You are allowed to love being a system, after all, it is what saved your life
The thing about persecutors is that there is a high level of nuance that systems as a community (especially the cesspool of syscord) don't talk about in a way that can help recently discovered systems navigate a healthy relationship with these alters.
In case you need to hear this; yes, some alters and persecutors are not safe for the system or responsibilities outside the system. No, some alters are not ready to work on themselves through the power of 'magic and friendship'. Some are violent towards the body or other things like animals/pets, wanting to destroy precious items or spend the system's money maliciously, or intentionally wanting to hurt people close to the system. THIS IS NOT THE SYSTEM'S FAULT OR THE COLLECTIVE ACTIONS OF THE ENTIRE SYSTEM WHEN AN ALTER DOES ACT THIS WAY. However: It is the system's responsibility in this situation is to do everything it can to control said alter's fronting or take appropriate actions to minimize this behavior/damage.
"That's not nice :(((" is going to mean nothing to them. Some will take years of help and patience to become a team member in the system, and safe to front alone.
One of our oldest members was a persecutor who did not begin his healing until almost 8 years later. It was not until his actions led to him losing the most important person and the only thing he cared about for him to finally be ready to listen and see his faults. And for some alters it will unfortunately be the only way to get off that path and listen.
This alter is not a bad person for how they formed; it is so important to remember that alters form as they are for a reason, and persecutors are most often doing things or believing fully their actions are the right ones, for the system's well-being or their own. And while you need to keep your system safe, you also have to have that patience and system teamwork extended to the struggling alter. In extreme cases, professional help is most often what is needed, especially when they pose a physical threat to others or the body.
They may spit in your face, and threaten that the second they are free they will do horrible things. But It is going to take a combination of both listening to this alter and granting them humanity, while also protecting yourself and people who are at risk of these alter's actions.
Moving Accounts!!
Hi! So its come to my attention that as the primary account the likes of side blogs are shown and some of our side blogs are inappropriate for littles\regressors.
For this reason, im going to make a Sideblog for my agere things to allow my system more freedom on Tumblr. This unfortunately means ill soon be deleting all Posts. Please follow our new Blog if thats possible!!
Follow @baby-boy-central
A gender coined by me, very personal to my identity. It's a gender related to being a Fairy, toadstools, and Dark oak forests
I thought I would update everyone that Everyone except my father and step family knows I'm a System and everyone was open minded about it except my mom -Kyle
I can't count on one hand how many times I'll see a Gender flag but it's about Mental Illness or Symptoms of Mental Illness ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Like im not at all saying this out of hate or judgement. It just makes me giggle cause, like. You could just make this a Pride Flag OF your disorder? Instead of making it a Gender??
But i definitely understand your disorders affecting your Gender so like !! It just always makes me go "Wait do they know that's not normal" but like they probably do, i just overthink everything.
But like yall are real as fuck. #Narcfem
Sys Mates Draw Themselves
Number 3 Lucifer Cain CW: Blood
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Lucifer, or Luci, is a genderfluid vampire who's favorite colors are Blood Red and Uravity Pink! This 17 year old Vamp is the most passionate boy you'll ever meet and knives is my best friend. They are dating Kenzie, who I am also dating :) -Cordelia
maybe if jay became a quirked up white boy with a little bit of swag, and busted it down sexual style, he wouldn’t have gotten shot.
Trigger core /psys
spudmortemec - a gender derived from the shovel that was used to bury a body
Thinking about c!dream aging strangely because of healing potion abuse anyone else on my wave. when your organs all fused together wrong but at least youre greying later
Radioglitched is very Salem, saving this for him Later - ♤
Telioglitched: A gender that often feels disconnected or erratic; in a way that is bright and difficult to ignore. This gender may also feel like an error to those who experience it.
Radioglitched: A gender that feels disconnected or erratic; in a way that is quiet and often feels like ‘background noise’. This gender may also be linked to a slight feeling of something being ‘wrong’
… I swear I’ll post more otherkin stuff I’ve just been enjoying making these…