I Hate When Ppl Say That Sexuality Is Just A Preference, Bc It Kind Of Implies That You’re Fine W/

I hate when ppl say that sexuality is just a preference, bc it kind of implies that you’re fine w/ or w/o it. I saw it compared to pineapple on pizza, and the person said “you either like it or you don’t, it’s a preference” which is kind of true, but most ppl that like pineapple w/ pizza are fine eating pizza w/o it too. Idk it js feels like “oh yeah im a lesbian but men are fine too ig” when it’s not the case

anyways that’s the end of the rant

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2 months ago

2050:

A girl sighs, flopping down on her bed, LED lights cover it. She swears she was born in the wrong generation, turning her head to gaze at the Chappell Roan poster on her wall. Next to it, a Taylor Swift album cover. Today somebody asked her, “Who’s Billie Eilish?” When she asked her mom about if she used to listen to her, a faint smile crossed her face, and she chuckled, whispering, “why aren’t you scared of me, why don’t you run from me, what do you know?” Under her breath.


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4 weeks ago

My thoughts on the Marauders fandom:

It has always been a dream of mine to be a popular creator within the Harry Potter/Marauders fandom. I have thought about Harry Potter or the Marauders everyday since 2012.

I have spoken so many amazing people who have different backgrounds than me and learned about different cultures. The marauders fandom introduced me to the LGBTQ+ community where I discovered who I am. I have lost friends and family members and struggled with the religion I grew up with because of my own sexuality and gender identity.

The people who I have met through this fandom have always been there for me. This fandom has shown me what love is through art and writing. I have watched strangers grow up and I have watched friends come and go on Tumblr.

Harry Potter has given me a place to belong when I felt like I did not belong anywhere. I have learned that good people do bad things and the everyone is capable of becoming better through these books. Writing fanfiction has breed my creativity and cultivated a community that I have always been proud to be apart of. Queer people have taken the words jkr wrote and made them into something important—not only to me but to everyone in the community.

It's so hard to watch what is happening in the UK right now especially as someone who does not live there. To hear about things people I care about are going through. This is not about Harry Potter. The thing that makes Harry Potter so important to me is the people in the community and it is our job as friends to help protect the rights of the people that makes the stories so special.

I have many resources linked in my pinned post please look at them. This fandom should be a safe space for all people and a safe space to walk away from if that is what it comes to. Please do not support official Harry Potter content. Being a marauders fan doesn't mean you are not a Harry Potter fan.

I care for you all and I hope that you are all safe, healthy, and happy. Please try to remember the good about the fandom but do not ignore the bad.

1 month ago

if this gets 100,000 notes then i, the worlds greatest space agency will personally shoot donald trump into the sun

3 months ago

We’ve all looked at the exact same moon and the exact same sun, feel connected

does anyone wanna hold hands until we feel a little braver


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1 month ago

I’d also like to mentions the Pinterest pins I keep seeing that say “Marauders fan when you express your opinions” or “The Marauder fandom when you have a hc that doesn’t match theirs”

And then their headcanons are all the same: everyone is straight. Their OTP is Jily, and I’m NOT dogging on Jily, it’s an adorable ship, but they make it like every other straight ship in existence. Simultaneously, these are the same ppl replying to comments on their pins that say “why? /gen” and the reply is always a variation of “honestly I hate wolfstar like it’s such a dumb ship”

Isn’t that… hypocritical?? Are you not hating on opinions and headcanons yourself? Obviously, this is a generalization, and there are some ppl that have respectful opinions that are overshadowed by the ppl like this who have either non-sensical reason or none at all.

This will probably be controversial, but I feel like it needs to be talked about. (Marauders fandom edition part 1?)

Before I say anything else, I want to preface this by saying that everyone can have their ideas and headcanons about characters, you do you. So what I think we need to talk about is things like this:

“Omg no, the Marauders are definetly all straight, wydm??” “In canon they’re all cishet, can we keep that?” “Why is every single character some form of gay?”

In canon, little is known about them, but that’s not my point. This fandom is made up by 90% queer people that are making representation for themselves in media, because in said media, most of the “representation” is just one stereotypical queer person so the production team can claim they’re not homophobic. So when you take representation made by queer people for queer people and start packing it back into the same cishet boxes in was in before, you’re taking something that wasn’t made for you, and altering it to fit in a way you like. This sub-fandom wasn’t made by queer people so that straight people could take it and rewire it to fit them. Some *specific* instances of this are asexual Evan Rosier, trans Regulus Black, pansexual James Potter, and aroace Peter Pettigrew. While I’m not sure if this was representation some in this fandom made for themselves or others, it’s still important. What I’m really trying to say (it’s 12:36 at night, please) is that this fandom wasn’t made for straight people.

Marlene McKinnon isn’t headcanoned to be a lesbian so a weird uncle named Fred could fetishize her, she’s headcanoned to be a lesbian so that a 14 year old girl could see a character like her and feel seen. Sirius Black is not headcanoned to be gay/bi so a lonely wine mom could sexualize him. He’s headcanoned to be gay/bi so that a teenaged boy doesn’t feel so weird anymore.

Again, it’s okay to headcanon whoever to want to be this that or the other, that’s not what I’m addressing. It’s making everyone the same carbon copies of straight, white, and cis.

I’m done yapping now, go drink some water.


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2 months ago

I love the rain. It’s like the ocean sent a part of itself to give you kisses, whether you need it or not ♥️


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2 months ago

my favorite animal is when there’s a hate comment on a fic and the authors like “aw :( I’m sorry you didn’t like it” and meanwhile half the fucking fandom is piling up and asking if they even read the fic.


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1 week ago

no you don’t understand Tobias is Remus and Gabin is Sirius ok


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