When Are Parents Gonna Learn That No Matter What They Do The Kids Gonna Be Exposed Eventually?

When are parents gonna learn that no matter what they do the kids gonna be exposed eventually?

If you give a child a toy and they hurt themselves,

Take away the toy, and the child cries.

The child then plays with another toy and hurts themselves

The only way to stop a child from hurting themselves with toys is to not get them toys

So they give them an iPad or phone,

They look up stuff and find inappropriate stuff on YouTube, so the parents put a parental lock on YouTube.

The child uses a different account and watches it anyway so the parents delete YouTube,

The child watches Safari/Google/Yahoo/Chrome videos

The parent takes away the web,

The child plays bad violent games

Finally the parent has enough and takes the device

Then the child is left watching tv,

They watch something scary? Change the channel

Watch something inappropriate? Change the Channel

Adult jokes in cartoons? Change the channel

Violence in educational films? Eventually you realize the only way to stop a kid from watching “bad stuff” is to take away the whole tv

So then the child is left with nothing in the house?

Play with knives,

Jump on couches,

Get into weapons,

Draw on themselves or the walls

Put stickers everywhere.

So take the child outside?

Mud everywhere, dirty child, and exposed to other kids

Take kids to school?

Bullies, bad teachers, bad education, diseases, Ect.

Homeschool? Back to internet problems or they could hurt themselves with a book

Send a child into the world? Their eventually exposed to everything you tried to keep away

Being overprotective is never a solution and sheltering your child is pointless and will be terrible in the long run.

The only way to make sure your child is to your standards alone is if you turn them into robots and Lock them in a box their entire lives

Then enjoy CPS and PRISON TIME! 😁

And that child will not respect you and grow up without you.

And if you think you can force it?

Timeouts, the child runs away,

Spankings? The child is taught it’s okay to hit

Taking things away? The child finds new stuff and hates you for no reason

Beatings? The child grows up either violent or hating you or both, and you also get into trouble

Manipulation? That child eventually turns on you and leaves you.

grounding? The child can run away.

Punishments don’t work. DISCIPLINE does.

Discipline is to tell a child “no” and explain why and give a good example.

Discipline is to teach a child how to PROPERLY control their emotions and feelings in a HEALTHY way. They can get mad, complain, cry, scream. But they have to choose HOW to show those feelings.

Also don’t teach them blind obedience or turn them into your “little soldier”

“Yes sir! No sir! Yes ma’am! No ma’am!”

No. That’s not how it works, it’s

“Yes I understand” “no I don’t get it”

These are proper HUMAN responses.

And respect is earned not given. No matter if your an adult or a child.

Kids rebel, kids make mistakes, kids get upset.

If you don’t want to deal with this properly with patience and understanding and a good firm mindset.

DONT HAVE KIDS.

Hope this message gets to everyone!

It doesn’t matter what culture, religion, or race you are.

Abuse is abuse

Overprotective is overprotective

Dangerous is dangerous.

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