It Seems Like Ages Ago. Recovering Slowly, Last Nights I Slept Well And Didn’t Need Painkillers When

I have been unlocked for a while, my wife must have been missing the extra attention.

Last night she got a bit drunk and when we got home she asked for a foot massage while we watched a film.

I spent about 20 minutes rubbing cream into her feet, then she stripped herself naked, pulled off my boxer shorts and lay her head on my stomach.

She spent the remainder of the film slowly teasing my cock and squeezing my balls while I played with her hair and massaged her neck and shoulders.

She didn’t let me cum, stopping whenever I was getting close.

When the film ended she cuddled up to me and I fell asleep.

This morning I woke to a dozen messages from her. The first telling me to put my cage on, the rest were a set of rules and instructions for what she expects of me.

I got my cage from my wardrobe and she watched as I pulled my balls through the back ring, then squeezed my semi erection down to get it through. A few adjustments and then I pushed the flat cage against my penis head until the cage clicked closed, then I handed her the key and she fastened the lock. The key disappearing into her bedside drawer and suddenly I’m a locked husband again.

Locking Commitment Rings: The Chastity Alternative

I know there are many FLR couples that enjoy denying him orgasms. Many opt for a chastity device since it enhances her control and his submission, however, many couples may find that making him wear a cage, is a little extreme. Not to mention it can be a lot of maintenance, keeping up good hygiene, needing an emergency key everywhere in case it's not on properly.

Some just find chastity too much and prefer the honor system. That's totally okay too. However, there is an alternative to chastity that few people are aware are of, and it's just as effective as chastity is! Plus it has other benefits too!

Rather than cage his cock, how about making him wear a commitment ring? Basically a commitment ring is similar to a chastity cage, without the cage. It has a base ring, that goes around his scrotum which attaches to a smaller ring that goes around the base of his penis. It locks the same way a chastity cage does. But it does several different things.

First of all, it allows him to have erections. So he still has full access to his penis. But it comes with an extra bonus, the ring around the base of his penis, will actually make his erections stronger, and harder, but it also makes ejaculation more difficult as well! So it increases his stamina during intercourse, and can even make him last through her orgasm so he can remain denied. He can still cum with it on though, so use it carefully. It just makes ejaculation harder to achieve.

Since ejaculation is harder to achieve, it also means that he will never cum accidentally. The ring makes that near impossible. So if he does have an unauthorized release, it's because he made it happen. So she may act accordingly, and be completely justified (not that she needs to be justified).

There is another benefit to a locking commitment ring. It can be locked on 24/7/365. It's super easy to keep clean, since it's only two rings. It can be worn during sex too, so there's never a reason to remove it, except for medical reasons.

On top of that, it shows his dedication to her. Its like a wedding ring, it never comes off, and it reminds her every time she sees him, that he belongs to her, and her only. Because it would be quite difficult to explain to another woman what that locked metal ring is doing there. so it acts as a symbol of commitment and devotion to her.

It also keeps him very frustrated, since every time he thinks of her, he's going to get extra hard, and he's going to have to use all of his will power not to touch himself. She will notice a change in his behavior if he does cum, and he knows it, so there's really no point in disobeying and touching without permission.

A locking commitment ring is perfect for a FLR if you're not interest in chastity cages. So check one out if you want your sub to wear something dedicated to you. You can even put something like a dog tag on it, that says property of. Or use it to attach a leash. You get to be creative with it, and it never comes off him! It's perfect.

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Before I bought my new cage the longest lock up we had managed was two weeks.

What a difference a well fitting metal cage can have. I’ve just spent my tenth night locked and it is still feeling comfortable.

My wife is being especially mean and sexy. I’ve been massaging her feet every night, playing with her hair, stroking her back and neck. She is telling me exactly what to do and is very firm when she says no!

Last time she made me wait a full 31 nights before I was unlocked, but she did let me hold and massage her breasts while she gave herself an orgasm. I’m hopeful she will do the same again soon.

Going away on holiday today.

She told me to take my cage and lock myself when we get there.

She had just finished her last day of work and had a couple of glasses of wine.

I double checked this morning and I’m going to spend my holiday with my cock locked, hopefully she will be relaxed and horny and I’ll get to give her lots of orgasms.

Maybe she’ll even be thinking of having a holiday fling.

So, I asked if she would like me to shave her tonight so she is all sexy for her trip.

She said yes.

My wife is away with the girls for the weekend next week.

I’ll be home in my chastity cage.

I’m thinking I should offer to shave her pussy before she leaves, just in case….

My wife bought me the cheap plastic cage for a Christmas present, she wasn’t too impressed as the back ring snapped after only a couple of overnights.

I bought myself a CB3000 rather than another cheap version.

The two cages are different, one thinner and longer, the other shorter but wider. But they both fit the CB back ring

If I’m wearing the pink cage I swap them over every few days as I find my skin pokes through the air holes and can get irritated after time.

I do like having my nails painted a pretty pink and shaving my legs and chest. A nice pair of knickers completes the outfit and no one would think once I have normal clothes over the top.

Having tried to write about some shared experiences and what I thought my wife might think about while she masturbates or while I fuck her I had been getting more and more into chastity play. This led to me trying to put into words how wearing a cage made me feel and how this started to change our relationship.

When caged I feel more and more aroused as time passes, being unable to relieve myself I found that my mind would start a fantasy and I would spend hours adding more details. In this story I tried to capture two of these.

The first a rather selfish one, casual sex with a sexy stranger, I loved the thought of pushing my cock deep into her throat as she looks me in the eye, the dirty talk about her husbands smaller cock and her pulling her pussy lips wide open for me to look inside. I could almost feel how tight her ass would have felt around my cock.

The second was a lot more about giving up control and being made to watch my wife being pleasured by two men, seeing in close detail how a larger cock would stretch her pussy and how she would grunt and moan as a second cock pushes into her asshole. Then the thought of her making me clean her afterwards and how it would taste and feel on my tongue.

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