Sorry to break it to you but you literally have to face your fears and slaughter them. Otherwise you will live a small life that you do not want. You literally have to view your biggest fears and attack them head on. You have to fall into the abyss to find your way out. The easy path does not exist. There is no get out of jail free card. You have to allow yourself to die a spiritual death over and over again in order to reinvent yourself into the person you are actually supposed to be. And you have to be painfully honest with yourself and the people around you. It’s horrible but it’s truly the only way.
When the time comes you will understand why God made you wait for it.
Anytime someone does something bad to me, I ask myself how I put myself in that position. Not because “it’s my fault” or “I deserve it” — but because I want to grow and never be put in that position again.
• Get your degree, get your bag and be your own man. Be independent.
• Don't get married or move in with someone until your brain is fully developed (age 25)
• Be obsessed with improving yourself every single day. You can create your own dream life.
• Don't get pregnant unless you're emotionally, physically and financially ready.
• Be surrounded by people that make you wiser, happier and prettier.
• You are still young in your 20's, 30's, 40's and more.
• A relationship is partnership: Make sure he helps you too
• Always take care of your appearance
Claudia Schiffer, photo by Mark Hispard, Vogue, 1992
Fr lol I’m not judging though but……wow