Yesterday I was supposed to meet with my case manager, since we’ve never met. I had the address and even confirmed in the morning it wasn’t a Telehealth visit, like the additiona automated call I received the day before said it was. I arrived early and waited in the office. And waited. And waited.
Then I received a message from my wife saying that the case manager was at our house. She never said it was in home. I couldn’t handle anything else after that call.
I cried so much. I never ended up meeting her because I was 25 minutes away from home.
We will eventually reschedule.
Why is life so challenging?
Hi everyone,
I found a cute comic from Twitter about Autism and I thought I would share it here.
The tweet will be here in case anyone wants to view it.
Autism
This week is in the bag, or whatever that saying is. I finished my forensics paper this morning and already received my grade (100%), and just received my grade for my graphs (100%).
I’ve got 3 weeks left of business communications and 4 weeks left of forensics. Then I’m officially done with my AA! So close…
This week is a little crazy study-wise:
Forensic science - ✅ 1 chapter to read, 2-3 page paper on 1 hr video (✅ watched the video), ✅ midterm
Business communications - create 3 graphs from data sets found last week, read 1 chapter
Gender & society - ✅ read 1 chapter, two part final, posttest
Add to the fact that I’ve been driving my wife to her appts, plus getting an epidural in my neck this week. It’s a bit crazy. But I’m chugging along!
I’m so close to being done with my associates degree. I even registered for graduation two days ago!
What about when your health is a shit ton of lemons, and you have to deal with those lemons plus the life lemons? I’m so tired of making lemonade. I just want to throw those fuckers.
Source
Organizing and cleaning life hacks for the neurodiverse and spoonie crowds.
Link to Tweet
I can’t tell you how accurate this is…
Autism
ADHD
I had apple slices and brie last night for dinner
Apple slices and smoked gouda cheese
this is gonna sound like a shitpost but the best advice i have if youre consistently coming off wrong is to start talking like an elcor
you will feel like a dumdum at first, but once you get used to it youll realize that telling people what kind of thing you're about to say ahead of time flattens their anxiety a huge amount
ive been starting every question with "question:" for awhile now and i almost never get people reading too much into what i mean anymore
it seems super dumb, but "what are your plans tomorrow?" gets people asking me what i have planned despite me obviously being in the process of figuring that out, whereas "question: what are your plans tomorrow?" gets me a quick rundown of their schedule, followed by "why?"
it also makes it really easy to work tone indicators into your verbal speech. if you're always saying "question: [your question here]?" then no one blinks when you say "genuine question: [question that could read as sarcastic]?"
it also gets you out of your own way for any types of things you struggle to say. "can you make sure to do the dishes before you go to bed?" feels like an argument waiting to happen, but "request: can you make sure to do the dishes before you go to bed?" gets the words flowing on a neutral word while making it clear that you're not looking for a fight
so yeah. suggestion: talk like an elcor
Today’s studyblr is brought to you by DNA. I’m working on my forensic science class today and it’s fascinating. I really do love this class.
36F.AuDHD.INFP.Hufflepuff.Taurus.Mostly crafty, neurodivergent, astrology, and random things I enjoy.
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