Angie’s Super Important And Somewhat Half-assed Guide To Basic BDSM Knowledge

angie’s super important and somewhat half-assed guide to basic BDSM knowledge

for cutesymichael, or anyone else who wants to write a BDSM relationship but is unsure of important dynamics.

BDSM is an acronym, a shortened version of BD/DS/SM. This stands for Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism.

Here’s a really good guide to BDSM if you’re looking for a quick but in depth read. Wikipedia also has a lot of really good information on it. Video Guide

What is BDSM and Its History?

Why 50 Shades is An Inaccurate Portrayal

Safe, Sane, and Consensual

Safe Words

Terminology for Beginners

Terminology Glossary

Beginners Tips for BDSM

Why BDSM Is Not The Same As Abuse/DV

Manners & Etiquette

Limits

What is Collaring?

How To Be a Dominant

The Eight Types of Domination

How To Be a Good Submissive // and here

Submissive vs. Slave vs. Pet

I’m a Submissive: So What Is My Worth?

Top vs. Bottom vs. Switch

What Is Total Power Exchange?

Subspace

What The Heck Is Subdrop?

Topspace/Domspace

What The Heck Is Domdrop/Top Guilt?

AFTERCARE

Hang On, There’s TYPES of Aftercare?

What Is A Mentor And Why Do I Need One?

Negotiation of a Scene

What is a “Scene” & How Do I Plan One?

Types of Play

Spanking 101

Flogging 101 // (techniques) // (demonstration)

Rope Basics

Dungeon Etiquette and Play Parties

How to Approach a Dom

BDSM In Long Term Relationships/Marriage

Ultimate school locker kit

“Emergency” bag for your locker ideas:

Chapstick

Hand lotion

Extra headphones

Tissues

Tylenol/midol

Feminine products

Hand sanitizer

Cough drops

Sunglasses

Sunscreen

Comfortable sweater/jumper

Safety pins (possible wardrobe malfunctions)

Lint roller

A little extra money

Re-usable water bottle

Extra pen/pencil

Wet wipes

Mints/gum

Travel sized mouthwash or breath strips,

Mini toothbrush for after lunch

Tweasers

Mini mirror

Extra pair of comfy socks (if it rains and your socks get soaked)

Plenty of hair ties/elastics

Bobby pins

Hair clips

Bandaids

Deodorant

Extra set of house keys (if you forget yours at home)

Perfume

Tide to go (In case you spill something on your clothes)

How to see Aura

get a white paper, or if you have a white wall, it serves well too

1. Put your hand in front of the white paper or white wall 2. Pick one finger to look 3. Stare and the border of the finger 4. First you will start by seeing a trasparent contour around the finger 5. After a while you start seeing some color

PS.: Who is not used to it might take some time but keep starring… I advise you to try it at least for one minute if your eyes get tired then after a few minutes if you didnt have results do it another day repeat it every day untill you get i can tell if you follow these steps seriously you will get there.

Colors:

Red: related to material. Usually people that attract money easy, that can handle wealth well, enthusiastic

Blue: Spiritual, balanced, relaxed, communicators, singers, intelligent, intuitive, healers

Indigo: psychic, intuitive, empathy, sensivity

Rainbow: healer, medium

Purple: spiritual, creative, artistical, philosophical, love to learn, connected with nature, psychic

Yellow: analytical, intelligent, scientists, good with perception, decisive

Pink: loving, giving, family oriented, strong psychic abilities, writers, anti-conflicts

green aura: hard working, creative, stable, practical, successful in business, generosity

Orange: kind, honest, sensible, quick to lose their temper, confident

white/silver: sensitivity, intuitive, psychic, spiritual, lucky

Gold: love attention, beauty, attract affection from others, great listeners,

Brown: lack of confidence, selfishness, deception

Black aura: depression, hatred, negativity

The white, indigo, blue and violet are said to be the higher frequencies… One might have more then one aura color… Aura can change the color or the shade… It’s a spiritual field that reflects the spiritual level of a person… If a person changes too much the color of the aura might change too. But also it’s common to someone to never change it’s aura color.

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nowaayjose

9 years ago

if your stomach’s sensitive because of anxiety, by all means spread out the food you eat over the course of the day instead of having large meals, just don’t…not eat. you will go into hypoglycemic shock and that will suck.

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nowaayjose

8 years ago