31 nights last night.
She reached for the keys, even tried to unlock me herself. It was the first time she had seen my new cage and she made a few comments about how she thought I’d only bought a new back ring for the carbon fibre one, and she threw in a disappointed “oh God” which didn’t enhance the mood.
I ended up unlocking and removing it for her, we left the base ring on. I was told “no” when I tried to touch her pussy. She lubed me up and got on her hands and knees.
I tried to last more than a minute, but thankfully the back ring kept me fairly hard after I’d filled her with a months worth of cum. I carried on pushing in and out until she started to thrust back on me, she got herself off with her fingers then played with my balls as I stayed inside her for a few minutes afterwards.
She asked if I wanted the key and lock in the bathroom for the morning, she didn’t tell me I could sleep unlocked and she didn’t need to tell me to put it back on before I went to work.
I hadn’t expected to be unlocked. To be honest I think I would have preferred to have held her while she touched herself, or even better, to have had her push my head down and given the chance to use my mouth.
I’m not sure she enjoyed it that much, a month long wait for a disappointing few minutes. I guess I’ll find out if she did or not by how she decides to have her next few orgasms.
And just like that a full month has gone by.
She said she wanted to try having me caged for a day or two.
It was 11 days before she unlocked me for sex.
10 days after that she reached for the key again, using her new toy to reach her orgasm while I came inside her.
The next morning she teased my cock then put me inside her, I came in seconds and then was sent to shower a lock up again.
We went on a weekend away, no keys, no unlocking.
A week later she stripped herself naked and spread her legs wide so I could finger her pussy, she teased her clit and made me squeeze her big tits while she had her orgasm, I was left locked.
She leaves for her girls holiday in a week or so, she declined my offer to shave her pussy, she is having it waxed.
I will stay locked, but my imagination is already starting to go into overdrive. I wonder how many married women get fucked by strangers on a girls trip to a Greek island?
8 years ago my husband told me he wanted to try chastity. I thought ‘that’s a little weird” but it also turned me on a bit. Once I got over my hang ups, I learned I loved locking him up! Why?
1) more frequent orgasms - every weekday morning after the gym and a shower, I have my husband give me an orgasm using his mouth, hand or vibrator. This has really kept me motivated going to the gym and that’s just my morning workday routine!
2) a faux dick - my husband has a strap on to wear when I’m in the mood to get fucked but I’m not ready to unlock him. The desperate effort he puts into those hips when he fucks me while caged is intense & the orgasms are unreal! One tip for the strap on, put the dildo in hot water first to get it to around 98.7 degrees for a more natural feel.
3) sex - when I unlock him and we make love he knows that he cannot cum before I do. Our love making is passionate and raw. After I orgasm, he will ask me if he can cum when he’s close. If he’s been really good, I’ll let him. Other times I’ll say ‘no’ and tell him to go lock back up. It’s so sexy to have him melting in my hands and lusting with desire for me after I deny him an orgasm.
4) handjobs - I love to unlock him and blindfold him so he’s not looking at me. I’ll grab the oil and rub his dick. I start slow with gentle strokes then move to faster, firmer strokes. I love listening to his breathing and watching his body moving with pleasure. I also love how hard his cock feels as I’m stroking him. When he tells me he is getting close, I remove my hands and let that feeling of about to cum go away. Then I’ll start again to bring him to the edge 2 or 3 more times. Many times I will stop before he cums and snuggle up to him, laying on his chest, listening to his breathing become less heavy and watching his erection go away. Then I’ll tell him to go lock up. The sexual power of doing this without an ejaculation keeps his hands all over me for days and days. I love that sexual control over him.
5) Rules - a popular question I have been asked on my Tumblr deleted account is if guys are allowed to ask be unlocked or to ask to cum? Some wives will say, ‘no’ they can’t ask and will extend the time to be locked. Others will say ‘yes’ because they want to hear him beg and they may or not release him. The rules should be clear. My husband has only asked to be released 2 times. Both went like this. Him: can you unlock me? It’s been so long. Me: [sad face] No. Sorry. [smirk] But now you’ll be locked up for 2 more weeks for asking.” I think I made myself clear - I decide. Another rule for my hubby is that he has to go to the gym at least 4 days a week for me to consider unlocking him, otherwise I will add more time. He’s lost just over 10 pounds and his starter 6-pack abs really contrast with his steel cage! Make sure he knows your rules and expectations either by your words or actions.
6) don’t let it get stale (teasing & denial) - if you have your man caged, you already love being in control. Do you know the most effective way to fuck with a man after locking him up? A constant effort to make his dick hard in the cage. That means teasing and it melts their f-ing minds! Wear revealing things. Brush your ass against his cage when you walk by. Tell him things you would do to him if he wasn’t locked. Grab his cage and tease him that his dick can’t get hard. The more you tease, the more rewards you get in the form of attention!
7) blurred edges - Do you have some chores that need to be done? Are there some habits you’d like for him to break? Is there a kink that you want to try out? You would be very surprised at what your husband is willing to do for you once he’s been locked up for a while, you just need to ask or tell!!
We were talking last night, my wife was telling me about the things she enjoys about me being locked in chastity; the attention, the cuddles, the foot rubs and of course me doing my share of the housework.
She says that there is a point after about a week of being locked where I get sulky. I tried to explain that it’s a hormonal thing and she told me she knows, it’s in the FLR book she has been reading.
We talked about her teasing and spanking me and I even told her about a dream I had a few nights ago where I had her tied up and blindfolded on the bed with her legs spread wide open, I was playing with her clit and she told me to cum on her and the lick her clean. In my dream I stood and masturbated onto her open pussy and then buried my face in her wetness and my cum.
She laughed and told me that she wouldn’t want to be tied up, but the rest sounded sexy. I love my wife.
I bought this set of books for my wife about a year ago. She said she didn’t like the chapters on spanking, but never mentioned the chapter on cuckolding.