Hussy.
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Bitch-boi-death, ya-bitch-death, ya-boi-bitch I can’t read any of these without know that they are all me in real life
Ayo whaddup shawties just got my license a few weeks ago. Im ace now.
Middle school: ew what is sex, that sounds gross I could never fuck someone
Highschool: FUCK WHY IS EVERYONE HOT LIKE GODDAMN HES HOT SHES HOT I WANNA MAKEOUT WITH ALEX FIERRO EVEN THOUGH SHE DOESNT EXIST WHAT THE FUCK.
This scene?? ADORABLE
instinct
sigh. ok. so. here is something that people who are Very Online and do a lot of tumblr discourse do not seem to get: many marginalized groups experience huge issues with their sex lives being stigmatized and/or with being consistently desexualized.
queer people’s sex is stigmatized because it’s viewed as dirty and sinful and wrong, to the point that even within the queer community, a lot of positivity that people create for queer people is contingent on us being ~uwu pure soft sweet beans~ who are always ~sweet and tender~, never sexual, never rough or hard, and absolutely never kinky.
mentally disabled people are viewed as eternal children who could never possibly enjoy sex or experience sexual attraction/desire, to the point that people will literally say that it’s bad to be sexually attracted to mentally disabled people and that it’s comparable to pedophilia. (stares at entrapta discourse).
physically disabled people and fat people are viewed as looking so ugly and horrific and disgusting that nobody could ever possibly be attracted to us—even if we can experience sexual attraction, we could never possibly have sex, because nobody could ever be sexually attracted to us in return.
so, in light of this, it is incredibly important to keep in mind that headcanoning (or canonizing, if you’re a creator) people within those groups as asexual is not inherently better and more progressive than portraying them as experiencing sexual desire and having healthy sex lives. i’m not saying “you can never view characters in those groups as ace”, i’m just saying that you cannot get mad at people just for viewing them as sexual. we are also trying desperately to reclaim our sexuality and to see ourselves represented for once.
somebody viewing (or, again, even canonizing) a character as having and enjoying sex is not like, a terrible horrible aphobic crime against all ace people, particularly when that character is in one or more of those groups. like, i’m bi, but i don’t say that viewing a character with no canon sexuality as a lesbian or gay man is inherently biphobic. viewing a character as sexual is not inherently aphobic.
i remember a few years ago, there was a WTNV episode that vaguely implied that cecil and carlos had sex, and people lost their shit and accused the creators of being aphobic. but cecil and carlos are gay men, and sex between men is incredibly stigmatized, and portraying them as having a healthy sex life is wonderful and progressive and important.
and now, in current tumblr discourse, if a gay/fat/disabled person tries to say “hey it’s pretty weird to consistently headcanon all gay/fat/disabled people as asexual, because when you do it to those groups consistently, it starts to feel like you’re desexualizing them”, people absolutely rip them to shreds and call them aphobic.
like someone i follow is Right Now Currently being attacked and called aphobic just for saying “martin (tma) is canonically fat and gay and people in those groups are often desexualized so it’s weird to see people consistently insist that he can’t possibly enjoy sex; it’s also weird to see people consistently insist that he must have never had sex in his entire life ever because fat people are consistently viewed as people who nobody could ever be attracted to, so it can carry the unfortunate implication that nobody could be attracted to martin because he’s fat”
tl;dr: stop saying that viewing gay/fat/disabled characters as having and enjoying sex is inherently aphobic, people in those groups are very consistently desexualized and/or have our sex stigmatized, so representation for people in those groups who have and enjoy sex is just as important as ace representation
He’s a bottom don’t lie to me.
(in response to my previous ask about requests) i’m so happy your requests are open! so i was wondering if you could by chance do a head canon / imagine about bakugo having a S/O who constantly sleeps in only sweatpants and sports bras? i do that shit a lot so i was wondering how’d he react to it! i hope this request doesn’t make you uncomfortable or anything, so i apologize if it does.✨
DONT WORRY THIS DOESNT MAKE ME UNCOMFY CAUSE I CAN RELATE!
The first time Bakugou catches you sleeping like that he’s thrown off guard a bit, but not to the point where it makes him overly uncomfortable to shout “go throw on a shirt”.
Since he’s new to the relationship he’ll avoid looking at your sports bra at all costs so you don’t catch him slipping!
But nowadays, when Bakugou lifts the covers to slide into bed with you for his daily nap and sees a sliver of your skin, it’s enough to make him quickly drop the covers and say, “Not this shit again, (Y/N)!”
He’s easily flustered and makes the point of you sleeping in a sports bra a greater deal than it needs to be.
His brows are softly furrowed as the faint pinkish hue of a blush begins to gradually creep its way up to his neck.
“It’s not like I’m sleeping naked, Katsuki! But if you’re that uncomfortable I’ll change…”
Bakugou is a LIAR if he says that it doesn’t make him feel some type of way seeing you like that.
“Tch! Whatever, you’re in bed already. Not like it’ll make a difference.”
When you eventually do fall back asleep, Bakugou’s practically lying on the very edge of the bed staring at your scantily exposed back.
He’s as far away from you as he can possibly be because he is a gentleman. lol
But eventually, as he dozes off to sleep you’ll find – when you wake up -his arm draped across your torso and his forehead pressed inro your back.
Bakugou Katsuki big spoon confirmed!
I’m sorry. This is a spite piece for my instagram. Follow me @peanut_and_butter_artistry there.
Too Scary 👻
shoutout to aros and aces and aro aces this june btw
@roseywraith look bitch it’s you but old.
Fuck you too bitch
Middle school: ew what is sex, that sounds gross I could never fuck someone
Highschool: FUCK WHY IS EVERYONE HOT LIKE GODDAMN HES HOT SHES HOT I WANNA MAKEOUT WITH ALEX FIERRO EVEN THOUGH SHE DOESNT EXIST WHAT THE FUCK.