Your wife made her intentions crystal clear to the stranger you met on vacation
Findom to me isn’t you spoiling me or buying me gifts here and there. All men in my life do that. I call that you being a gentleman. chivalrous.
Findom to me is complete financial control. Me in control of everything.
When that check you worked so very hard for hits your account you immediately hand it over to Me.
It’s up to me to decide if you can afford to go out drinking. It’s up to me to decide if you can afford to eat out at restaurants. Can you afford your next pack of cigarettes? Definitely not.