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February 21-27 will be a week dedicated to the aromantic community, raising awareness, spreading aro positivity, sharing aromantic stories, and uplifting aromantic voices. I can't wait! đ
if youre adhd/autistic (or both like this dude here) im just here to say you're NOT annoying me when you scroll through my blog for half an hour (or longer, who cares) and reblog everything you like. doesnt matter if my notes are you and just you for what feels like a mile of scrolling. hyperfcoused on my blog? rad. autism/adhd are your special interests / hyperfixations? amazing. just got stuck in executive dysfunction and you actually have been wanting to do the laundry for two hours but youre still scrolling? i hope you can function that executiveness tm soon but youre amazing too. any other reason? dont worry youre good. thats all i had to say really, but i truly want you all to know this.
JOHN LENNONÂ being interviewed by Bob Harris; April 18th, 1975.
PART 4Â
John and Paulâs attitude
Ying and yang/ Marriages/ opposite attract
Strawberry Fields
hereâs a few tips, especially if youâre cis:
someoneâs AGAB is not your fucking business
someoneâs deadname is not your fucking business
someoneâs transition is not your fucking business
someoneâs gender dysphoria is not your fucking business
someoneâs previous labels and identities are none of your fucking business
if you know someoneâs deadname, just fucking ignore it. do NOT EVER introduce a trans person or talk about them like âthis is steve but he used to be sarahâ or âmy friend steve whose deadname is sarahâ or anything like that. just shut the fuck up if you donât think you could possibly NOT do that.
9/10 depictions of trans people in media especially film/shows is wrong and stereotypical.
transphobia is a wildly different experience than homophobia
maybe? look up? transgender labels? and identities? so you arenât constantly asking someone what their label means? or just use? logic and common sense? like oh i wonder what genderfluid means oh maybe it means a FLUID GENDER oh gee could it be?
trans people never ever NEED to disclose that they are trans, and if someone doesnât tell you that theyâre trans but you later find out? donât confront them!! they did not âlie to youâ, you just assume that everyone is cis, which is weird and transphobic!!
again do not ever ask someone what their deadname is or what there AGAB is just donât, do not, not ever. you have no reason to need that information, you do not deserve that information, just shut up.
Illustration about Native American boys who have to cut off their braids to follow school dress codes.
silly me, how dare i sit here & hope that people will someday wake the fuck up & realize john lennon wasnât a âwife beater.â
i guess making him seem like anything but the worst man in existence ruins the internetâs favorite classic rock punching bag.
this day will not and shouldnt be centered around her or sean or julian, but i noticed a yokoâs post so i will say this really quickly
while i will forever acknowledge yoko witnessed a very traumatizing event, and iâm upset she had to as much as i dislike her, her taking that picture of johnâs glasses is absolutely disgusting and disturbing. we donât know what it was like to see him be murdered, but we do not need to see what his glasses looked like after being shot. we donât need that at all. itâs disgusting alone the picture exists, but she used it as an album cover, and now posts it every chance she gets. whether itâs her or some estate posting it, itâs being posted chance possible, and itâs disgusting. this day is about remembering the beautiful soul we lost. itâs not about seeing that picture every year.
if i hadnât made it clear, i do not like yoko. i am aware she unfortunately had to witness that, but that is no excuse for taking that picture and spreading it for the world to see. we may not have known him like she did, but i know we do not want to see it. even if it wasnât john lennon, no one would want to see someoneâs bloodied glasses that were worn the day they were murdered. itâs not art, itâs not showing anything positive.
we miss that man dearly, and we do not want to see that picture year when we are trying to remember the beautiful soul that was lost that many love.
if my future husband were to have gotten shot and killed and i got his glasses, i would NOT take a picture of them and display it for the world to see every single year. i wouldnât even think of doing it. because it is disgusting.
i donât care if it is her or her estate or whatever that controls her social mediaâs posting it, the picture shouldnât exist. but it definitely be spread the way it is. every time i see that photo my heart literally shatters.
the john lennon estate needs to be fucking destroyed. itâs branding âjohn&yoko happy true loveâ when that relationship was toxic and exploits him as much as they can. itâs her only source of income because she wonât survive without him. no one knew who she was until she got with john. exploiting john is her only big source of income because her work alone is fucking bad and wonât give her enough to survive like johnâs work has.
if me talking about yoko like this upsets you, you can unfollow. i donât care. this blog does not like or support yoko and will gladly stand on that hill. let the trash take itself out.