Open relationships seem to be becoming more popular which is cool, but this should be kept in mind:
If your partner is allowed to flirt and mess around with other people, and you’re not, you’re not in an open relationship. You’re being strung along, manipulated, and emotionally abused by someone who wants to do what they want on their terms, and control you at the same time.
Get out.
Happy National Coming Out Day!! 🏳️🌈💕
Something amazing will happen to you in May 2019.
growing up, i dont remember my dad yelling at me when i got in trouble
he yelled when i was playing outside and he wanted me in for dinner, but that was only so id hear him. he yelled the day i told him and my mom about the abuse going on at school, but that was when i was up in my room and he was downstairs yelling over my special ed teacher abusing me and my classmates and the school letting it happen and how messed up it was. he yelled the night he went to kill my uncle cuz he was upset that my uncle had raped my cousin
but he never yelled at me. i wasnt afraid of him screaming at me or worried that he might hit me when i got in trouble
and i grew up just fine. i grew up feeling loved. i grew up able to talk to him about my hobbies and interests. i grew up comfortable around my own dad
its messed up that my experience was something many people i know never had. a lot of those people feel distant from their dad or tense around them. they dont connect with their fathers, and that is a fault on the fathers part. and that issue is yelling
I JUST FOUND A GAY KIDS BOOK ABOUT A PRINCE AND KNIGHT IN LOVE AND IM,,, OBLITERATED
You know what I absolutely fucking hate the fact that lgbt people are expected to be detached and logical about their own fucking identities
I absolutely hate that I’m supposed to be passive and docile and just ignore homophobes trying to “get a rise out of me” when they call me fucking slurs
and it makes me fucking sick that My own identity, my attraction to the same gender is considered a POLITCAL STANCE, and that if I say something as harmless as “gay rights” it’s considered starting shit
Even cishets who don’t consider themselves transphobic or homophobic expect lgbt people to just shut the fuck up and “fight hate with love” and love everyone and be all kind and passive and just let bigots walk all over them and I HATE it
Cishets reblog this but don’t you dare say any clown shit
To prove something to a friend, please
REBLOG IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES
LIKE IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS DON’T BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES