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How to spot a scammer before it is to late blog 1 of ?

Hello everyone, as I'm sure you are all more than aware there is a major problem that is occuring online as it is an industry that is only growing by the day, of which of course I'm refering to scamming. Only a few of you actually know the reasons why I decided to start my blog, to which I feel is important to share with you all. One of the main reasons is that I was recently scammed out of over $135,000 in a romance scam a couple of days before Xmas last year. Now I have dealt with scammers for along time going back decades and know all the red flags, but this one was different than any I'd experienced before, as not only was it ran by an entire syndicate of scammers, but they had infact cloned entire companies in order to trick their marks out of their money and were running the scam 24 hours a day everyday worldwide. So believe me as someone who is an obsessive person I can tell you scams can happen to anyone.

Shortly after joining this app a month ago I also realised the sheer number of fake mistress scammers that are plaguing this site, so I wanted to be able to do my bit to help you all out, by both being able to spot them by teaching you all how to conduct your own background checks on someone claiming to be a mistress, whilst also pointing out a series of red flags to look out for when talking with them. I also intend on helping you all by providing a series of other ways you have at your disposal to be able to track down a real mistress in your area as it seems to me that alot of you don't know where to start looking. I will also give you a series of suggestions to use if you can't determine if someone is real or not to help prove their authenticity or not.

To start with I will show you all how to check if a person's photos are genuine or not, we'll do this by using either Google lens or by giving you a reverse image search app to use to do it yourselves.

So to start with you will need to save an image of who the scammer is claiming they are for this example I have chosen to use an image of the actress Emilia Clarke shown below.

Now once you have the picture on your device you can either use Google lens which is on the Google website search bar

Or you can use what I will be using to show you how to do it, each way is basically the same but for this I will be using an app that allows you to search through different search engines to provide a wider search. The app I will use is called reverse image search

When you have finished installing a booting up the app you will be shown this screen where you will need to select gallery from the categories below.

Once you go through and select which image you want to scan it will ask you is you would like to crop the image you would like to scan or not.

Once you have positioned your image for cropping, select crop from the top right hand corner. And it will take you to the next screen where it will ask you to hit search. Once you hit search it will start the search for you.

As you can see below at the top of the image when using the reverse image app it will allow you to search in at least 4 different locations on different search engines.

Then it will show you the results in the section underneath the image if the picture can be found online or not.

Once it comes up with the location where the image originated from you can click on it to see who the image belongs to where in this case it would be Emilia Clarke taken from her X (previously known as twitter) account.

Alot of the time scammers tend to use either actresses, or porn actresses, onlyfans models etc to try and entice people in, more often than not if you are looking for a mistress they will use lesser known porn performers accounts, but will usually use a different name than that of the performer incase you decide to check their name online, as they don't want you to verify with the actual person if you are talking to them or not. That's not to say that they will always use a different name though as they could always use the performers real name to try and make you believe that they are the real performer, except sadly you will 100% of the time discover they are not.

Now sometimes the image search won't bring back any matches, because maybe you are infact talking to the woman in the picture (or at least someone who has access to her pictures, that could be a hacker, former boyfriend friend etc) to make sure the person is genuine always ask to have a quick video chat with them before sending over any money, if they are genuine they will have no reason not to spare 30 seconds to secure that you make the payment to them. If they can't make the chat end the communication and block them, as they are trying to scam you. Now again if they do agree to video call and it turns out they are who they show in the image that still doesn't mean that they are a real mistress as women are scammers too, trust me I know all to well that fact. I'd advice that if you do pay a tribute to only pay a small bit upfront to show that you are serious, maybe 10-20% and say to them that you will be getting your monthly paycheck in within 10 days or so to be able to pay the rest to them. Once you've done this that will give you time to do more image searches to find out if they are truthful and by giving you a further 10 days to be able to farm them for further information that you can check out, but try and remain patient and don't come across as obvious. Ask for them to show you images of things like what they are eating for food (say things like you want to see what she is eating so you know what you can cook her when you meet), then use every image she sends you to run it through the reverse image search, as I have known scammers to get caught out just because they send me an image of a meal someone else ate years ago that I had discovered elsewhere online, so remember until you have met in person crosscheck every image they send you.

Another thing you should take not of is if they have a twitter account or another social media account like Facebook or Instagram, take notes as to what images they have on the account, as people in the kink industry and sex industry make a living on selling themselves and their sexuality through their social medias, so if their social media is filled with images of either memes, GIFs or images of anything other than them showing off their own bodies then it is probably a fake scam account you are looking at. Also again whatever images they show on their social media also remember to do an image search of them as well as if someone is at all genuinely a mistress then they wouldn't have to lie to you at all about anything, including what sex toys they have to play with.

I hope this can be of some help to someone in checking out who is genuine when they try and contact you. I will continue doing these as I have an awful lot more information to share in the coming weeks but this took me over 2 hours to write today and I don't want to end up publishing an entire book to read in one blog.

PLEASE IF EVERYONE CAN TRY AND SHARE AND REBLOG THESE WHEN I PUBLISH THEM AS I BELIEVE THE MORE PEOPLE WHO KNOW HOW TO SPOT A FAKE SCAMMER THE BETTER, AS WE DESERVE BETTER THAN TO HAVE OTHERS TAKE ADVANTAGE.

Thank you for reading to the end, I love you all 😘🥰💋🙂🌹❤️

Lindsay

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