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Quick rant but im sure other people can relate. To everyone who gets weirded out or confused by Asexuals.. Why tf does our sex life and sexuality concern you? We told you we don't feel sexual attraction or want to have sex, and you respond with "Well how do you know if you've never tried it?". Shut your fucking mouth, okay?🖤 We are not your little sexual objects, and on that matter, stop fetishizing the fact that most of us are virgins because of our preference. Ive dealt with men before who i told i was Asexual to, they only kept asking and bringing up my asexuality like it bothered them, and kept trying to pressure me. Quick tip from Mama, if you keep acting like someone's hatred or disinterest in sex bothers you...its pretty fucking clear you only want to get in their pants, and you have no respect for them as a human being with their own preferences and boundaries. Our sex life should **NOT** concern you. It's our buisness, and ours only. Its the same if i went up to you and said "Hey how often do you like to get pounded?" its weird. So don't ask/tell us: "They must've been bad in bed, i can change your mind." ,"How do you know if you've never had sex before?", "Oh are you a R@pe victim?", " But you've never been intimate before", "One night with me", "Have you even ever had sex before?" "Then how are you going to have children?" (I swear its like some people don't know what adoption is..). In no circumstance are these ANY appropriate things to say to anyone at that matter. Keep in mind, at the time when i first got comfortable coming out as an Asexual i was FOURTEEN. And i got asked these things. You were concerned about a MINOR'S... Sex life. Pretty fucking creepy. Not only that but i remember a conversation going exactly like this with a my aunt's friend who keep in mind is a 46 year old woman, asking a 14 year old this: Her: "Holy shit...I had to take a double glance because you are so beautiful. Looks like you came straight out of a vampire movie girl." Me: "oh thank you!" Her: bet you get the boys all riled up? Me: "Oh i swing more towards girls actually.." Her: "Oh thats hot, so do I.. How many women have you slept with?" Me: "...um. Im..Asexual, i haven't..like.." Her: "...so you've never had sex? Then how do you know?"

At that point my mom had to literally interrupt the conversation, because an adult should under no circumstance say that to a 14 year old. Now i don't know if she was trying to groom me, or if she was just being fucking weird. But before any homophobes talk shit because it was a woman saying this to a child, this has happened to me with BOTH men and women. People in general... Make me sick. So to anyone who is creepy like that, Fuck you.

Stay safe out there loves 🖤

dude ik ur vlog is for goths and gays but like can u include me too. the goths the gays and emuri 🥰

Ugh im so late on this, I hate to break it to you, darling, but you're already included... (cough cough, GAY BITCH💜)

*pulls you close*

*Nuzzles you*

what if we kissed above a burning pile of transphobes

Let's get married and run hand and hand away from the feds, skipping through the daisy fields...

Au revior ❤️ (If you're a terf or transphobe and come on my blog, you will be humbly dealt with (sacrificed for affordable trans healthcare). This is not a threat. Its a PROMISE.)

Advice for 🦇Baby Bats🦇

I'm Mama Bat, otherwise known as Jane, and I've been a goth for about 6 years now, so I would just like to share some advice for any baby bats just starting out 🖤

Fashion- You absolutely do not have to dress like a goth to be goth. That's why theres different names! The fashion is gothic, you can dress gothic, but goth is a musical subculture darlings. Therefore all you need to do be goth is listen to goth music

Some bands I recommend for starters: Lebanon Hanover, The cure (is a classic of course..), Siouxie and the Banshees (another big name in the goth music culture), London After Midnight, Christian Death, Scary Bitches, Depeche Mode, She Wants Revenge, Joy Divison, Twin Tribes, Bauhaus, Twin Temple, and so many more good ones, I'll leave my spotifi playlist at the bottom 🖤

PLEASE know just because someone releases music that is "edgy" or "sad", it is not Goth... Goth music fall under: Goth rock, new wave, dark wave, ethereal wave, industrial, post punk, cold wave... You get the point

Know the history! Goth music started in late 1970s, the first song to be considered goth was Bela Lugosi's Dead by Bauhaus. Back in the day there was a Goth club called The Batcave was located in London and that was the haven for goths in that time. Goth music continued to evolve throughout time as you know and here we are

Fashion! (deeper context) I know this is an often brought up topic, as I mentioned earlier the fashion is INSPIRED, its not part of the music subculture necessarily. There's many fashion categories to the gothic fashion, Trad goth, romantic goth, victorian gothic, cabaret goth, cyber goth, ect ect

Now, I know clothes are expensive..especially in this economy, but for christ sake DONT support fast shopping! Brands like dolls kill, shein, kill star, temu..dare I say Amazon..ugh..no. They go against everything we stand for, I understand its convenient but...you really don't want your hard earned coin going to people like Jeff Bezos.

Instead! Opt for exploring your creative bone! Its said a lot to thrift but I have to agree, and also..DIY is so much fun. Sewing is a great hobby to pick up as well in my opinion, but of course you could always just buy some spikes and what not for hobby lobby or whatever crafts store you like and hot glue them on.

If DIY isnt your thing, there ARE some lovely gothic brands online, I personally like devilnight.co.uk but the downside is they're quite pricey. If theres a gothic small buisness SUPPORT SUPPORT SUPPORT!!! LOVE SMALL BUSINESSES!!

The goth community is quite nice, of course theres going to be some means ones which is quite baffling to me that..as a subculture that is often criticized or made dun if that theres goth people who criticize baby bats because...hoe you were once one too?? And ive met a few 'goths' who shit on people exploring their fashion, just don't listen to them we hate those kinds.. If you choose to dress gothic its all about SELF EXPRESSION!! Be as creative and spooky as you want my love🖤

Another type of goth we dont like are conservative goths! Goth, like punk and metal is a rebellious scene so being conservative while being goth is..rather...odd.

Also, fuck white supremacists, racists, homophobes, transphobes, conservatives, people who think they have any right to a woman's body, corporate greed, if you're just a horrible person in general..absolutely not.

Other than that Goth is very welcoming, its said you can't but you can totally be religious and be goth. Being goth doesnt automatically make you a witch or satanist, you can worship Jesus and still be goth if that's what makes you happy, just be a good person!

You can be lgbtqia+, religious, old (elder goths have my full heart and love), a furry, young, disabled, it doesnt matter as long as you're a good person you are welcomed

You can also enjoy pretty much whatever you'd like, your interests don't ALL have to be goth and or gothic. If you want to listen to New Dawn Fades by Joy Division then watch an episode of My Little Pony, that sounds like an amazing day! You do that you're still completely valid.

Alright? 🥰 alright, and if any other goths want to leave any other notes, please do!

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EAT UP QUEEN <33

Reblog to give a trans woman a delicious Cuban sandwich

Gurlll I don't even check my inbox anymore because all of it is scams to the point it gets genuinely so annoying. The fact people, bots, ai, whatever is using the War in Palestine as a way to scam people is absolutely disgusting like...bitch we know damn well your name isn't Salwa, you do not live in Gaza, and you do not have kids. If it is people doing this then...stop?? Theres actually people who need donations and pretending to be one of them is so pathetic and wrong. Also stop flooding my inbox im broke as hell, as in the hell you'll be going to for doing thissss ❤️😝

If this gets by anywhere somehow and you would like to donate there are genuine Gofundme pages you can donate to, do not fall for these

Underrated Goth bands I recommend🖤

The Long Losts The Shroud

Ex-Voto Skemer

The Red Ashes Sex Blood

JE T'AIME Acid Bats

Blood Dance In a Darkened Room

Dead Souls Rising Subterfuge Luciferian Light Orchestra Gothic Sex

Bohémien The House of Usher

Not underrated but Warsong by The Cure makes me so 𝓯𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴𝔂, everyone go listen to their new album if you haven't 😝😍

TW: Sexual assult topics

My goodness how many times do we need to say it? Why the hell is it anyone's buisness if we get an abortion or not?

It should concern nobody except the person getting an abortion. But noooo, pro life people had to stick their noses in our buisness and complain.

So i'll say this. It is not any of your fucking buisness. And if your excuse is "Oh well god says its wrong" fuck you what are the fucking chosen one??? honestly i think everytime yall create a new "heavenly law", god face palms harder than the last time.

Its not murder. BY LAW, or..at least it use to be before anti abortion bitches felt the need to bitch and moan, murder isn't counted until the baby is BORN.

Also if you're so concerned about the babies who had to be born because they couldn't get an abortion, then why arent you adopting them?? Okay so you just put laws and restricted women's rights again, overpopulating the earth, and now you'll just do nothing once they don't have a good home?? "Oh we forced women to have children when they weren't ready, heh, i guess our work is done" fuck you.

What if its a child. And they were r@ped. What if you got a different woman pregnant and your wife doesnt know. What if the baby is born into people who weren't ready, or theyre abusive or drug users?

Wtf was going through your head?? Why are we forcing people to bring more people into this world?!?! I feel bad enough even thinking about bringing a child into this world, its horrible out there.

MORE SO WHY ARE PRO LIFE WOMEN TAKING AWAY THEIR OWN RIGHTS???

The world would be SUCH a better place if people learned how to mind their own fucking buisness, and stopped blaming their religion on everything.

"Oh but Jane, abortion is wrong." okay? So is R@pe. I don't see anyone protesting outside in defense of r@pe victims. But you know what i do see? "ABORTION IS MURDERRRR". You wanna know what else is murder?

All the women's deaths you caused after they felt stuck and hopeless. Scared and trapped. They weren't ready to have that baby, and yet you gave her no choice. So she killed herself. because of your dumbass decision, women are killing themselves, or dying trying. No matter how you look at it, that makes you partially responsible. (the pro lifers not you honey 🖤)

If i was part of the reason an unfair bill passed, and people were suffering because of it, i'd feel horrible. Its not fair, you weren't the one who had to go through whatever experience those women had to. Wheres your sympathy?? A woman was sexually assaulted and impregnated by that and you think she now is obliged to take care of that baby? You're not the victim, she is, so stop acting like you're hurt because of people who get abortions. Fuck you, i hope you're happy, because we're not.