Reblog If You’d Be Okay If Your Friend Came Out As Transgender

here’s a few tips, especially if you’re cis:

someone’s AGAB is not your fucking business

someone’s deadname is not your fucking business

someone’s transition is not your fucking business

someone’s gender dysphoria is not your fucking business

someone’s previous labels and identities are none of your fucking business

if you know someone’s deadname, just fucking ignore it. do NOT EVER introduce a trans person or talk about them like “this is steve but he used to be sarah” or “my friend steve whose deadname is sarah” or anything like that. just shut the fuck up if you don’t think you could possibly NOT do that.

9/10 depictions of trans people in media especially film/shows is wrong and stereotypical.

transphobia is a wildly different experience than homophobia

maybe? look up? transgender labels? and identities? so you aren’t constantly asking someone what their label means? or just use? logic and common sense? like oh i wonder what genderfluid means oh maybe it means a FLUID GENDER oh gee could it be?

trans people never ever NEED to disclose that they are trans, and if someone doesn’t tell you that they’re trans but you later find out? don’t confront them!! they did not “lie to you”, you just assume that everyone is cis, which is weird and transphobic!!

again do not ever ask someone what their deadname is or what there AGAB is just don’t, do not, not ever. you have no reason to need that information, you do not deserve that information, just shut up.

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I made these in response to hate crimes in my community. They are full size and free to download and print if you’d like to use them, too.

please listen 🙏

happy new year! how is everyone doing? im halfway to my month goal … it would be good to be able to get to it this week as i have the gas,the electricity, the water and internet bill coming up and i really dont want them to go missed, i spent a lot for the holidays and my family, and while it was all wonderful, i dont get a lot of time to rest.. i really only need about 155$ to get to my goal! and literally any penny helps.

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Evelyn is trans and afro-indigenous. She's out of HRT and lives with four other QPOC in a household experiencing food insecurity.

She needs at least 500$ to pay for HRT and help feed herself and her family.

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She is setting up a PayPal soon, if you want to donate that way send me a message and I'll get money to her with screenshots of the transfers if you like. Please reblog even if you can't donate.

JOHN LENNON being interviewed by Bob Harris; April 18th, 1975.

can y’all just… like or reblog if y’all are poly-safe blogs

couldn’t figure out how to reblog with audio but this post just made me remember that one short part from the oh! darling anthology 3 ver. 🥺 PAUL: well, well darling… JOHN: darling… PAUL: please believe me. JOHN: please believe me. PAUL: i’ll never, i’ll never do you… JOHN: do you no harm! PAUL: i’ll never do you no harm, darling. believe me when i tell you… JOHN: oh i do! PAUL: i’ll never do you…no harm.

So You Want Your OC to be Jewish

So you’re writing a story and you want to make a Jewish character—great! I’m here to help. I always want more Jewish representation but I want good Jewish representation, so this is my attempt to make a guide to making a Jewish character. What are my credentials? I’m Jewish and have been my whole life. Obligatory disclaimer that this is by no means comprehensive, I don’t know everything, all Jews are different, and this is based on my experiences as an American Jew so I have no idea, what, if any, of this applies to non-American Jews. 

If there’s anything you want me to make a post going more into detail about or if there’s anything I didn’t mention but you want to know please ask me! I hope this is helpful :) Warning, this is long.

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