Going To Your DR? Who Said Anything About Going To Your DR? You Are In Your DR.

having an idea for your sims 😄

realizing you have to execute it in the sims 😔

my sister just quit law school is this going to be an anyone but you type year? i’m scared. she’s been told she looks like sydney sweeney too so i’m really really scared. am i going to get married to a woman this year? aaaaaaaaaaa

i got shows, cats, & trauma wrong 😋

I made a quizz!

Use this link and post your results! It's bad I know just do it!

@zipperrants @theshifterbride @themanirealityshifter @xstrawberryshiftsx @shiftingwithmars

our tour scorbus !!!!!

the vast majority of fanworks are bad, and that's fine, actually. they are bad for the same reason that the average number of legs for a human person to have is less than two: statistics. like with all endeavours and especially creative ones, most people who write fanfiction or draw art of their favourite characters are bad at it. if you line up all the crochet projects in the world, most of them will be, well, bad. some are bad because they're the first thing a person ever made, or the second or third or tenth, and this kind of thing takes practice. others are bad because the person who made them is just not very good at it. maybe they just learned how to make granny squares and they're perfectly happy to never expand or improve on that. most people who dance or bake or garden or braid hair are not amazing at it! and you'd never go to your kid's dance recital or eat your friend's homemade carrot cake and expect the same experience as you'd have at a professional ballet performance or award-winning bakery. And that's if we assume there is an objective measure of Good Art, which there isn't! Some art is just "bad" because you don't like it!

I think though that specifically with fanfiction, we sometimes forget that when we read a book or watch a movie, dozens of people have looked at it and given feedback and made changes and done quality control before the final product reaches our shelves or screens, and that's not counting the original writer's learning process and past experience. A published book is not anyone's first crochet project, even if it is their debut novel. But with fanfiction, the barrier to entry is so low (on purpose! this is a good thing!) that we do get to see a lot of wonky granny squares, and on sites like AO3 they're sitting on the same shelf as the hand-made silk lace wedding dress and you can't always tell just by looking at it which is which. The consequence of this is that we encounter fic that we think is unpolished, has bad punctuation, is out of character, and we are tempted to think "well, this is awful! how dare this person put this wonky granny square on the same shelf as the lace wedding dress!" But that's not how fandom is supposed to work! That wonky granny square is somebody who is really excited about this TV show they just watched and they are reaching out into the void to share their excitement with you. To scoff at them for not making a lace wedding dress is really, really rude. Even if they did make a lace wedding dress, maybe it's just really not your style, or you think they should have used a different pattern, and it's still their wedding dress. You don't have to wear the dress and you don't have to read the fic.

We all know that there is some fanfic out there that is incredible. I think it's important to talk about that! But the vast majority of people who post their writing online are just sharing their little hobby projects that they make for fun and I also think it's important to remember that.

Imagine having an oc group that's based off of ace card terminology like this

pls

bring back tumblr ask culture let me. bother you with questions and statements

blake 'i like every version of you but i think the one where you want me is the version i like the most' winter

all these hoes piss me off. like nobody gives a fuck about you. all these people do is dance bad and smell worse. litterally i think i might die of overexertion, starvation, exhaustion, and dehydration. UGGHHHHH (side note: on my period)

Was going through my camera roll and found an old screenshot and THE UPGRADE between Leo's appearance description on the Wiki from 2021 and 2024 is actually kinda hilarious lmao

2021:

2024:

Whoever wrote the 2021 version need to go to jail like rn