Just Saying But Most Iconic Front Women From Rock/music History Have Had Lesbian Relationships. Janis

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“You guys only hate Yoko because she’s not a white! Because she’s a woman!”

And yet I adore and feel sympathy, empathy for May Pang, who actually seemed to care for John and wanted him happy, wanted him and encouraged him to be around old friends and family, was warm to Julian, felt for Cynthia, wanted John to become more independent and sure of himself, and had a huge distaste for John’s substance abuse. She cried for him not being able to reunite with Paul, when he seemed so excited, because Yoko pulled her strings and he was back in her clutches (even though May told him not to go back, don’t go see her, and he simply told her he’d be fine– yeah right) and I’ll be bloody shallow– May was beautiful.

So no, majority of us don’t like her because she’s not white and because she’s a woman. Majority of us despise her, or simply cannot support her because of how manipulative she was/is, she stalked both Paul and John, she harassed John, she got him on heroin, she isolated him, she fed into his impulsive, irrational anger and cruelty towards Paul, she was controlling, cruel to Julian and Cynthia, entitled, brought out the worse in John, enabled John’s substance abuse even though she knew it made him violent and unstable because he could be easier to handle when out of it, picked the woman John was to have an affair with and forced them to keep tabs and played puppet master, plays widow even though she’d moved on months before John was unfortunately killed and there were plans to divorce, and then had that man move right in and wear John’s clothes, cremated John even though he vehemently opposed it, didn’t invite any close family or friends to the ceremony, acted like Paul never helped her even though HE DID, made Julian tell Sean John died, wouldn’t give Julian many things of his dad and so Paul had to help buy back a lot of his things to give to Julian, okay'ed putting John’s bloody clothes and glasses up to be gawked at, has never ONCE apologized for anything she’d done, she’s a proud and open sexist(men are subservient and all women of the world are ni**ers), and to this day still uses John and his name. And if I’ve missed anything I’m sorry there’s just so much vitriolic bullshit this woman has done and behaved like.

It’s all very convenient how just, all that she’s done is simply forgotten or whitewashed because you can’t fathom a woman, a woman from a minority, could be, can be a horrible person, and that’s simply why she isn’t liked or supported.

As a woman who is a minority, I think you’re willfully ignorant and stupidly stubborn.

She’s a vile, scummy human being and the fact the lot of you defend her and try to White Knight for her simply because she’s got a pussy, and isn’t white, is embarrassing. You’re near as embarrassing and pathetic as those who openly and proudly stan Amber Heard.

And you cannot change my mind.

Gouyen (c.1857-1903): Wise Woman of the Apache

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