Dear bed, i love you
growing up, i dont remember my dad yelling at me when i got in trouble
he yelled when i was playing outside and he wanted me in for dinner, but that was only so id hear him. he yelled the day i told him and my mom about the abuse going on at school, but that was when i was up in my room and he was downstairs yelling over my special ed teacher abusing me and my classmates and the school letting it happen and how messed up it was. he yelled the night he went to kill my uncle cuz he was upset that my uncle had raped my cousin
but he never yelled at me. i wasnt afraid of him screaming at me or worried that he might hit me when i got in trouble
and i grew up just fine. i grew up feeling loved. i grew up able to talk to him about my hobbies and interests. i grew up comfortable around my own dad
its messed up that my experience was something many people i know never had. a lot of those people feel distant from their dad or tense around them. they dont connect with their fathers, and that is a fault on the fathers part. and that issue is yelling
wishing all of my muslim followers a beautiful and peaceful ramadan!
The choreography??? Wack. The costumes?? Wack. The acting??? Wack. The videography??? Wack. K-12? It’s tight as fuck.
not to be gay but girls can like… get it
Dear followers,
have you eaten today?
did you take any meds you need?
how about hydration?
maybe a nap if you need one
you are awesome
keep it up
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It lets you download the video or just the audio of a youtube video
Reminder that it really doesn’t matter what ways you’re marginalized, if you’re not black you’re just as capable of anti blackness as white cishet people. No amount of “but I’m gay!”, “but I’m trans!”, or “but I’m not white!” changes that.
And being neurodiverse/disabled isn’t an excuse for anti blackness either.