰🇷
-Just Right There ♡ (18+) (Pecanpie & Withyou) 🇰🇷
-Getting To Know Grace ♡ (Hilde & Mokma)🇰🇷
-The Love Doctor ♡ (Chamsae & Bansook) 🇰🇷
-She Is Still Cute Today ♡ (Guo Si Te) 🇨🇳
-Ring My Bell ♡ (Yeongol)🇰🇷
-Straight Girl Trap ♡ (Grass Jelly Without Ice & 42 Degrees Latte)🇨🇳
-Ghosts Of Greywoods ♡ (letINK)🇰🇷
-Bead Master ♡ (Gyaga)🇰🇷
-Kill Switch ♡ (18+) (1172)🇰🇷
-The Guy She Was Interested In Was Actually Not A Guy At All ♡ (Arai Sumiko)🇯🇵
-Run Away With Me Girl ♡ (Battam)🇯🇵
-Not So Shoujo Love Story (curryuku)🇺🇸
-Dallae ♡🇰🇷
-My Mom's A Superstar ♡🇨🇳
-2DK, G Pen, Alarm Clock ♡ (Oosawa Yayoi)🇯🇵
-Serenade ♡ (18+) (Keum Kyesoo)🇰🇷
-Sadistic Beauty: Side Story ♡ (18+) (Woo Yunhee)🇰🇷
-Fatal Possession ♡ (An De & Tian Cai)🇨🇳
-Teachers Who Always Call Parents 🇨🇳
-Best Served Cold (18+) (Kim Jong Geon)🇰🇷
-Please Leave My House (18+) (Team Aemae)🇰🇷
-Kids Being Kids 🇵🇭
-There's Weird Voices Coming from the Room Next Door! (18+) 🇰🇷
-Hateful Lady (18+) (Jo Sangdeuk & Park Minam)🇰🇷
-Mage And Demon Queen (color_les)🇺🇸
-Moonlight Garden (18+) (Kang Unni & Misspm)🇰🇷
-Shiori And Yuki🇯🇵
-On A Leash (18+) (Aji)🇰🇷
-I'm More Dangerous Than You (An De & Zhuang Zhuang)🇨🇳
-Bittersweet con panna🇰🇷
-My Dear Enemy 🇯🇵
-Girl Like A Pilgrim 🇯🇵
-Yamada To Kase-san🇯🇵
-It Would Be Great If You Didn't Exist 🇰🇷
-Pulse (18+) (Ratana Satis)🇹🇭
-The Neighbours Temptation (18+)🇰🇷
-Tamen De Gushi (Tan Jiu)🇨🇳
-Marie And Alex (18+) (Jung Shira)🇰🇷
-That Time I Was Blackmailed By The Class's Green Tea Bitch (Xian Jun)🇨🇳
-Bai Lijin Among Mortals (Viva & Julys)🇨🇳
-I Favour The Villainess 🇯🇵
-Love My Life (18+)🇯🇵
-Jiang Ting And I/When We Get Closer🇨🇳
-Romance Of The Stars 🇨🇳
-Reblooming (18+)🇰🇷
-Maka-maka (18+) (Kishi Torajirou)🇯🇵
-This Is Obviously A Yuri Story 🇨🇳
-The Friend Of My Friend Is My Enemy
-Red Dot (18+) 🇰🇷
-Kissing Lilies
-Living Will
-Program Me (18+) (Takeil & Shira)🇰🇷
-Drunken Relationship (18+)🇰🇷
-Gentle Flutters (one useless dogggg)🇨🇳
-The Playgirl And The Prince
-Heartworker (18+) (Akiosketch)🇺🇸
-Tendering Resignation (Yeon-Hui Woo & Daman)🇰🇷
-Relationship Guidelines (Epum)🇰🇷
-Mojito 🇨🇳
-Goddess Of Jealousy 🇨🇳
-The Marriage Partner of My Dreams Turned Out To Be My Female Junior at Work?!🇯🇵
-Us Right Now 🇰🇷
-Words And Kisses 🇰🇷
-I Love You So Much I Hate You (18+) (Yuni)🇰🇷
-My Lesbian Experience With Loneliness (18+) (Nagata Kabi)🇯🇵
-My Solo Exchange Diary (18+) (Nagata Kabi)🇯🇵
-I Fake Married My Friend To Shut Up My Parents 🇯🇵
-I don't Know Why, But I Suddenly Wanted To Have Sex With My Coworker Who Sits Next To Me (18+)🇯🇵
-Can Love Be Recycled (18+) (Hyuk)🇰🇷
-Megan He Danai🇯🇵
-Us, The End Of The World And The Rest Of Our Lives 🇯🇵
-Two Birds In Spring (18+)🇰🇷
-Brides Of Iberis 🇯🇵
-After School Love Affair 🇯🇵
-The Sea, You And The Sun (18+) (peachpulser mira)🇯🇵
-Vengeance (18+)(Aji) 🇰🇷
-Bad Thinking Diary (18+) (Rangrarii)
-Kill Me Now (18+) (Cosmos) 🇰🇷
-Arousing Taste (18+) 🇰🇷
-Goodnight Cinderella (18+) 🇰🇷
-You Taste So Sweet (18+) 🇯🇵
-What Does The Fox Say 🇰🇷
-Lily Of The Valley (18+) (Rangrarii) 🇰🇷
-Soul Drifter (18+) (Ratana Satis) 🇹🇭
-Exlir 🇰🇷
-Aoi Hana 🇯🇵
-Outro 🇰🇷
-Lilith (18+) (Sirius & Chesire) 🇰🇷
-Given (Natsuki Kizu) 🇯🇵 ♡
-Heartstopper (Alice Oseman) 🇬🇧 ♡
-Boys Run The Riot (Keito Gaku) 🇯🇵 ♡
-Love Me For Who I Am (Kata Konayama) 🇯🇵 ♡
-Six Of Crows/Crooked Kingdom (Leigh Bardugo) 🇺🇸 ♡