Big Little Universe

awesome. this is just what America needs

do you want a relationship or do you just want to be happy(ier)?

hear me out.

sometimes when i hear ppl around me complain about how much they want a bf/gf/partner in general i often want to ask, "why exactly?"

because a lot of the time, at the core, people want a s/o to address some other thing in their life they want fulfilled. like it's more of just wanting companionship, someone to connect to, wishing to feel less lonely etc

i feel like this is worth thinking about bc often people will get into a relationship thinking it will solve this core issue they have, and when it doesn't it catches them off guard. like ur s/o is there to improve your overall quality of life, not solve your life problems for u--that's smth u need to work on urself. yes it will suck. but it will be worth it bc ull be a more well-rounded person!

i used to kinda wish i had a relationship myself, but as i met more ppl and made more friends that feeling went away and i realised i was really content with just my platonic relationships. bc at the root i really just wanted people i could truly connect to, people i could chat up whenever. and i got that when i built a good network of friends.

you don't need a romantic relationship to be happy. it's better to try to address these needs first instead of throwing it all upon the hypothetical partner to solve.

i think about this whenever i have that "i want a relationship" feeling again.

more oc ref sheets :DD come find me on artfight rahhhhh

awww!!! but you do :DDD ❤️

letting u know i wasn't able to respond then but this was very important for me when i first saw it cuz i was seriously crashing out. thank u <3333333

I will fall in love with you - over and over again. I don't care how where or when. no matter how long it's been, you're mine!

tagging @rainncoater, @onehundredgar , and @rabbitindemun :]

i found a cool tag game on twitter and i really wanna import it (o^ ^o)

this picrew + the last song you listened to :]

no pressure tags: @blood-loving-leech @overtaken-boredom @lesbianthatyaps @kameonerd566 @hexedvampire @laczki @anonymous-shxtposter @fleurafae @flovqy + anyone who wants to do it <3

which part of you is broken?

WHOA!!!!! i love my friends' ocs

now replace SHE with was and was with HE. not so funny now, is it? #feminism #pronouns

SHE was a punk. HE did ballet. #woke #truelove

i tried to look for a cool, deep quote about reflections and one's true self but it's 3am and i want to sleep.... uh. jinx. powder. whatever.

i froth at the mouth and convulse when i even think about human contact !

"can mutuals DM you?" Is this a joke, I'd rub up on some of them like a cat.