Some Days My Stomach Simply Does Not Stomach

now that its nicer out and im getting out and about and enjoying life a bit more i just want to say a few things xoxo

first acab

second if i ever see a “punk” making fun of a disabled person im shoving my cane up your ass <3

guys we’re. actually starting to ship steven and marc (in the show)

oops

this is all the introjects fault

reblog to kiss a narcissist on the mouth (with passion)

Lets talk about how easy it is to abuse a narcissist.

Someone who's sense of worth is so fragile and dependant on the external is incredibly easy to manipulate and have power over. Someone who experiences being wrong as a threat to their entire being is less willing to admit they are being abused and leave. DARVOing is so much easier when society has decided your victim is the monster and inherently abusive themselves. The reactions of a narcissist to being abused can be of the kind that makes it easy to be labelled as "mutually abusive" (which is a myth, by the way, it is self defense)

There is no reason to think "mentally ill people are more likely to be abused than abuse others)" does not also apply to narcissists.

ramcoa is very different than the satanic panic and all the examples that were listed are examples of ramcoa experiences. ritual abuse, mind control, and organized abuse exist and accepting that youre a victim of parts of it and have specific aspects and triggers because of it is valid.

literally stfu and educate yourself before blabbering all over the internet

how are you an adult and still think RAMCOA is a conspiracy theory? how sheltered are you? have you really next heard of sex trafficking, Mormons, jehova's witnesses, child csem groups... like genuinely. how sheltered can you be

i don't know how to tell you this, but none of these are examples of RAMCOA. as a theory, RAMCOA piggybacks off SRA (satanic ritual abuse) and the satanic panic of the 1980s, as well as things like project monarch with their at best pseudoscientific view of dissociative disorders. everything you mentioned is real (i have actually experienced one of these, so thanks for calling me sheltered BTW), i am specifically referring to RAMCOA as a concept.

if you are old enough to have either lived through the satanic panic, or experience its after effects firsthand, you should be able to tell that RAMCOA as a theory is no different than the satanic panic, Qanon, or any other conspiracy theory.

i had a dream where you were here

i had a dream where you got to see me do what i love

i had a dream where i handed you a flower and you remembered why we were together

i had a dream where you realized that you didnt need to let this get between us

i had a dream where you forgave yourself and came back to me

then i woke up

and remembered

that you wouldnt care to do any of that

got a job at the hospital

one of our friends works in the psych ward as a nurse (its like a fwbs situation and we may or may not be super into them cries)

finally admitted to having DID today after months of talking and her response wasnt exactly the greatest, she doesnt think its actually fully fledged seperate individual alters and instead just thinks its super intense derealization

so now i just feel gross and like i cant be open about my own personal experience and symptoms i deal with on a daily basis with her

like im not the same person i was earlier and i want to be respected in that and i want to feel comfortable in that and i want to be able to trust them

-wes

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Frank goes to rehab and comes back and slowly starts spiraling because he's actually taking the time to focus on himself and who he is and suddenly realizes that he might not actually be a he

Cue a scene of him sobbing his heart out in Abby's arms as he has the big realization

Abby's of course super supportive (I'm a big fan of queer abby) and takes Frank out shopping to find some outfits to try out to figure out their own personal style and identity

Frank still is proud to be called a dad but absolutely loves when Tanner calls them Dad in public on a more feminine day where she's wearing a skirt and very obviously looks feminine. Frank's a chaotic bastard that takes pride in being a menace in public

She obviously tells Mel first and this sets off a course of events where Mel Abby and Frank end up in a queer sapphic polycule (mel is acearo so its very qpp too)

the others in the ED learn because one of Frank's new trans friends (because duh she abby and mel are obviously going to community events) comes in due to some injury (maybe a non serious car crash or smth) and gets super confused because that is Frankie and their pronouns are she/they why are all these people calling this badass lesbian doctor a he

they have a concussion and so in a moment of confusion lets it slip and Frank just laughs and just shrugs and is like yea youre right because she loves fucking with her friends and so now the entire ED staff are like oh god have I been misgendering my friend this whole time and none of them are comfortable enough to ask until finally santos is like dude are you trans because she just does not gaf and is tired of the others all being uncomfortable

frank's just like yea have been for a while and keeps moving

robby especially is internally freaking out a bit because hes a good attending™️ and cant believe he missed this major part of his favorite resident

"Inshallah he will OD soon" fucking sent me